pixelslave
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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky Hello all... I was trying to do a few "extra" things around the house, and to generally be pleasing to my owner... What sort of things.. would Dommes, enjoy most as a pleasant surprise... I was thinking of doing the grocery shopping, cleaning her car/changing oil, simple tasks but also things that might be welcome and pleasant surprises... If you have any idea's to offer I "would" greatly appreciate them... Thanks as always, robby. In addition to what others have said, its been my experience that most Dommes, as women particularly like to be pampered and treated with special attention. You might think in terms of eCards, or Hallmark cards that she can have the pleasure of tearing open. Don't foget to pick up an inexpensive bouquet of flowers when you do the shopping and various things along those lines! These all are things that you'll want to send for no particular reason! They're just to show her how special she is to you, and how thankful you are that she's in your life to serve! You might also offer to give her a manicure & pedicure. Be sure to ask her to train you for the task if you don't already specifically know how, as there are certain techniques that you'll want to make certain you have learned to master. Otherwise, you'll want to surprise her and take her to a salon and pay the price to have them done for her. In my experience, there's little that makes a woman feel quite so feminine as having had her nails freshly done! Even if you don't have a foot fetish, I've never met a woman who didn't enjoy having her feet rubbed after a long hard day. Ditto for an offer to have her neck and shoulders rubbed as well. Which reminds me that I've never met a woman who enjoy polishing her shoes. You might consider going through her wardrobe and polishing each and every one! At the very least you do your best to try and remove all the black scuff marks the lighter colored ones tend to get. I can guarantee that's something she'll greatly appreciate. Here's another you might try, and that's to make yourself useful in the morning by brewing her a fresh pot of coffee (or tea) if that's what she likes to drink. Personally I'm not into either one, but used to brew a pot every morn for my former special one. As she washed, I also helped her collect her clothes for the day and helped put them on her as well. This saved her time and created additional intimacy. It also provided me the opportunity to suggest what she might want to wear. I also got to fondle her sexy intimates as I got it out for her as well, not to mention touching and feeling her body as I put her things on her each day. It was a great thing all around! So, its something you might consider asking to see if she might like having your help. Offering to brush her hair at night is something women seem to like as well. Think in terms of personal service to her and I'm certain you can do yourself some favors all around. Add in the others with regard to help the house and you should be all set. There's little doubt that you seem to be on the right track, just keep it up and you should be all set.! Best of luck to you, as I think you're on the right track! Give it a whirl and be sure to drop back in and let us know what worked the best for you. - pixel
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Chivalry isn't dead! It's for those who have it in their hearts & are willing to be taught. It's a way of life, a code of honor; this one's armor still needs some polishing!
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