ArgoGeorgia
Posts: 256
Joined: 2/9/2007 From: Atlanta, Georgia Status: offline
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I've been watching this post for a few days now and been hesitant to post. First, because I'm a newbie, and two, because I'm one of these fence-sitters. I'm a definite switch, and also what I would call 'bi-curious'. Or, as a previous person said, bi-situational. I don't think it is that I'm greedy or anything, I just have a very open and varied outlook on sex, pleasure, and relationships. What might be my saving grace is that I try to be upfront and honest about my likes, dislikes. For instance, if I am having a potential encounter with a man, I make it clear that while friends and play and sex might be possible, a more serious relationship probably would not be able to happen, as I just don't think I could mentally do it. Does this make me a bad person, one of those people who would get someone's hopes up for more, only to disappoint and burn them? I don't know. I certainly hope not. But, to be honest, after reading some of these posts about the pain it can cause it worries me that maybe, although unintentionally, I am one of those folks. I guess that's another reason I put straight as my profile orientation. I definitely don't intend to deceive anyone, but at the same time, does that mean I have to 'choose a side'?
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