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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 9:26:17 AM   
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*fast reply ... but kind of in response to bandit's comment about strong opinions*

The reason that we have been taught our whole lives that a woman on her period is bad is because, historically, procreation was the number one job of a woman ... and a woman on her period is a "bad woman" because she isn't pregnant.  Doesn't make it true ... but that's where at least 90% of the stigma comes from.

I will say this though, to anyone who is trying to get pregnant - the Jewish tradition of no touching during the 'unclean' time is a very good idea.  Abstaining for that little while every month makes it more likely that a pregnancy will occur. 

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 10:53:11 AM   
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yes at one time it was a taboo  but now it should be welcome time of the month

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 11:08:08 AM   
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It actually goes back to the whole ancient Jewish rules against blood. Pagans used blood in all their rituals - and the Jews were set apart my all those 100s of rules.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 6:04:02 PM   
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Regardless of how heavy your flow is, some women I've been with have simply inserted tampons and washed themselves up before they indulge themselves in some oral stimulation from their partners without having much of a mess to view after their pleasure is over.  You'll also find that certain techniques for massage and using reflexology on the ankles above the feet can reduce the symptoms from menstruation and greatly improve how things might feel for you at that particular time of the month.
 
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Thanks pixel, I'll have to read up about the massage techniques..as for the tampons, I bleed through the biggest one they have in under an hour...just easier to skip the heavy days.
I have had someone perform oral on me on one of my lighter days, and ya know, its all good...course, he was in a good position, had his head in my lap..I wouldn't rule it out completely, just really not my thing.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 9:44:17 PM   
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Actually, george, I believe that you will find that most pagan groups had their issues with menstruation as well - "moon huts" to keep the women separated, and so on.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 11:14:54 PM   
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Suppose I should have looked this up first but it is late.  If I remember right the moon hut stuff was native american/canadian.  pagans had no problem with a menstrating woman as woman were sacred in their culture.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/11/2007 11:21:01 PM   
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Ok, substitute "ancient cultures" for "pagan" ... mistake made in phrasing, but the fact remains that the stigma of menstruating females is NOT a result of the Jewish prohibition of blood - it's found in many cultures around the world from waaaaaayyyyyy back.  Plus, I would like to point out that I said "and so on" - meaning there are other examples, that was just the one that came to mind at the moment.

I know that many pagan and other ancient cultures venerated women - as the "earth mother" and as procreators (among other things, but those are what the totems show most often) ... which is most of why a menstruating woman was seen as bad - again, a menstruating woman is not a pregnant woman, so she was not fulfilling her role as a woman in the eyes of the various cultures.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/12/2007 6:19:35 PM   
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Thanks pixel, I'll have to read up about the massage techniques..as for the tampons, I bleed through the biggest one they have in under an hour...just easier to skip the heavy days.
I have had someone perform oral on me on one of my lighter days, and ya know, its all good...course, he was in a good position, had his head in my lap..I wouldn't rule it out completely, just really not my thing.

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The massage techniques I mentioned are something I've never specifically read about.  Instead, they're mostly things that I learned on my own.  I have a very good sense of touch, and followed my instincts to discover things that genuinely worked for my former Mistress/spouse.  They are very intimate in their nature, and not something you'd want to have a beginner try to do for you.
 
However, the reflexology maps will clearly show you or your sub where to apply pressure to the feet, ankles and/or hands to help you during your periods.  The book which I learned from is: ‘The Family Guide to Reflexology’ ©1998 by Ann Gillanders, which I purchased from Amazon a number of years ago.  I believe she has written several books on Reflexology and would have no problem recommending this particular book to others.  I will also add, that in my experience, Reflexology applied to the hands is not nearly as easy or effective as when applied to the feet instead.
 
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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/14/2007 9:20:47 AM   
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I love pleasing my Mistress orally! anytime any place. The only way i like oral more is to be tied up and forced to orally please her. One night she was on her period and really bitchy. she put me on my knees and tied my hands behind my back... I earnd my red-wings... love it, love it, love it!!!!

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/14/2007 12:30:35 PM   
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You all must have neater periods than me then cause my pads get covered from front to back.


ok....THAT was tmi..lol

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 1/14/2007 9:53:46 PM   
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You all must have neater periods than me then cause my pads get covered from front to back.

ok....THAT was tmi..lol
On a thread about oral sex during menstruation, you're thrown off by menstrual pad being soaked?     Stick around as we can do much better than that here,  LOL   M

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 4:48:02 AM   
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as a sissy sub i enjoy oreal sex and the dirty pads make great gags and it shows your mistress that your under her total control

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 5:33:35 AM   
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*choke*

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 5:43:16 AM   
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as a sub i look forward to it  have you ever tried on a sub you might enjoy it

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 6:10:18 AM   
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I AM a sub or at least pretending to be..

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 6:14:04 AM   
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so now i see y you might not like it its not for everyone it just means to me me as the ultimte surrender for me

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 6:23:39 AM   
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While this is something i've never done...it's something i'd like to experience at some point...for one reason or another, it just hasn't come up.

A little bit off topic though...when i was in my 20s...i'd taken a woman to a wedding, and afterwards we'd gone to a hotel room to enjoy each other...well, she never told me she was having her period, and she had what she described as a heavy flow..however she described this after the fact, and as we were fucking, i looked down to see my cock covered in blood...it totally freaked me out until she fessed up to the flow...after that i was good with it, and we continued on, after totally screwing up some hotel sheets and towels...but it scared the living hell out of me before i knew what was going on...she didn't know it at the time, but it was a bigtime mindfuck.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 6:27:22 AM   
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iam glad you enjoy it but tasting it feel is alot better to clean her up wiyh your mouth

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 9:27:02 PM   
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I do not have my cycle any longer.  Who Hoo, I have been fixed! LOL
When I had it, I would not let anyone look at me much less service me, but several Dommes I know enjoy it.
It is up to the individual.

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RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation - 4/7/2007 10:42:06 PM   
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No.

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