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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 2/17/2007 9:02:02 AM

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Im not worried about finding it here, just it being accepted. I didnt think I was alone, but I see so little of it, I guess I did want to make sure. I already have my little one (hes my femenized littel girl, which makes our dynamic even farther out of the norm on CM) but especially in a thread like this one, I feel sometimes like our experiences arent exactly what the OP is looking for ncessarily

I cetainly like how you think

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 2/17/2007 11:46:34 AM

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if he's not interested in a super duper hard time getting any liquid out of the bottle do not get infant stage 0-6 nipples, they DO NOT allow drinking from an adult mouth, very hard very difficult, get stage 3 if you can, other wise known as fast flow, or stage 2 meduim flow and get silicone not rubber nipples.

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will be learning to drink from a bottle (potentially) and things of that nature.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 8:39:14 AM

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can age play dynamics be totally achieved in a distance relationship?

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 5:16:25 PM

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I am new here, but wanted to reply to this thread.

I am in a polyamorous relationship. There is my Daddy/Master, myself, and my sister submissive. My sister sub and I are both little girls to our Daddy. I would say my age range as little girl is between 12-15. We're all lifestyle, 24/7, and I spend almost all of my time in "little girl" mode.

Online, I used to have a slave who was my girl, and she called me mommy, so yes, it CAN work in long distance relationships.

Feel free to message me if you have any questions for me, or would just like to chat. I started out knowing almost nothing about Age Play, and have a lot of negatives associated with it. But, after my Master explained it throughly, and we found out I have a little girl inside (Master brought her out, I didn't know she was there) I've become happy being in the lifestyle :)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 5:42:32 PM

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i would like to undertand more about Age Play. The only times i hear about it being observed by others, it is always an arena that seems to allow poor behavior of the child.... a punishment scene if you will.

Are there non sexual. non punishment dynamics in Age Play?

Are there any poly houses with those living an Age Play dynamic?

Just curious...
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For me, I am both a little and a mommy. I am also into bdsm and more traditional forms of power exchange as a dominant. Most of the time, my dynamics with my adult baby/little boy involve parenting with coloring and watching cartoons, a few chores and "assignments" when necessary. I have a teachers recordplan book and hall passes. I also have "star student" cards, where I punch holes for good behavior. When all the stars are punched, I take him out for ice cream. I do enjoy spanking, but it is more for fun than punishment.

I am currently seeking a girl and I think I may have met the right one recently. I am also an "auntie" to a few littles. With them I don't have a sexual or punishement relationship. It is mainly ageplay and some times "fun" spanking. Many littles don't feel confortable with sex or punishment in "littles" headspace so they play older roles where that is more acceptable for them to handle.

Some times people who enjoy ageplay have one age or age group they identify with. Others have a few ages or age groups they enjoy playing with. Also some people who are littles are not necessarily bottoms or submissives. I frequently enjoy being "The Bad Girl" who tops, bullys and molest "the good girl". Teachers Assistants, Baby sitters, Big sisters, Cousins, frequently fall under this category. Not every one who does ageplay identifys with the bdsm/power exchange dynamics. Unfortanatly there are not as many personals sites for people who seeking ageplay partners. I co-sponser a munch for ageplayers so maybe I am more exposed to them.

Ageplay is frequently seen as roleplay and it can be roleplay for some people. Somes people have a really strong relationship with thier ageplay identity and they develop rolebased relationships. The same way master and slave is "roleplay" for some people and "identity" for other people. Niether is wrong as long as people are honest and open with the people they are playing with.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 6:16:17 PM

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i started this thread back in November, and was surprised to see it surface again. i really like the recent input, and hope the the conversation continues.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 6:39:22 PM

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i enoy age play at times becouse it is like when i also have puppy play i can be bad but still be good at it ;)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 8/2/2007 7:20:05 PM

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age play to some of us is llike touching our inner child it is a very magical place for some and can be a safe place for others it is not place to be mean to in anyway shape or form

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/19/2007 1:09:54 PM

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i'm new to the forums but not CM or ageplay... i figured i'd throw in two cents (or more).

i am in a pretty-close-to-full-time ageplay relationship with my daddy, and a lot of it is nonsexual. we don't do punishment scenes, and i try very hard to be a good girl for my daddy. i respect him and love him and i don't want to be a burden on him. i help him out as much as i can around the house (cuz he works very hard) and he takes super good care of me in return.

as for poly... it can most definitely work. whether it's a lil siblings situation with a parent figure, or a daddy-mommy/daddy-uncle type situation for one or more littles. there's all kinds of family possibilities.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/19/2007 3:09:58 PM

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can age play dynamics be totally achieved in a distance relationship?

Not for me. One of the bestest parts about bein a kid is watching movies and cuddlin up against my Daddi's boobies. They just don't make pillows like that and i'm not sure i could give that part up.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/19/2007 3:48:20 PM

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can age play dynamics be totally achieved in a distance relationship?

Ageplay is quite feasible over distance. It's not dissimilar to sex in that most of it is up here *taps his temple*. My girl and I are currently separated by about 1500 miles, but it doesn't stop us from nurturing our D/g relationship. For example, she is expected to ask permission for most things, and if she makes inappropriate decisions without me she is punished.

[side note: I know spanking is popular, but it's a lot more fun to make a punishment fit the crime...for example, messaging a stranger online without my permission may earn my girl 'time out' from online; I may choose to have her find a public method of saying she's a bad girl and apologizing...I'm sure you see what I mean; creativity, ah, that's the key!]

My girl is occasionally bratty, mostly in an unintentional way, that still earns her a talking to [and how she hates those at times]. She likes to dress up; she likes to shop. She is a very 'girly' girl, which I love about her! I make sure to let her know she's loved, and let her know when she's a good girl [and yes, this sometimes leads to sex...most definitely not everyone's cup of tea, but it is mine, and it is hers too].

I suppose I have to ask in return - what aspects of ageplay cannot be enacted over long distance? Even the classic spanking can be applied, and if the little one likes it you have them work themselves up to just the right point...then have them stop and sit in the corner, nose to the wall.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/19/2007 4:00:22 PM

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Hello MasterNdorei.
We have tried age play ourselves. It has not been successful for us. Namely because of the 'attitude' my Dom has to it, he's squicked by it, totally.
It would never of been a pivotal dynamic, just an extra for us.
I read up, seemed a good thing, and we had a role play evening.
This is where i went wrong. Id dressed as a pubescant girl. I was acting like this pubescant girl.
What i found was, to my suprise, that i was regressing. I didnt want sexual attention, the 14-16 age range id aimed for, turned into 6-7 yrs. Where as i wanted to be cuddled, and have stories read to me, do some colouring, what i was getting was actually quite traumatic, as if i were experiencing the play as a 7yr old would.
It was actually a very psychodynamic form of play, though neither of us had intended for this to happen. Regression, is a effect of age play, though it does not happen to many. It can. Be prepared for this.
With lots of after care, we talked a lot about what had happened. How we'd not really thought this one through.
Although he still remains squicked by the whole idea of age play, he does incorporate behaviours that bring on that 7 yr old in me, because he knows i like that. So whilst watching dvd, i get to sit curled up on the sofa with him, whilst he cuddles and strokes me. Tells me im a good girl etc.
Put a school girl uniform on, and he's there with whistles n bells on! but that just dont work for me. Its strange, that whilst my inner censor goes off with the 'you'd like to fuck a daugher the same age as ours!' his doesnt. Whereas, you want to be 7yrs old? does. People are strange interesting creatures arent they.
Personally, i admire the Daddy, Mommy/child dynamic. It looks very loving to me. Just not sure id be able to take that ever to a bedroom, so never sought it out.
Interestingly, whilst searching for my partner, (im a switch) i only ever met one man that inspired the sub in me, this man. Most others annoyed the crap out of me and came accross as very pretentious. Daddy doms seldom seemed to come across this way. Most of them were older, mature, seasoned guys. Who often were bear shaped, and cuddly. Far less 'pushy' or arrogant, just that calm, not easily phased external aura, that i find very attractive in anyone, be they friend, colleague, lover.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/20/2007 1:37:56 AM

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In My early forays into the lifestyle, I had a LDR with a younger male slave which evolved into his calling Me Mistress Mommy and I liked that, even though I made a conscious decision years ago never to have "real" kids. It was intended that he move to Australia but circumstances prevented that. Would have been interesting to see where that could have gone, I suspect it might have headed into a similar mode as DV and Her angel.

At My former abode, in the BDSM circle I knew, was a lovely adult baby who loved to come to parties in his diapers with his teddy bear (also diapered

) but was having a frustrating time looking for a Mommy. I was very touched when he asked Me, but not having handled diapers (very limited experience with real babies here), I didn't think I'd be convincing enough to give him a good scene as he deserved. I'm inclined to agree with DV and others in that the Mommy/son relationship is much less frequent than the Daddy/daughter one.

As a sub, i feel i have a little in there, and there are times when i would definitely like to let her out. i do tease Master sometimes "Oh dada, pweeese!" when W/we're shopping LOL ... but it's not His thing so i really can't go too far. (Darn it, neither is puppy play and i make such a cute puppy ... and i've learned all the moves from O/our cute little westie Magic!) Guess W/we're already unusual enough with Him being 15 years YOUNGER than me without adding a Daddy/daughter dynamic LMAO! But i sense it in myself enough to understand entirely that it doesn't have to be about sex and punishment unless that's what you want to make it, it can just be letting out that childlike appreciation of the world and being loved and cherished and made safe. Master of course has an inner child of His own that pops out quite frequently (also when shopping ... there must be something in the air at shopping malls LOL!) ... so every now and then my strict teacher tone is needed to get Him to behave. Yep OK ... W/we're crazy ... but gee, it's FUN!

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 9/20/2007 4:49:44 PM

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i would like to undertand more about Age Play. The only times i hear about it being observed by others, it is always an arena that seems to allow poor behavior of the child.... a punishment scene if you will.

No. While common, that is far from universal.

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Are there non sexual. non punishment dynamics in Age Play?

Yes, very much so. At least, they are available. Different people play different ways and not everyone recognizes other ways to play.

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Are there any poly houses with those living an Age Play dynamic?

Yes. Sort of.

In many parts of the US, it's possible for one adult to "adopt" another. Legally, it doesn't really mean much so courts will often just rubber stamp such "adoptions". I certainly know of folks who live more or less full time as "parent"/"child", and I've known of networks of such folks.

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