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RE: Owning Toys - 12/1/2006 8:17:03 AM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

Julia,

I checked the link to the tire paddle. Awesome! and if you do ever buy and use it, let me know what you think of it please.
A former Dom worked at a tire place. He took some tire rubber and made me a paddle- it did not have the tread texture the link one had- but he craved a heart into it. The rubber was very thick /heavy
I called it the beast lol.   I have a picture of it some place
I can take/tolerate  alot of pain. I love it- crave  it in fact-but that thing.Forget it! 
He didnt even swing it. Just hold it over the skin area and let it flip over and strike the skin.  Talk about a STING! To this day that is the only thing I own that I still cannot do.
A friend of mine just held it over her arm and just let it flip over striking the skin it left a bright red mark.

Now my rubber flooger- ooooh yummy



I will let you know how much I like it...

My Daddy has several things he has perverted to spank me with, like cane-type practice swords and stuff, but he likes to spank me with wooden soup spoons best because they sting a lot, the lighter they hit me the more they sting. So he will  "tap tap tap tap" on my skin until it burns and stings at the same time. It drives me nuts and I hate it and love it at the same time...lol. I am more into stingy than thuddy I suppose. This tire paddle does look wickedly stingy.

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RE: Owning Toys - 12/1/2006 8:46:01 AM   
ruthfw


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Status: offline 		I gave my last pet the metal prick-style dog collar I bought him, and he kept the dish he bought himself.  I also gave him the scalpel I'd been using as I'd worn it out on his skin.  I wish I'd asked him for the tag that went on the collar.  I have no desire to keep the collar, but it would have been a good token.  And he's not going to be able to re-use the tag.

I have given my current pet pairs of underwear, two small insertible toys, a choke chain, and a dog dish.  The leash and nipple clips are mine, as are the clips I use on him.  I clean and sanitize everything after I use it and would be comfortable re-using these on someone else.

Scalpels, the Wortenberg, cuffs, whips, crops, canes, nipple clips, dog cage, etc. are mine.  His dress collar is mine.  So is the Feeldoe (a type of double dildo); I don't know if I could re-use it on anyone else, though I've kept it properly bagged on the business end and clean it after every use.  It's silicone, so if another partner agreed to even consider having it used on them, I might put it through the dishwasher first, which is good enough for sterilizing jelly jars.  Honestly, I'm not sure how I feel about using the business end on myself, and if I can't answer that affirmatively, I can't ask anyone else to.

My pet owned no toys when I met him other than a small spiked leather collar he bought himself.  I already owned toys, and in addition to being the dom, I'm the one with a "real job."  So I buy the toys. 

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RE: Owning Toys - 12/1/2006 9:04:38 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		Wow, I really like that gifting of the whip’s cracker.  What a good idea.

I buy medical-grade cleaners online; all my toys are sterile between uses.  The floggers I use really don’t cause blood, only the whips, canes, knives and other metal goodies do that.  All are able to be properly (safely) cleaned.

While I don’t use my own insertables on others, I do still bag them; it just makes all cleanup easier.  I suppose I might share them…but I’d probably double-bag them, if I did.  (‘bag’ = cover with a condom)

I agree with MsSM, too, with regard to choosing similar toys for different results.  Recently I was told my flogger and paddle collection is ‘redundant’; just shows me how inexperienced and lacking in imagination the guy was. 
1 – elk skin flogger with 30 18- falls: VERY thuddy, I can swing it full out and never break skin...it's like a heavy massage (really!)
1 – home-made flogger of bundled leather laces: very stingy
1 – made of rubber mat cut in hard, thin strips which can break the skin if not careful
1 – of those stretchy rubber things that can be stingy or thuddy depending on how used
1 – 5-strand latigo-leather whippy things that hurts like hell (if used correctly) 
Same goes for paddles, some I have are thin and narrow (a couple have long plastic strips glued to one side that have bumpy ridges and create a wild sensation.  Others are like hairbrushes; others still are wide and quite heavy.  And of course there are a couple big wooden spoons.

I don’t consider this collection redundant at all; perhaps piggish and most certainly shows I’m a toy-slut, though.  LOL
beverly

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RE: Owning Toys - 12/1/2006 4:36:54 PM   
SweetSarijane


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Status: offline 		<smiles> I have multiple reasons for getting my own singletail. I am well aware of what you are saying believe me. I have discussed it quite a bit with friends and peers in my local groups.

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RE: Owning Toys - 12/1/2006 4:51:15 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		I have all the toys...  I love getting parcels from Fetters!!

Mind you of late they seem to be acquiring cobwebs!!!


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RE: Owning Toys - 1/7/2008 11:33:33 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I have all the toys currently cause I had them all when we got involved, and because I am the only one he plays with so he leaves what little toys and gear he has with me full time. I think it makes sense in all circumstances, unless a / their dom forbids it. I don't have any toys that are one person use only. Daddy doesn't either.

I as a bottom don't mind tops using their toys on me, as long as it's not something that couldn't be easily cleaned.

Some people say never ever share dildo's and me I've shared my dildo's numerous amounts of times, have no problems doing so  but they were either hard plastic or we'd put a condom on them. Or I knew they had no diseases and wasn't worried about it.


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists


In your life, who has the toys?  Are there certain toys that are dedicated to a specific person?  In what circumstances do you think it makes sense for bottoms to have their own toys?  When does it make sense for the top to own the toys?

If you are bottom how do you feel about the top using their toys on you and if you are a top how do you feel about using the bottom's toys?  Are there some toys that you expect either the top or bottom to have?

Just a few questions to generate a discussion about owning toys.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/8/2008 4:38:14 AM   
Evility


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Status: offline 		I have purchased or made most of the toys that we use and I keep them with me since we live apart from one another at the present time. Most of these toys have been purchased new or made since we started seeing each other. The only items I have from prior to this are a few sets of leather cuffs, a flogger and crop or two.

I have never given any thought to what would happen to the toys if we went our own separate ways. I consider us to be such a tight woven unit that I really cannot answer that question in a hypothetical sense. I consider it a very real possibility that they might be packed away never to be touched again if that transpired.

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/8/2008 4:55:37 AM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		Daddy has bought me some toys, i had a couple before we met.  he has floggers and handcuffs, etc, and those are his.  the things he bought me are mine.

but i dont expect him to buy a lot of things for me....they dont get used much together, those are more "think of me when i'mnot here" toys.

kitten

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/8/2008 7:01:31 AM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		If I put all of the time and money into making them-they are mine.

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/8/2008 4:08:07 PM   
subantionette


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Status: offline 		As a student is hard to afford any very expesive at the this time. At this time i only own one insertable toy. My perspevice Dom has His own toys in the area of floggers, whips, paddles and restriants and i see no reason for me to buy these things for myself because i will never use them on someone else. 

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/8/2008 9:39:22 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		A couple of years ago my toy bag was stolen from the trunk of my car around the holidays.  Since that was the time I had ended the physical play with my ex, it didnt seem necessary to get more.
Lately though, I have been trying to get on with my life and to aid that, I started buying toys I know I like.
Now my toybag has things like a violet wand, a tens unit, a cupping set, a rubber gas mask, a variety of clamps, suction devices, some paddles, a crop, a quirt, and the bag is ever growing.  I still have not found anyone I want to play with, but when I do, I will be ready.
I like having my own bag. 
Kyst

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RE: Owning Toys - 1/9/2008 4:32:28 AM   
adoracat


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ORIGINAL: acquiescentfem

Who needs toys?? Surely all you need is a damn good Dom/Master with loads of imagination ;)


true.

however, i like his floggers used on me.  and its nice to have an outlet (sexual) for my needs when its a couple months between visits. 

kitten

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