I'm totally down with playing with other's nipples. I think nipples, and everything they are attached to, are great! I could just as easily not.
For myself, though? I am not a fan, nor have I ever been. I will allow some nipple contact, if the other person REALLY likes it (I've been with people who really, really, like boobs, and would at least like to fondle them SOMEWHAT), but it's just that -- I endure it. I don't enjoy it, and too much or too "intense" or too "focused" nipple action really turns me off.
I always have people sort of blink strangely at me when I tell them that, for they seem to assume that boobs = pleasure. Not always, though.
'is simplicity best, or simply the easiest?
the narrowest path is always the holiest.
so walk on barefoot for me,
suffer some misery,
if you want my love.'
[ depechemode judas ]