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RE: cuckold - 11/25/2006 6:32:16 AM   
mnottertail


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Looks like it can't be made back into pig once it has been ground into sausage:

It is a word directly from the bird cuckoo,  the female of the species which is notorious for convincing a male that the babies are his, so he will sit the nest, while she goes out galavaniting with her boyfriends..........

Now, a man can be at a birth, and convinced that he is the father of the offspring when indeed I read somewhere that as much as 30% of children are not fathered by the one who believes he is the father, and no--- I ain't gonna bother to cite nothing, look it up......


I know several women who have not gotten around to filling out their mensa documentation, but I rather doubt the contrapositive to this argument could be sucessfully evinced, therefore I doubt truely that the ever suprising and well spoken Lam will come up with an antonym.

In the day and age of abortions and  elective birth control for women, the meaning has undergone a slight change, nevertheless; that is the meaning attributed to the word cuckold..........

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RE: cuckold - 11/25/2006 10:29:32 PM   
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I'm just curious.

What is a "reverse cuckold"?


(It's the exact same as a regular cuckold, but they walk on their hands).

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RE: cuckold - 11/26/2006 7:17:15 AM   
MysticFireTopaz


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why are there so few women interested in the cuckold lifestyle also if any of you are into it i would be interested in what you get out of such a relationship


Well, I can only speak from personal experience.  In the beginning, I had nothing for or against cuckolding.  I left it off My list of interests entirely and did not mention it one way or other in My profile.
 
Nonetheless, I was getting a flood of mail from submissives males with cuckolding as their primary interest.  Often, their introductory letter contained nothing more than their desire to be a cuckold.  I soon found this extremely tiresome.  It got to be so annoying that I listed cuckolding on the list of things I hate, and specifically requested in My profile for cuckolds not to contact Me.  This has cut down on the number of such e-mails I receive, but not eliminated them entirely. 
 
I have cuckolded in a previous (vanilla) relationship, and it did work in that case.  However, I have been in long-term relationships with submissive males with no cuckolding and was even happier.  I may or may not do it in future relationships.  If I did, it would be well into a long-term relationship, not something I did right off the bat.

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 10:55:17 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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why are there so few women interested in the cuckold lifestyle also if any of you are into it i would be interested in what you get out of such a relationship


Is it that women aren't interested or the men they have to chose from to cuckold don't meet up to their standards?

For me, it wouldn't be so much that she was humilating me by her being with another man (but that is a part of it), it is that we trust each other enough that her cuckolding me would be so she could have satisfaction of variety if she so choosed.

I think the mistake many men make in cuckolding is they are thinking in terms of their needs, not the woman's needs.

Sometimes it's just knowing that the man would be okay with her cuckolding him would be enough to make her feel special.

Personally, if my future Domme wanted to cuckold because a) she wanted bigger, b) she wanted younger, c) she wanted interracial, d) she wanted to humiliate me, e) she was just plain curious, f) any combination or more - then it would be okay as long as we had built the trust between us first.

Long story short - what's in it for her?


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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 10:58:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine
Long story short - what's in it for her?



About seven inches.

Sorry, couldnt resist

E

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 11:00:21 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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Long story short - what's in it for her?



About seven inches.

Sorry, couldnt resist

E


Well, guess I'm substandard by 2 inches :-(

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 12:34:19 PM   
LadyEllen


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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine
Long story short - what's in it for her?



About seven inches.

Sorry, couldnt resist

E


Well, guess I'm substandard by 2 inches :-(


Its the quality thats important TGD, not the quantity.

E

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 1:02:10 PM   
ToGiveDivine


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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine
Long story short - what's in it for her?



About seven inches.

Sorry, couldnt resist

E


Well, guess I'm substandard by 2 inches :-(


Its the quality thats important TGD, not the quantity.

E


You were the one that brought size into the equation - a women once said, "If I had to choose between quality or quantity, I'd pick both"  (some paraphrasing)

I talented man with 7" does have an edge on a talented man with 5"  ;-)

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 2:46:13 PM   
BORAT


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Status: offline 		In my country, when we makes cuckold of man, we also chopping off his khram and makes his wife working our field with plow.

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 2:55:32 PM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		TGD - dont get too down. 5'' would be infinitely preferable to me.

Mind you, I guess that is depressing for you.

Sorry

E

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 3:14:41 PM   
Bearlee


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Divine, hunny....not all women like to have their toncils bumped every time they have intercourse! 

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 3:18:52 PM   
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...anyway, I think some of you should Google the term.  There are plenty of cuckolds who enjoy the idea, beg for the idea, come to love the idea if they never considered it before...

Lots of websites out there with documentation from couples who love the lifestyle (which has little to do with D/s)...from both the man's and the woman's perspective.

And, as far as it being along the 'forced bi-thang'...I don't think ALL of them participate in that clean-up part.  

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RE: cuckold - 11/27/2006 3:36:37 PM   
blkqueen48


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Status: offline 		Lady Topaz?, Blkqueen here I would love to know whwere u found all those cuckolds?

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RE: cuckold - 11/28/2006 9:59:00 AM   
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Lady Topaz?, Blkqueen here I would love to know whwere u found all those cuckolds?


Hello Blkqueen,
 
I didn't find them, they were finding Me, LOL.  Since I modified My profile,  I don't get as many, but I think a few have contacted Me recently.  Most of the responses came from Collarme or Alt.
 
There's a way to find them on Collarme, though, if you are interested in a cuckold.  There is a button in the search area that says "Interest Search Off."  You just click the button.  On the next page, click the "Lifestyles" button.  You will see a place where you can check "cuckolding" as an interest.  Next do a save, then return to the search area and enter your other critieria. 
 
Just out of curiousity, I did a search for the state of Texas for male submissive cuckolds between the ages of 40 and 60 and got 103 hits.  Did the same search except for Dominant Females and only got 19 hits.  A lot more submissive males than Dominant Females appear to be interested in cuckolding.
 
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RE: cuckold - 11/28/2006 2:12:32 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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Status: offline 		Lady Topaz,

Thanks for the info as well. The majority of the interested cucks I hear from are on the other coast from me. Great to know I can do a local search as you've described. Thanks!



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RE: cuckold - 11/28/2006 2:29:42 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Lady Topaz,

Thanks for the info as well. The majority of the interested cucks I hear from are on the other coast from me. Great to know I can do a local search as you've described. Thanks!


You are most welcome.  It is a great feature to find local people with common interests.
 
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RE: cuckold - 11/28/2006 7:30:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		hello i posted the original post about cuckholds i am somewhat surprised at the amount of interest in this. i thank you all for giving your input . i do open a chat room for cuckolds but very few people ever come into it would love to see a few of the dommes with an interest in cuckolding stop in and say hi some time. would love to chat with you about it.

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RE: cuckold - 11/30/2006 1:43:02 PM   
CompelMe


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Status: offline 		"cuckold" seems to mean something different to everyone who hears it, but by definition it's simply a man whose wife has sex with other men.  I suppose it makes sense for the D/s community to use it to mean a submissive whose domme has sex with other men.  But I'd guess that the way in which that happens is different for every domme/sub pairing.  In my opinion, that's up for the domme to decide--if she decides to share the details with her submissive, or "rub his nose in it" (figuratively or literally) then so be it, but she could just as easily declare it "none of your business" and expect him to stay out of the way.  If it's driven by the dominant's desire for additional pleasure, or even by her desire to use it as a means of humbling or training her submissive, I can definitely see its value.  But if it's something she's doing to pander to his desire to watch or participate, then I'm less comfortable with the idea.

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RE: cuckold - 11/30/2006 2:31:03 PM   
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"cuckold" seems to mean something different to everyone who hears it, but by definition it's simply a man whose wife has sex with other men.  I suppose it makes sense for the D/s community to use it to mean a submissive whose domme has sex with other men.  But I'd guess that the way in which that happens is different for every domme/sub pairing.  In my opinion, that's up for the domme to decide--if she decides to share the details with her submissive, or "rub his nose in it" (figuratively or literally) then so be it, but she could just as easily declare it "none of your business" and expect him to stay out of the way.  If it's driven by the dominant's desire for additional pleasure, or even by her desire to use it as a means of humbling or training her submissive, I can definitely see its value.  But if it's something she's doing to pander to his desire to watch or participate, then I'm less comfortable with the idea.


I don't even think it's limited to other men although that is the primary understanding.  Maybe the Women / Domme wants to have sex with other women, but not let the man / sub participate.

To me, it's not if she does or doesn't - it's if she knows she can that's important.

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RE: cuckold - 11/30/2006 2:32:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		From reading the posts, there is obviously differant degrees of cuckolding. Serving the lover as well, being the most humiliatiing. This was a thread here previously, and I believe the question of saftey came up. I assume the Domina can use protection, but in its most degrading form, what protection is there for the sub. This would normally be a hard limit for me, but when one falls totally for someone, things can change.A former vanilla girlfriend I was totally in love with,was cheating on me.When I confronted her, she told me todeal with it or leave. So if I would fall for someone special, I expect she could erase many of my hard limits.I am sure I would be jealous as hell, but if it really pleased her immensely, I would deal with it.I would agree, it is a male fantasy, more than it is reality.

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