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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

Well...I think it is a good idea, and I would enjoy reading some honest and straight-forward statements about what they like and want from male subs.  I think it would be interesting.

Personally, my desires in a male sub are as follows:

-excellent positive attitude toward me as a woman/person and toward my dominance

-excellent positive attitude toward women generally

--reasonably intelligent with at least a smidgeon of nerd/geek

-reasonably physically healthy

-has some sort of creative pursuit in his life

-lives locally, preferably within less than hour's drive, and is able to spend time with me at least once or twice a week--either this or is able to re-locate instantly and painlessly.  I am not interested in on-line training or long-distance BDSM at all.

-shares at least a few interests with me that would make our non-BDSM time together mutually fun and pleasant, like a love of nature, a love of art, a love of photography, film and film-making, or something like that.

-is skillful and service-oriented--must give a good massage.  [:)]

-doesn't have a huge laundry basket full of kinks that I will find burdensome to deal with, especially the ones on my "dislike" or "hard limit" list

-either doesn't take religion or politics very seriously, or has beliefs similar to my own

-is not married to, living with, or otherwise "taken" by anyone else, especially anyone who is being deceived.

-does not have any prior convictions on a sex- or woman-related criminal offense.  Weird to have to add this one, but it came recently and I thought I should add it in the interests of honesty.

I don't really have any specifications about looks, age, etc.  Given the above, I think I am more than demanding enough!  [:D]

--M

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ORIGINAL: subfever
Seems reasonable. Your bar is set high, but certainly not high enough to prevent all prospects from getting over... 

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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

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ORIGINAL: subfever
Seems reasonable. Your bar is set high, but certainly not high enough to prevent all prospects from getting over... 

I never really thought of the bar as being high, but I guess you are right.  To be honest, the greatest obstacle I have run into on the "other side" (profile/email/chat contact) is distance.  On the forum side, by far the biggest factor is attitude.

I am in no particular hurry, though, and I am enjoying meeting people and making friends in general.   Lots of interesting people here.

--M

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Here is my official troll in this thread.

Are male submissives interested in wearing a pussy collar that locks them between the thighs of their Mistress and forces them to lick and lick for hours, breathing in nothing but her scent?  I can't find any submissive men who are interested in this form of play so I was wondering what male subs think of it.

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


I've seen very little trolling on the CMMB. For the most part posting here is governed by regulars.

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ORIGINAL: petdave

You know, i liked the bridge bit in theory, but the execution sucked. [:'(]

How's this:

Why is it so hard to find a Domme who's into financial slavery? Is it because they're all threatened by a man who is an aggressive executive in his "real life", and are looking for someone who is submissive in all aspects in life? Is it because i work long hours and travel a lot, so i wouldn't have a lot of time to provide the toilet service and sissy transformations that they all want? Where can i find a woman who wants a successful man instead of a cornucopia of bizarre perversions? [:o] Should i quit my job so that i can commit to being someone's full-time slave? And when approaching a potential Domme, ss it better to send pictures of my cock and balls all tied up and purple the way she wants them, or natural so she can evaluate the size? i kneel respectfully awaiting your response.