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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 7:49:55 PM   
jonathan


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Status: offline 		LA, thanks, but i tried that for almost 2 months and moved here anyway. Grateful that You posted here, thank You, always enjoyed reading Yours elsewhere.

benji, i can think of several languages and dialects in which to address you, but i choose Oz: bugger off.

This was a serious question about One i care deeply about and have lost control. Well, after all it was about losing control, but not like this.


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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 7:50:28 PM   
briska


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Status: offline 		Your WHAT? And, even though i'm not male, sure, i'm sure my partner has been irrational at times, but it's part of being human, not male/female, dom/sub... Also, if it's a female you're talking about - PMS?

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 7:51:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Hey, Aileen......

You're a bitch.  Have some respect.  If you're not a man, don't reply.  If you are a man, I still want to bang you till the bed breaks.

Does that make me sound gay?

Yours,


benji



DAMN this is funny!

Hilarious!!!! 

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:03:13 PM   
briska


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Status: offline 		my Sir says in response to the OP:

" Personal actions other than for displeasure justifies and exemplifies the salute and threatening actions deserving?  Binds notwithstanding, violates displeasure and codes copes with unjustifiable situations!"
 
~briska

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:10:46 PM   
joyinslavery


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ORIGINAL: briska

my Sir says in response to the OP:

" personal actions other than for displeasure justifies and exemplifies the salute and threatening actions deserving.  binds notwithstanding, violates displeasure and codes copes with unjustifiable situations"
 
~briska


I think something might have gotten lost in the translation (??). 

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:13:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jonathan

benji, i can think of several languages and dialects in which to address you, but i choose Oz: bugger off.

This was a serious question about One i care deeply about and have lost control. Well, after all it was about losing control, but not like this.



Dude.  I'm sorry, but you launched into this with the clear statement you didn't want to hear my opinion. Now, keep in mind, I'm a dog, so all I hear is "blablabla benji blablabla."  

But seriously, don't tell us you hate being called "timmy the asshat" unless you want to be called that.

Yours,


timmy the asshat

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:13:42 PM   
briska


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Status: offline 		Nope. Nothing got lost at all.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:20:59 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		OK, as much as Id love to offer an opinion, I dont have a clue what you are asking about.  Of course there are times that my partners have exhibited phsyical or emotional things I wasnt expecting.  Relationships change and the behaviors and such of the participants do as well.  Especially when you move from LD to face to face, things are drastically different. If these differences are this disturbing to you, then perhaps this is a situation you need to get out of. Unfortunately, beyond the very vague advice, commenting is hard since we have very little information.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:21:34 PM   
Lorelei115


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jonathan

This was a serious question about One i care deeply about and have lost control. Well, after all it was about losing control, but not like this.



Also not male, not even sub, but going to ask questions and post my opinions anyway.

What EXACTLY is the issue? What has changed so drastically about her behavior that you are worried for her stability? Are you sure its not connected to some stress in her life? You say you have tried to communicate, but no success.. is this because she is not understanding what you are saying to her or has she heard you and refused to change her ways? Is there any more background you can give us? I'd like to help you out but there are too many peices missing out of the puzzle.



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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:24:56 PM   
briska


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Status: offline 		Things that are missing:
1. What is the sex of the person John is talking about? Is it the dom or the sub? (i know i could look it up, but not everyone wants to page hop...)
2. Why is a male sub's opinion the only needed kind? What makes this a gender-specific problem?
3. What exactly is John trying to convey to us that the problem is?
4. Are there outside factors contributing to the person acting differently's different actions?

...i think that's it?

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:34:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SamKeithsslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: briska

I'm not even sure I understand the question.

And I thought I was the only one that was going WTF?


Nope at least 3 of us now


Make that at least 4

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:36:40 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: jonathan

LA, thanks, but i tried that for almost 2 months and moved here anyway. Grateful that You posted here, thank You, always enjoyed reading Yours elsewhere.

benji, i can think of several languages and dialects in which to address you, but i choose Oz: bugger off.

This was a serious question about One i care deeply about and have lost control. Well, after all it was about losing control, but not like this.



HMMM I find it funny that the only person who you liked the advise of was a female switch.... seems beeing closed mined might not be the best aproch to getting the answers you desire!!

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:38:48 PM   
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Can I pretend to be a male?


Sure. I do it all the time.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:39:54 PM   
jonathan


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Status: offline 		mmm, this is fun. my first original post after 6 months reading and replying and the only one who had a clue in repsonse was the Lucky Albatross. Bless Her.

i've been advised about benji & jis and have this: know Spanish and the ending vowel of "a" or "o"? i've never seen this in print before, but, "bendeja", boys. Or butt, bendeja, boys.

Diurnal & lorelei, sorry, but i don't think i'm being vague. Bipolar is bipolar.

Very good, briska, you're last post is better. And from what i've read here for 6 months, male & female views do differ. What has impressed me the most is that posts by women to this forum, with subject matter that is approriate to all, are only answered by women. And me or one or two other boys, check it out, do a search.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:41:51 PM   
briska


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Status: offline 		I still have no idea exactly what's going on here. You never mentioned being bipolar in your original post that I saw. 

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:43:19 PM   
Lorelei115


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quote:

Diurnal & lorelei, sorry, but i don't think i'm being vague.


Then I shan't waste my time trying to help.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:46:42 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Ah, are you an expert on bipolar?
I happen to have it. If you are asking for advice on how to deal with someone who is having bipolar swings and not taking care of them, thats simple.  Take her to a psychiatrist and have her evaluated.
Not all mood swings are bipolar. However, if that is truly what it is, YOU are not going to be able to deal with it, she is going to need professional help to get things under control. Take it from one who knows.

DV

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 8:51:58 PM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jonathan

mmm, this is fun. my first original post after 6 months reading and replying and the only one who had a clue in repsonse was the Lucky Albatross. Bless Her.

i've been advised about benji & jis and have this: know Spanish and the ending vowel of "a" or "o"? i've never seen this in print before, but, "bendeja", boys. Or butt, bendeja, boys.

Diurnal & lorelei, sorry, but i don't think i'm being vague. Bipolar is bipolar.

Very good, briska, you're last post is better. And from what i've read here for 6 months, male & female views do differ. What has impressed me the most is that posts by women to this forum, with subject matter that is approriate to all, are only answered by women. And me or one or two other boys, check it out, do a search.


If your Mistress is bipoler I can be a great deal of help if you wish!!

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 9:00:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have read this entire thread twice now, and I am still going WTF????

I might have figureed out a gist of the question  ... My short answer is no - but I have been the "culprit" a few times and some calm, quite, non-threatening converstions, reassurances of love, and once followed by a doctor appointment helped us work out the situation.

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RE: What do you do when your's displays unstable behavior? - 11/23/2006 11:18:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: briska

my Sir says in response to the OP:

" Personal actions other than for displeasure justifies and exemplifies the salute and threatening actions deserving?  Binds notwithstanding, violates displeasure and codes copes with unjustifiable situations!"
 
~briska


Too much triptophan in the turkey...  I don't quite understand the OP question or this reply...  must go to bed... 

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