Collarchat.com

Join Our Community		 Collarchat.com

Home  Login  Search 

If femdoms chose nicks like male subs...


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 2:10:41 PM   
AAkasha


Posts: 4429
Joined: 11/27/2004
Status: offline
Femdoms, what do you think of male submissives that have nicknames that are more like job descriptions?  Does it make you prejudge the submissive in some way? Do you feel more inclined to respond to a submissive with a "normal" nick like "richard 887" or reflection of a hobby like "lacrosseboy44" vs. a name like "buttsniffer" or "balls4fem2bust"?

I've seen a few femdom nicks that sound like "job descriptions" but not as many.  How would submissive men react to femdom nicks like "Fem2crushballs" or "Mistress4tinydicks" or "StrapOnGoddess" or "MylatexdickinURhole"...

Any other interesting nicks that could get special attention online?

Akasha


_____________________________

Akasha's Web - All original Femdom content since 1995
Don't email me here, email me at [email protected]
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 2:20:13 PM   
Renorei


Posts: 75
Joined: 11/21/2006
Status: offline 		MyPoon2UrFace?



(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 2:25:34 PM   
LadySeraphina


Posts: 931
Joined: 3/28/2006
From: Calgary, Canada
Status: offline 		LeGrandePoobahCBTQueen

_____________________________

"Men are like wine. They start out as grapes and its up to the woman to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with." -Unknown

www.LadySeraphina.ca

www.SeraphinasToybox.com.

(in reply to Renorei)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 2:35:51 PM   
Renorei


Posts: 75
Joined: 11/21/2006
Status: offline 		I've never met anyone from this site in person, but, I'm much more inclined to be intrigued by someone whose name doesn't sound like a job description...granted, I did send a message to a guy with a very 'job description-esque' name, but mainly because he lives in my area, is near my own age, and has a decent profile.  But, if I lived in a big area with a large BDSM community and could actually afford to pick and choose, I'd probably go with someone with a more respectable username.  I wouldn't have time to read all the profiles and so I'd have to pick which profiles to read solely by how much the username intrigued me...

(in reply to LadySeraphina)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 2:36:07 PM   
bettie1959


Posts: 34
Joined: 11/16/2005
Status: offline 		Even though this site is of a sexual nature, I don't gravitate towards the nicknames that are blatently sexual or contain sexual innuendo. Color me old fashioned, but I prefer to get to know the man a little bit before exploring his bedroom antics.  Maybe it's just my bad luck, but it seems those job description nicknames are held by alot of 'do me' subs.  Before the flames begin.....yes I know there are exceptions to the rule.  Yes I know the statement is a generalization, BUT that has been my experience thus far.....so yes I prejudge.

(in reply to Renorei)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:11:05 PM   
cloudboy


Posts: 7306
Joined: 12/14/2005
Status: offline
quote:

Do you feel more inclined to respond to a submissive with a "normal" nick like "richard 887" or reflection of a hobby like "lacrosseboy44" vs. a name like "buttsniffer" or "balls4fem2bust"?


With objective questioning techniques like this one, you might want to try professional polling.

(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:28:56 PM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
Joined: 6/30/2006
From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Most often, I just find them amusing, sometimes I find them vulgar, sometimes downright wretch-worthy!

E
(aka Castr8uwithshears)

_____________________________

In a test against the leading brand, 9 out of 10 participants couldnt tell the difference. Dumbasses.

(in reply to cloudboy)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:33:53 PM   
thetammyjo


Posts: 6322
Joined: 9/8/2005
Status: offline 		Nicknames for either men or women, regardless of role, that seem like trolling for sex or specific SM activies are an immediate turn-off to me.

I get to know a potentional submissive as a person first so I want something like a real name to use damnit.

_____________________________

Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:39:26 PM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
Joined: 11/15/2005
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		You're one to talk....  As if "The" is not obviously trolling.......

Butt sear-iously, I always find it entertaining when people focus on their one fetish, especially when they realize they're not the only one and have to add a number (Oldspicedeodorizedarmpitfartsniffer69691976)

Yours,


puppyplayingpainslutbenji1983

_____________________________

Prevent global warming. Stop burning patchouli.

(in reply to thetammyjo)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:46:01 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		AllNiteDiner4U

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


(in reply to gooddogbenji)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:47:02 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		BreezyBabeWithCheesyToeJam

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


(in reply to mnottertail)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 3:55:42 PM   
pixelslave


Posts: 1444
Joined: 8/19/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

Nicknames for either men or women, regardless of role, that seem like trolling for sex or specific SM activies are an immediate turn-off to me.

I get to know a potentional submissive as a person first so I want something like a real name to use damnit.


I don't disagree.  And for the record and for those who might wonder.  My last name is Smith (not Jones, lol). 

I've done digital graphics since the mid 90's when it had barely begun and always considered myself akin to a blacksmith, and so I began using the name pixelsmith.  When business was heavy, I felt as though I was a "slave" to my work and thus I also began using the name of pixelslave, although I am in fact a sub. 

For convenience, my on-line friends have always called me pixel, and those who have known me the longest usally call me pix for short.  So as you can see, my on-line name has nothing to do with D/s or BDSM despite what some might have thought! .

- pixel

_____________________________

Chivalry isn't dead! It's for those who have it in their hearts & are willing to be taught. It's a way of life, a code of honor; this one's armor still needs some polishing!

(in reply to thetammyjo)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 4:22:18 PM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
Joined: 6/30/2006
From: Stourport-England
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

I've done digital graphics since the mid 90's when it had barely begun and always considered myself akin to a blacksmith, and so I began using the name pixelsmith.  When business was heavy, I felt as though I was a "slave" to my work and thus I also began using the name of pixelslave, although I am in fact a sub. 

For convenience, my on-line friends have always called me pixel, and those who have known me the longest usally call me pix for short.  So as you can see, my on-line name has nothing to do with D/s or BDSM despite what some might have thought! .

- pixel


As someone with a pixel fetish, this has been very disappointing to read.

E
(aka Imatrollfolderol)


_____________________________

In a test against the leading brand, 9 out of 10 participants couldnt tell the difference. Dumbasses.

(in reply to pixelslave)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 4:29:25 PM   
sophia37


Posts: 1433
Joined: 2/7/2006
Status: offline 		I just thnk some people are not very creative. Take my name for example. Who in the world would go ooooh sophia37. I must know her. But maybe for me, thats the point. I kinda love my privacy. I never take the name too seriously. I figure I'll ask the person what it means if I need a conversation starter. lol That'll tell me whole lot more.

(in reply to LadyEllen)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 5:10:07 PM   
pixelslave


Posts: 1444
Joined: 8/19/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen
As someone with a pixel fetish, this has been very disappointing to read.

E
(aka Imatrollfolderol)


Does that mean you're secretly in love with your computer monitor??

- pixel

_____________________________

Chivalry isn't dead! It's for those who have it in their hearts & are willing to be taught. It's a way of life, a code of honor; this one's armor still needs some polishing!

(in reply to LadyEllen)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 5:10:26 PM   
Morrigel


Posts: 492
Joined: 10/13/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
I've seen a few femdom nicks that sound like "job descriptions" but not as many.  How would submissive men react to femdom nicks like "Fem2crushballs" or "Mistress4tinydicks" or "StrapOnGoddess" or "MylatexdickinURhole"...

Any other interesting nicks that could get special attention online?


I think we should all take Native American-style names.  "She_Whips_Bitches", "Wears_the_Boots", "Pisses_on_Daddy".

Mine would be "Talks_Too_Much". 

--M

(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 6:05:05 PM   
Missokyst


Posts: 6041
Joined: 9/9/2006
Status: offline 		Well... with a nick like Missokyst it is hard to be objective here.  I am a masochist, that is true.  I am a miss.. yep I am.  But I didn't choose the nick to offer it as a lure for some sadist.  For me, it was a creative way to put up a picture of me without putting up an image.
I like creativity.  Calling myself aslut4rubber, would say a lot about what I do, but nothing about who I am, a pun loving creative person with a bent for words.
When someone messages me I tend not to answer the names that are lure obvious. 
Oddly, I get more messages from sub maso males than from sadists.  A lot more.  They see my name and assume I am into hurting someone like them.  Which I may be as I am also a sadist... but they would have no way of assuming that.
Kyst

_____________________________

pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding ~Gibran, Kahlil

“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
― Bob Marley


(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 6:18:21 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Well, lets see.  My pets name is LoverForDomme... not a bad job description.
I have been inclined to answer quite a few of the mour outlandish names, just ebcsaue they amused me and I wanted to know how much the name relected the personality of the person using it. I prefer the pretty sounding ones, like Angel's, but when I am just poking around, I tend to respond to what they have written in their jouransl or profiles more than teir names.

Just me
DV

_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to Missokyst)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 6:28:20 PM   
Renorei


Posts: 75
Joined: 11/21/2006
Status: offline 		My name is unparalleled in awesomeness.

I'm quite modest about it. 

(in reply to DiurnalVampire)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... - 11/24/2006 6:48:01 PM   
Sinergy


Posts: 9383
Joined: 4/26/2004
Status: offline 		Mine, I suppose, would be BlathersEndlesslyAboutStupidThings.

Although I was talked out of ElDuderino by my former submissive, who indicated that the word Dude in the BDSM world was associated with male homosexuals.

Here I was thinking of Jeff Lebowski, and not in a sexual way.

Whats up with that?

Sinergy

_____________________________

"There is a fine line between clever and stupid"
David St. Hubbins "This Is Spinal Tap"

"Every so often you let a word or phrase out and you want to catch it and bring it back. You cant do that, it is gone, gone forever." J. Danforth Quayle


(in reply to Renorei)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2024
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.531