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marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 2:43:34 PM)

Phew!  Close call.  I thought you were about to say you were then banished to a solitary life on a 'dessert' island eating shitty cakes.





BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:25:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

And I cannot commisserate with any aspect of this thread, since I don't eat cake and would have told you to make a pie.

Ron



Uh oh.......... I ate the last piece of pie this morning.  [sm=dance.gif]




mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:30:32 PM)

Your sufferings and your travail will echo the winds of time for that little stunt, lady..........

May I ask before your inchoerent and thoughtless screams begin, what kind of pie it might have been?

Ron 




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:35:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Your sufferings and your travail will echo the winds of time for that little stunt, lady..........

May I ask before your inchoerent and thoughtless screams begin, what kind of pie it might have been?

Ron 


Pecan pie....... homemade with freshly shelled Louisiana pecans...... all ooey and gooey and yummy. [sm=mrpuffy.gif]




mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:36:03 PM)

Ohhhhhhhhhhh............that's gonna hurt, love.

Ron




marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:38:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel


Don't mind me, but I wanted to just throw this into the mix...... I am an empath (I know some people don't believe in this stuff, but I am), and it's not something I can control.  I don't have to know someone or even be near them to feel what they are feeling. 

It can become quite overwhelming at times, especially when I can't discern their feelings from my own.  Just imagine having feelings, only they aren't yours... [&:]  If it happens to be people I'm emotionally or intimately close to, the feelings are usually even stronger.  And yes, their feelings or actions often affect mine, even if it has nothing to do with me.






If its any consolation coming from a complete stranger, I understand exactly what you are saying. I and do mean exactly.
 
As far as being an "empath" goes, my case is pretty extreme, but it doesn't occur as the result of 'disappointment' for me.  It's something that strikes when there is a high level of tragedy or sadness.  Therefore, it has never surfaced in/or interfered with any aspect of my submission. 

I have been like this since very young childhood and have dealt with it for years, so if you don't mind the unsolicited advice, I would say dont worry about it affecting your relationships,  and try not to put it in your head that it's going to surface in your Ds relations.  I mean, yes, I have felt lousey when I've disappointed someone I was submitting to, but dont worry, thats common and its nothing like the kind of pain we experience as empathy.  




mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:41:35 PM)

you guys actually look somewhat alike................are you adopted?






BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:48:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo
If its any consolation coming from a complete stranger, I understand exactly what you are saying. I and do mean exactly.
 
As far as being an "empath" goes, my case is pretty extreme, but it doesn't occur as the result of 'disappointment' for me.  It's something that strikes when there is a high level of tragedy or sadness.  Therefore, it has never surfaced in/or interfered with any aspect of my submission. 

I have been like this since very young childhood and have dealt with it for years, so if you don't mind the unsolicited advice, I would say dont worry about it affecting your relationships,  and try not to put it in your head that it's going to surface in your Ds relations.  I mean, yes, I have felt lousey when I've disappointed someone I was submitting to, but dont worry, thats common and its nothing like the kind of pain we experience as empathy.  



Thank you Marie.  It can be quite the challenge in a vanilla relationship, so I'm hoping it doesn't become an overwhelming issue in my D/s relationship.  There are days I wish I could just turn it off and not know what the other person is feeling, but it just doesn't work that way.  It definitely makes things more interesting and complicated.

Anyway, thank you for your insight and advice.....

And I apologize to wench for hijacking her thread with talks of empathy and pies. [&:]  Ron is a bad influence.  That's my story and I'm stickin' to it. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/s4.gif[/image]  [:D]




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:51:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

you guys actually look somewhat alike................are you adopted?



Ahahaha well I don't know what Marie looks like, but nope, I'm definitely not adopted. 




marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 3:58:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

you guys actually look somewhat alike................are you adopted?




Ahahaha well I don't know what Marie looks like, but nope, I'm definitely not adopted. 



well, you see...it's like this..... our cleavage looks similar, so in Ron's world, we look alike.




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:04:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

well, you see...it's like this..... our cleavage looks similar, so in Ron's world, we look alike.



[sm=lol.gif] Aha!  I understand now... thank you for enlightening me. [8|]





mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:10:56 PM)

YOU BOTH appear rather dark complected, both have dark hair, wear dark clothes, have kinda the same outlook,  both are empaths and as the final straw, both have tits, but that wasn't the first thing I looked at, it was an indication of species is all. (but it wasn't for goddamn sure the last thing I looked at either, I am a man, not an empath)

Ron 




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:19:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

YOU BOTH appear rather dark complected, both have dark hair, wear dark clothes, have kinda the same outlook,  both are empaths and as the final straw, both have tits, but that wasn't the first thing I looked at, it was an indication of species is all. (but it wasn't for goddamn sure the last thing I looked at either, I am a man, not an empath)

Ron 


Well okay then.
Want a cookie?  I did, afterall, eat the last piece of pie. [sm=dance.gif]




mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:30:19 PM)

You are unbelievable, you think that dodge is gonna get you out of the sore travail you now lie in?  You ate the last piece of pie, and probably the first one too, and now you offer me some goddamn cookie?

Heads will roll...............

Ron




marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:35:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

YOU BOTH appear rather dark complected, both have dark hair, wear dark clothes, have kinda the same outlook,  both are empaths and as the final straw, both have tits, but that wasn't the first thing I looked at, it was an indication of species is all. (but it wasn't for goddamn sure the last thing I looked at either, I am a man, not an empath)

Ron 


You must have me confused with someone else who has tits.  




mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:42:35 PM)

well, MarieofTwoTits, if you have cleaveage one would hope you have semi-pendulous structures on your forefront that are not caused by a sunken sternum, in the fully clothed picture that has you sitting in your kitchen in a natural environment you have what I as a layman would call  admirable tits or a real artists knck for hiding an iron lung in the cupboard. Of course, it was only from the waist up, but they arppeared to be as large as your smile, which I found quite attractive.

Ron   




marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 4:54:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

well, MarieofTwoTits, if you have cleaveage one would hope you have semi-pendulous structures on your forefront that are not caused by a sunken sternum, in the fully clothed picture that has you sitting in your kitchen in a natural environment you have what I as a layman would call  admirable tits or a real artists knck for hiding an iron lung in the cupboard. Of course, it was only from the waist up, but they arppeared to be as large as your smile, which I found quite attractive.

Ron   



Flattery will get you everywhere.  Lets steal whatshername's pecan pie and ride off into the sunset.  She can't love you like I can! 




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 5:00:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo
Flattery will get you everywhere.  Lets steal whatshername's pecan pie and ride off into the sunset.  She can't love you like I can! 


Uh, may I remind you two that whatshername ate the last of the pie and she just ate Ron's cookie too...... Ummmm wait, that didn't sound right  [sm=whoa.gif]........ oh nevermind! [;)]




marieToo -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 5:08:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo
Flattery will get you everywhere.  Lets steal whatshername's pecan pie and ride off into the sunset.  She can't love you like I can! 


Uh, may I remind you two that whatshername ate the last of the pie and she just ate Ron's cookie too...... Ummmm wait, that didn't sound right  [sm=whoa.gif]........ oh nevermind! [;)]



Oh, I bet it sounded just fine to Ron! 

That two-bit run-around-s-o-b.

Without the pecan pie, this is hardly worth it anymore. 

You can have him and his damn cookie. He's all yours.






mnottertail -> RE: an uncomfortable experience today (11/25/2006 5:19:05 PM)

LOL, we got A gal from red stick, who found a Master, damn near the day she joined and now out here eating my pie, and a girl from Joisey who wouldn't make a move from it because Minnesota is so backwards, and they are fighting over who has to take my sorry ass............I am in heaven. 

it is all about me,

Ron




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