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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 2:29:18 AM   
Domspaintoy


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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

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ORIGINAL: Mikida

I just have a simple little question:

As a Master how do you handle your slave when she is on her period? I know some people enjoy sex during this time and some don't. I'm just curious to everyone's different views to this subject.

THANKS!


Anal sex and blow jobs.

C~



Lol! i was going to add this myself, as Master always says, 'you have 3 holes slut' but it makes no difference to either of U/us, the only time He may not fuck me whilst mentruating is if im particularly heavy (which is rare).

dpt.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 2:36:56 AM   
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Saying that something is 'unnatural' and therefore a health risk is a stupid, uninformed argument. 



I respectfully suggest you're being rather harsh in your assessment. I think it's being prudent to not take a drug that has the potential for long term side effects. While you may not have many of the typical side effects, that doesn't mean other women will have the same experience. Depo-Provera is a hormone. Hormones have profound effects on the body because they do not act alone. It's a complex interconnected system where a change in level in one hormone can often impact more than just the function typically associated with that particular hormone. I suspect this is why Depo-Provera use is associated with osteoporosis.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 2:44:58 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		ughh.. the dreaded Depo-Provera

I'm on this stuff for the last time... the break outs, the weight gain....  I just needed something to control my mood swings.. they get.. REALLY bad..

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 5:14:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Pfft. Period, schmeriod... there's no way that a little bit of blood is going to slow me down. I've lapped at cuts and scrapes ever since I can remember - there's definitely no aversion to the red stuff in my system. As Aqua's mentioned, though, I don't go down on her when she's on her period; the combination of her natural ejaculate and the coppery taste of blood are a little much for me to handle. The other aspects of our sex/play life sail on completely undaunted.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 6:46:48 AM   
sublimelysensual


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Status: offline 		     I tend to get very emotional as well, but have always been very upfront about it when in a relationship, even to the extent of being in the midst of crying and apologizing, saying..I know I'm hormonal right now..lol. For me, it runs more to that than to being a b*tch.
 
    Sexually speaking..I find during my cycle I'm more turned on, I enjoy the intercourse more, and have much easier orgasms. I'm at a point now where I don't know that I would want to be with someone who would want to avoid vaginal sex that time of month..I just enjoy it tooooo much, lol...
 
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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 8:13:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		actually its ok to delay or stop your period for months on end. its only the modern women who has as many periods as we do now. In the past, women were either pregnant more or nursing and didnt menstrate as much. The issue isnt stoping the[period, its the chemicals required to do it.  My Master always says, cant trust an animal that can bleed for 7 days and not die!  

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 11:48:58 AM   
Slavetrainer2007


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Status: offline 		This is the secret reason why guys have a girl on the side. Just for that time of the month.

Seriously,their are plenty of other things to do during a period even non play wise. If you( the guy) becomes "anexious" about it, it just drags it out. It dont really affect me or bother me much i just work around in and next thing you know its over quickly.Unfortantely, she dont have as easy of a time with it.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 11:51:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Poppygirl

My Master always says, cant trust an animal that can bleed for 7 days and not die!  


My saying always was "Anything that bleeds more than 3 days and is still alive has to be evil"

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:03:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only problem I have with women and their cycle is this, In a poly house hold most after living together for a while tends to cycle together,shit this ain't good.. smile..bounty

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:14:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

The only problem I have with women and their cycle is this, In a poly house hold most after living together for a while tends to cycle together,shit this ain't good.. smile..bounty


Multiple women, all PMSing. You know I have heard it said there are some things even an all-mighty master will run from. That sounds like one of those things!

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:17:04 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		Yes its hard on an ol' master,smiles spends lots of time with the horses at least they aren't pmsing ..oh hell star my mare is just as bad,chasing all the gelding around..

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:24:34 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		My Dom is ok with it, though it takes a little longer to play since he is constantly washing his hands. But it is ok with the both of us, gets me more time to "recuperate" after a punishment or to "cool down" a little after a long play session

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:28:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually that's not true, Periods can and are quite often stoped prolonged or ended all together. My birthcontrol shot has ended any periods I would of been having, but it has downsides and eventually potential health risks to stop a period.

i'm going to have to agree with you FelinePersuasion, i'm as well on the bc shot and there ups and downs. Right now i'm having a down, but i love it where you don't have your periods very often, if at all.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:35:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Throughout the session I would fold some fresh tissue and gently clean her. I didn't even think about my former concerns, I just did it as though I was handling a precious treasure. It was so intimate, so loving. She was at her most vulnerable and I only wanted to care for her to the best of my ability.


My Dom will do the same thing with cleaning me, but than i do get embarassed by it

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 12:36:20 PM   
CutieMouse


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Status: offline 		Women do menstruate more today than they were probably meant to originally. Girls are starting menstruation at earlier ages; women are less likely to have large families/breastfeed long term (which causes lactation ammonoreah), etc. There are some studies that show you can alter your cycle with nutrition/messing with the light patterns of the lunar cycle (using artificial light sources) - which will either lengthen or shorten your cycle, or use BC pills to reduce/eliminate periods (which has it's own risks)... but bleeding once a month, every month, 4-7 days at a time, for 30+ years isn't necessarily how things were designed to work...

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/4/2007 1:30:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Honestly it's up to the Dominant, if mine wanted to use me then i would accept it.  I may hate safewords and refuse to use them but i've always got one just incase it ever gets to bad.

I have used it once durring anal due to severe cramping i think i'm finally out of that phase now.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/5/2007 3:20:29 AM   
lilya


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Status: offline 		A towel to protect the sheets and my tongue to clean him afterwards ;-)

I have only known my Dom for a bit over a month and when I first asked him how he felt about playing/having sex while I'm menstruating he was a bit reluctant because of the potential messinness. But his reluctance disappeared when I told him I would be happy to clean him up with my tongue, from head to toe if need be (I think it actually turned him on a bit to see my enthousiasm when answering his question). I really enjoy playing during my period -- the psychological aspects of the scene calm the mood swings associated with the hormonal changes and physically I am a lot more sensitive, both to pain and to sexual stimuli -- and penetration is the best and most pleasant anti-cramps medicine I've found so far. So, licking off my own bodily fluids is a small price to pay for the intense pleasure I receive in return (actually, it's no price as well as it really turns me on).

lylia

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/5/2007 12:07:48 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER
The only problem I have with women and their cycle is this, In a poly house hold most after living together for a while tends to cycle together,shit this ain't good.. smile..bounty

Multiple women, all PMSing. You know I have heard it said there are some things even an all-mighty master will run from. That sounds like one of those things!


Same thing with female roomates or even close friends or co-workers; their cycles can get get ont he same cycle. My best friend an I were so close, we started 12 hours apart exactly, thats how she knew I was pregnant, I didn't get up and take a shower first thing in the morning on Halloween in 1999, by the time the Halloween party that night she looked at me and gave me a bag with 5 tests in, 15 min later, they were ALL positive; we were both happy and she headed for the chocolate while I headed for the pepermint.
 
 
About the OP:
Now, I just plan when I am going to see someone for when I am not on my period. I keep my calander in my purse so I can look, after almost 20 years, I have this thing down, I look, count and plan for when I am 'all clear' to see someone. If my partner lives close or we live together, nbd, sex in the shower, a bit more understanding on his part, my 'hormone chocolate' stash and yoga, I am a happy camper. I don't really change my life for my period, its not a big deal, its life.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/5/2007 12:37:49 PM   
daddysprop247


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Master enjoys my other bodily openings at that time. 


ditto.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 7/5/2007 12:52:59 PM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

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Master enjoys my other bodily openings at that time. 


ditto.


I always admired a man who was happy to dive in and join with the elements that make us feminine, and that includes blood. Of course, there are some guys out there who are terrified of female blood when it comes from down there.

It's all part of life's rich tapestry .

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