Ashkitty
Posts: 30
Joined: 6/2/2005 Status: offline
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I have a little bit of switch growing in me. Like a lot of people, what mindset I fill into is dependant on my energies with the person I'm interacting with. As a general rule only, if I'm playing with someone who is, has been and will be completely Dominant to me, I could never even think about domming them as I would lose all respect for their controlling ability quite easily. (Granted, I will occasionally try and fail, reveling in such failure-- or rather successive reinforcement of the Dominant's control.) I've met a lot of boys who merely play Dom, and if I ever catch the upper hand I will generally hold myself up there and my perspective will change. I joke around about it a lot. (If only the icy glare from a playdom when I pat his head and tell him he's been such a good little puppy didn't AMUSE me so much....) Girls are a different, very complicated matter though. I've not yet found a girl who was interested in me to the point of my being comfortable enough with her and myself to dominate one, though it's a huge fantasy of mine. I've never had the chance or inclination to switch during a scene, however, I could see me being overpowered as the dominant force and shoved into submission mid-play far more likely than the reverse senario.
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