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Mistres4FemSub -> Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:17:22 AM)

Never even spoke to this person at all and got an email like this...not sure what the point is..any one care to elaborate for me?  Just curious if this happens to others..



btw - if you have the balls to demand a pic from someone in your profile, have the decency to have a clear photo of yourself here-your pic is quite lame and dont bother responding and BLOCKING ME  you cunt- it will be deleted before I read it

Thanks for any input..



LadyEllen -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:21:07 AM)

There's a thread ongoing "proving you're female" or some such, on a similar theme.

It does seem to happen to quite a few people. I dont know about your case, but often it turns out the anger is to do with the frustration of a masturbatory opportunity of some sort.

It always makes me wonder, whether these jerks would have the courage to say stuff like this to one's face? I expect not.

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diamonddreamlove -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:21:23 AM)

What an ***hole.  Not received one but that is just another way of controlling how you think about yourself.  Don't let it bother you cause it would be a waste of time.  Folks like that are not good playmates.  They have a bad day and will beat the living hell out of you just for fun and that is even if you are a Dom/Domme.  Let them be miserable alone and maybe they will someday want to find out what bdsm is all about.  Too bad for them the more enemys they make they harder it will be for them to find someone willing to play. 



toservez -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:22:37 AM)

Many people have issues, many like attention and if it not good attention then bad works for them as well. Many people on this site think that everyone should feel their frustration from not finding their other and act out on that in different ways.

Find the humor in them, delete, block and move on. Never ever get affected by what strangers write in cyber space no matter how little.



Mistres4FemSub -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:29:12 AM)

Oh I don't let it affect how I feel about myself :)

I was just curious if this was something a large amount of members experience on Collarme. 

I just wished him a Happy Thanksgiving and thanked him for his kind thoughts :)




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:35:19 AM)

i would reply to this, but what i would say would be greatly frowned upon by the powers that be.



Kalira -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:37:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistres4FemSub

Never even spoke to this person at all and got an email like this...not sure what the point is..any one care to elaborate for me?  Just curious if this happens to others..



btw - if you have the balls to demand a pic from someone in your profile, have the decency to have a clear photo of yourself here-your pic is quite lame and dont bother responding and BLOCKING ME  you cunt- it will be deleted before I read it

Thanks for any input..

Hmm lol

Am I the only one who gets a huge kick out of receiving mail like this lol? I love it, it gives me a chance to be really mean, and it's the only time that Master will let me be like that [&:]

Maybe it's just because I have such a convulted sense of humor

/shrug



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:40:40 AM)

Yes, I get these once in a great while.  The pattern that I noticed is that they usually are from one of the groups I have stated in My profile that I am not interested in meeting (e.g. male dominants, switches, married men.)  I am wondering if these people feel rejected by being in an excluded category on someone's profile and feel the need to lash out?  If it was a man looking at your profile, and saw that you wanted females only, maybe this occurred with him.  Only a theory, who knows.
 
I think your response was a good one :)  I'll usually send something similar to what you sent, then block them. 
 
Lady Topaz



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 9:41:45 AM)

You're on the internet.  That should explain everything.



Tikkiee -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:00:18 AM)

The delete and block buttons are wonderful things [:)]



kittensmailbox -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:14:48 AM)

Sweetie, it is out of jelousy...  ppl write write hate mail or speak to you rudely because they are jealous or the simple fact that they hate their own lives, so they want everyone else to feel as poorly as they do....  Blow it off sweetie, if anything, feel sorry for them...  



MzTlaz -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:28:14 AM)

Well...as it hasn't been said already...

Sometimes people write these type of letters because they are attracted to you but feel/think you won't be to them, that they don't meet your requirements or just plain don't stand a chance.  So....they write in anger.  So often I get that type of mail when I've sent a "No thanks, good luck" message to someone's first e-mail....hell, one guy was so nasty after I rejected him politely he used two e-mail addresses to insult me and then had his friend write me to do the same. 

Bottom line is....some people just can't handle rejection...actual or imagined!



sissifytoserve -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:34:45 AM)

I get it from people I don't even know (mostly Female) sometimes like....


"A Mistress is never going to want someonelike you"

"Your attitude sucks"

I just ignore it. Obviously people like this don't have a life
or they just want to abuse you because they are so shallow that is how
they make themselves feel good.



juliaoceania -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:41:22 AM)

You have a very nice figure and the wanker was just mad that he could not see your face and had no hope of scoring with you. Dont sweat it.



WyrdRich -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:44:17 AM)

      Have you considered the possibilty that this is intended as a constructive criticism??? 

quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve
"Your attitude sucks"

I just ignore it. Obviously people like this don't have a life
or they just want to abuse you because they are so shallow that is how
they make themselves feel good.



LadyMarmalade1 -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:47:18 AM)

I just got a nasty little one this evening, insulting me with less than 2 words.  Just let it roll off your back and dont let it have any meaning to you :)



MissyRane -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:52:52 AM)

oh gosh I can't help it but... giuchie, giuchie, yaya dada, giuchie,giuchie, ya ya here...mocha choa lata yaya, creole lady marmalaaaaaaade
I love your niiiiiiiiick[:D]



DianeB269 -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:56:13 AM)

You're not alone, I get shit emails like that everyday. The delete and block user
buttons are your friends.



sissifytoserve -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 10:58:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

Have you considered the possibilty that this is intended as a constructive criticism???




Hey Rich...I know you don't like me so...if you want to try and make me look bad
do your worst. Won't stop me fromposting. I won't be driven off.



james66 -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:00:23 AM)

just feel sorry for them.....can't be easy for people like that.....



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