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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/6/2008 11:49:41 AM

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Some men me included like to have their nipples played with. I know some men and women who are turned off by the ideal. What's your feed back on it.

Personally I'd be surpriseed to hear that there are men who have lost interest in nipple play altogether. I know I was shocked to learn that some aren't into bjs, myself , and that some aren't even interested in doing anything other than spanking -- it is just another 'news flash' about how nuanced human sexality actually is.

Nowadays, I think if you can imagine it, somewhere some place a group of folks is 'into it', and I'm also learning the not every group is 'into' the same things as the men I have been alone with, making out, are. I wouldn't be surprised anymore to learn some men -- women - or a variartion of the dicomoty of gender roles -- aren't even into french kissing. I feel like I'm in 'remedial reading' for health class -- sex ed 101 -- anymore, LOL.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/6/2008 11:51:19 AM

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I know I was shocked to learn that some aren't into bjs

soem partners "suck" at it....and then it takes to long...lol

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/6/2008 12:05:37 PM

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As soon as anyone starts to play with my nipples, their hand gets knocked not to gently away.. It is one of the things I inform any partner that my nipples are a no go zone. I'll play happily with a woman's nipples all day like a kid with pile of xmas presents but someone playing with mine brings on a desire to vomit and take a long drive to get over the sensation.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/6/2008 12:07:41 PM

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i've yet to have any man tell me i couldn't suck, lick, or chew on their nipples

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/6/2008 7:37:01 PM

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Some people just don't like them :(

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Then again I get very little from external stimulation. I've only actually *enjoyed* it a few times (and my partner was working *very* hard and for quite a while before I did) and I've only actually orgasmed from them once (though that's not as surprising as some men just can't) though that took over an hour, and a lot of vacuum-like activity *ahem*

It's differences in physiologies

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/7/2008 12:11:12 AM

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Touching my nipples pisses me off. I'm not sure why, but it always puts me in a really irritated mood, every time.

I wish I liked it.
I just never have.

It manages to almost entirely diminish my sex drive in that moment.

It probably stems from one of my first Doms who insisted that

nipples+clothespins= the most fun in the whole world

unfortunately, I was never of the same mindset.

Anything nipple play... including kissing and stuff... does nothing for my current partner. It's tough for him because I'm a girl and I have boobs, and he's naturally like "ooh, nipples" and I'm not so into that.

It's probably REALLY individual. Just like most other kinds of play.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/7/2008 3:15:54 AM

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I'm totally down with playing with other's nipples. I think nipples, and everything they are attached to, are great! I could just as easily not.

For myself, though? I am not a fan, nor have I ever been. I will allow some nipple contact, if the other person REALLY likes it (I've been with people who really, really, like boobs, and would at least like to fondle them SOMEWHAT), but it's just that -- I endure it. I don't enjoy it, and too much or too "intense" or too "focused" nipple action really turns me off.

I always have people sort of blink strangely at me when I tell them that, for they seem to assume that boobs = pleasure. Not always, though.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/7/2008 3:43:06 PM

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I have only had a few male partners that enjoyed nipple play. I think it's great fun fun I reserve it for last as they tend to explode soon as I play with the nipples. ;)

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/7/2008 5:54:34 PM

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nippy play ? YES PLEASE !!

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/7/2008 6:45:34 PM

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It's not about "play".... It's training and growing and enhancing....

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/8/2008 1:00:59 AM

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Well, considering that male nipples are made of the same erectile tissue with the same sort of nerve endings as female nipples, I would assume that one would get the same sorts of reactions (barring hormonal changes, etc). That is, some women have overly sensitive nipples where in too much sensation causes bad pain, some women have nipples that LOVE to be touched, and some women have very little sensitivity. Physiologically, it seems it would be the same for men.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/8/2008 2:48:43 PM

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1. i have very little experience with it so im not sure what he means when he says "Put some passion in it"

Personally, if I said this to you, I'd be wanting you to put some zeal into it and focus on something with dogged determination. But that's just me. You'd be wise to ask him directly out side of a scene sometime ^_^

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/25/2008 10:40:28 AM

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My nipples are extremely sensitive. Its just my experience though, some people seem to enjoy it. Some people seem to hate it. I kind of fall in the middle I suppose.. there are times when its wonderful, other times absolute torture.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/25/2008 12:50:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: love2tieup
I swear, my nipples and my dick are wired together somehow....

I love it when males say that - and they all express it the same way love2 does ! If I had a nickle for every time I've heard this, I could take ALL of you out to Happy Hour (plane fare and everything !)

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/25/2008 1:05:13 PM

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I LOVE playing with nipples, be it male or female. I once played with a sub who enjoyed nipple play so much that he did it on his own with clamps etc. The only issue was that he had toughened the nipple area so much that for Me to pull or bite, there was no sensation. I actually had to order him to stop playing with his nipples and start moisturizing them in order to soften them.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/25/2008 1:23:37 PM

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Looooooooooooooooooooooove, giving male partners' nipples attention, much attention, I could do so indefinitely, I think. Love it! :>
Davan
(Who, in case you were at all uncertain, has a thing for nipples when they're attached to someone she cares about)

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/17/2023 3:03:38 PM

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I LOVE nipple play I have grown mine, I love suction on them

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/19/2023 7:07:24 AM

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I Love nipple play. I have grown my nips huge.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/19/2023 7:08:47 AM

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I Love nipple play. I have grown my nips huge.

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RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/20/2023 12:19:48 PM

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Wow Never heard of that happening! I'd hate to lose the sensitivity

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