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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:07:02 PM

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Ok, now I have to ask. This is something I see so very often. I cant be the only Mommy here... but is that just not popular? Almost every reference made to age play is the Daddy/little girl dynamic. Am I just missing something, or have I fallen into a smaller niche that just doesnt tend to get represented on CM often?

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i haven't seen a lot about D/g relationships much on CM either. Although i do think the Mommy dynamic is probably a bit more of a minority, i know they are out there. i just don't know how much you'll find here. As LA said, CM doesn't seem to be much geared to either.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:09:33 PM

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At least I am not the only one. I used to identify closer to the Daddy type, but obviosuly Angel prefers mommy. I am good with that *grin*
Its a great release, stresswise, for him, I am noticing. Sometimes I envy the ability to just forget about the world and play.

DV

Oh that's the best part!

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:12:27 PM

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Im not worried about finding it here, just it being accepted. I didnt think I was alone, but I see so little of it, I guess I did want to make sure. I already have my little one (hes my femenized littel girl, which makes our dynamic even farther out of the norm on CM) but especially in a thread like this one, I feel sometimes like our experiences arent exactly what the OP is looking for ncessarily

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:17:27 PM

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Thanks for the links LA. i'll have to check them out.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:19:55 PM

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my babygirl is somewhere between 4 and 10.... i can be a very bratty girl, though usually my need to be pleasing overwhelms this.... not sure if this has been posted anywhere, but this is where i found out who i was, some years ago... i found it very informative... and it definitely touched some chords within me...
http://www.geocities.com/midnite_angel1/index.html

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:23:11 PM

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btw, lucky albatross... i've enjoyed reading a lot of your posts and am amazed at the wealth of your knowledge... smiles

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:55:58 PM

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even when I am little and having issues like crying at the lunch table at mary's pizza shack, I try to be behaved and not make a scene. I thought daddy was mad at something an he said yeah he was mad meaning irritated an I so little and sensitive it brought me to instant tears.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 11:28:24 PM

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my lil one is 6 yrs old... but I dont have a daddy at this time and my owner is not into age play.. so she mostly stays put away.

Is that kinda tough Red? i know for me, just talking about this stuff is bringing up some very fond memories

DG

It is very tough. My daddy used to be able to come visit me when he was in town for 3 to 7 days a month.. but then his position changed and he is no longer able to visit here anymore. I do miss him. But the other side to it was that it was truly a very special relationship between us and so to just go out and find another daddy to me is even more difficult than finding an owner. Would I like to have this be something I could share with my current owner.. absolutely, but then again..he isnt exactly the daddy type for me so even if he were into it.. I dont know if I could "be" that way with him anyways..

Not sure that all made sense.. but its after 1 am and I am tired :D

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 1:20:24 AM

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Yes DV, your experiences are most certainly welcome here! :D

Each post has contributed to a better understanding. It is not my kink, and i realized how it was being portrayed to me (either what i have seen, or what others have mentioned) has been really one dimensional. Thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences and insights.

Anyone else?

Humbly~*
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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 3:10:48 AM

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One part of my dynamic is D/g and much of that time is spent in me being an 8 year old girl. We play games *my favorite is I'm not touching you, in which you point a finger at the person just milimeters away from them, it always sends me into peals of laughter*, I get to colour, and have stuffed animals. Daddy explains things to me and teaches me things. I am spoiled and indulged, and frankly never feel the need to throw a temper, or act out, however mischief and laughter are encouraged.

Man is 20 years older than me, and due to my past I had a hurt little 8 year old girl inside who needed healing so perhaps it was just natural for us.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 4:21:48 AM

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It is very tough. My daddy used to be able to come visit me when he was in town for 3 to 7 days a month.. but then his position changed and he is no longer able to visit here anymore. I do miss him. But the other side to it was that it was truly a very special relationship between us and so to just go out and find another daddy to me is even more difficult than finding an owner. Would I like to have this be something I could share with my current owner.. absolutely, but then again..he isnt exactly the daddy type for me so even if he were into it.. I dont know if I could "be" that way with him anyways..

Not sure that all made sense.. but its after 1 am and I am tired :D

Yes, that made sense It can be a very emotional bonding and is tough when it's no longer available. And it is awful hard to find a Daddy Dom. i don't even know of a personals site for something like that.

With my first Daddy, it came very easily because he was really into and had experience. With the second one, he was into it but really had no experience. That was a little tougher.

i do understand what you are saying about even if your partner was into it, that you might not be able to be that way anyways. It makes a big difference if he doesn't seem like the Daddy type to you.

So i'm still looking....been almost 2 years now....but i think it will come. And who knows, maybe something will come up for you too. i'll cross my fingers for both of us!

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 7:29:33 AM

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I think there are many dynamics involved in ageplay. I enjoy most of them, but it isn't discussed much on this site. It is one of my favorite things.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 7:56:21 AM

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This is wonderful to see this here. i love age play as well, and am often reluctant to talk about it because i've not been sure how others will perceive it. We are actually primarily Daddy/little girl, or at least trying to get there, but i have a hard time letting myself go a lot of times. It's such a vulnerable place to be little, and pretty scary to let go into that.

i'll be watching this to see how other little girls and boys get little because frankly, i'm not very good at it yet. The little girl is there, just not sure she wants to come out.

Oh, and DiurnalVampire? A few years back,.when i was on alt.com i saw several mommies with littles. They would sometimes hang together in the chat rooms and it was absolutely delightful to watch the dynamics in their relationship. Sweet, funny and a bit naughty.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 7:56:38 AM

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And who knows, maybe something will come up for you too. i'll cross my fingers for both of us!

Daddysgirl

you are very sweet *hugs*

thanks dg :)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 11:53:30 AM

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I too find this an interesting subject. I've played the "occasional" Daddy in two of my LTRs.

With one sub, she was at about age 12-13 and was dealing with some very painful emotional issues that got neglected that two year span in her life due to her father's death. In our Daddy/girl dynamic, it was more about these emotional issues than any sort of sexual issues, although those were present as well. As you can imagine, it took more to deal with her curiosity and trepidation and wonder in that arena than it did the emotional one.

With the other submissive, she was about age 15-16...not really a little girl but not a full grown woman yet either. For her, it revolved more around the physical-sexual arena than around emotional issues and she viewed it more as wicked, nasty play than anything else but there was definitely a sorting that had to be done.

At this stage of my life...I still find it very interesting but I would not gravitate towards someone interested in that at the expense of someone not interested in it. While I enjoyed it and like it, I admit it would have to be more of a play arena now than a serious one. Mainly because I am dealing with things in my life outside of D/s and BDSM that require more of my time and resources mentally. And the one thing I found to be true in both instances above was that there was an extreme amount of mental energy used up. Would others who've played the Mommy/Daddy role agree?

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 12:08:57 PM

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I don't know if you have it in your area, but in my area I see a lot ads for Daddy Doms seeking in Craig'slist, craigslist.com, causual relationships or men seeking women. Good luck.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 2:19:28 PM

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i think there are a couple of good links that just explain certain areas of it:
Age and Roleplay Page
and
Ageplay - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

with me it's more of a regressing back to the mindset and attitude that you had when you were little. just as submissives can have a natural reaction when around people with dominant personas when they are in contact with them the littles(what i like to call the ones that are little girls/boys/etc.) can naturally become more into the little space(which i use to help relate to submissives as their subspace) around natural authorative/parental personalites.

personally i don't invovle sex with ageplay. with me it doesn't sit right and i have to be in a mindset that is more up to date in a sense.

most of the time my daddy doesn't punish me. previously with other daddies i've tend to come around the ones that are more joking/indulging/comforting compared to the strict but loving ones. so with me there tends to be little to no punishment so far in my daddy/daugther relationships.

i forgot to add abit. when i first started accepting my feelings of being little with a male partner(being bisexual and not feeling little around women) i too found the thought of 'ageplay' and being little 24/7 in the relationship to be weird. but the more and more i figured things out and explored my thoughts/emotions/etc. i figured out it's something i need 24/7 such as a d/s m/s relationship. though with me i don't mean 24/7 in the since that i have to be in my elementary school age range vocabulary the whole time. even with talking about things such as music,politics, religious thoughts, etc. daddy and i will talk just like any other couple but it doesn't diminish that we are still in a d/g dynamic.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/6/2006 4:55:10 PM

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i would like to undertand more about Age Play. The only times i hear about it being observed by others, it is always an arena that seems to allow poor behavior of the child.... a punishment scene if you will.

Are there non sexual. non punishment dynamics in Age Play?

Are there any poly houses with those living an Age Play dynamic?

Just curious...
Master's dorei

Me and Master havent really delved much into ageplay yet... But I tend to regress a bit when stressed or hurt more in I get scared and weepy like a small child... We havent done a single ageplay punishment scene yet that is, the only thing we have done is when I regress and become childlike Master holds me and becomes that careing safe nertering daddy type so yeah there are other ways ageplay or regretion even come into play at times, though these arent plan scenes or scenes at all but it was a daddy little one kind of situation. I dont know it that makes any sence at all, sorry

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 2/13/2007 11:04:48 AM

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heheh then you squeal stopnot touching me stopppppppppppppp. or we did, or we;d say mooooooooooom he's not , not touching meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. was very funny.

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*my favorite is I'm not touching you, in which you point a finger at the person just milimeters away from them, it always sends me into peals of laughter*,

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 2/17/2007 4:47:21 AM

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I live for ageplay but it isnt play to me. My innerchild is 8 years old and I have an innerteen who is 13. The 8 year old is out most of the time. And I think I have a most unusual relationship. I am married and live with my husband. But I have my Daddy and he lives in Australia and treats me just like his little girl. Him and hubby get along great and even think too much a like.

Since my Daddy can't be here to really punish me he tells my hubby what to do and how much and he carry's out his request. My Daddy is very inventive with his punishments. It's never just spankings. I get lines, where I have to write a sentence over and over a set amount of times and then mail them to him. Or I get a net grounding, where I cannot go on my computer for a set amount of hours, days, or weeks (I hate that). Or he tells hubby to give me a spanking (hubby is a spanko) or a mouth soaping (I cuss too much).

My Daddy encourages me to do what's best for me. He listens to me when I'm upset. He talks me through the bad times and enjoys the good times with me too. He enrolled me in school to better myself. And he totally supports me in anything that he sees that will help me. When I start to go astray he pulls me back to where I should be. He compliments me and tells me how much he loves me and how proud he is of me. He has greatly helped me to improve myself.

There is never any sexual play within my ageplay. Daddy is just and only that...my Daddy. The Daddy I never had and always longed for. We call each other and send each other gifts. And on my birthday he called me and sang happy birthday to me. This may seem like nothing but to me it was everything. My bio dad would not do this for me. He never cared for me. He ridiculed me and abused me. But that's all behind me as I now have my real Daddy.

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