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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:10:52 PM

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Seems to me the only ones who get "upset" about financial slavery, is one...it is truly the last vestage of control males seem to keep as a means of controlling women, and second, those who are too broke to afford this type of total power exchange type of fetish.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:17:53 PM

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On this, I have to disagree..males who are into the financial domination fetish don't expect anything in return..least of all sexual gratification!! And how it can be considered prostitution is just plain beyond me!! lol As for the one tributed being expected to take responcibility for the slave...then that is like saying a prodomme is expected to take care of the lashmarks on a subs arse when he leaves a session. A financial slaves FETISH is to be used as a money machine...nothing else, if they are really into the fetish. If it were not for real moneyslaves, there would be no money dommes. To put sexy pics out there, as well as phone domming is NOT financial domination...it is males paying for kink gratification.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:22:39 PM

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Never even ONCE have I met a financial slave such as the ones you denote...however, I don't sell phone domination, or allow ANY MEASURE of control from any male for their sexual gratification..perhaps, therein lies the difference in the financial slaves that have served me, and those that you refer to.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:25:45 PM

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I don't get it are you drumming up this old post trolling for business?
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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:52:25 PM

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Well ....this is backwards but here goes. The Domme aspect of me thinks it's exceptionally hot, and it's something I've had subs do before,

From the sub side of the fence, it's mixed. Handing over my money to a man is as they coohesy but to a lady, I can fatham it!

My Dom has brought this up a few times, and I've feigned all the expected disgust, but he knows I've done it before willingly, so he's just waiting for me to do it I think instead of forcing or asking me to do it. I'm getting there.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 8:57:32 PM

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I don't get it are you drumming up this old post trolling for business?
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Ah yes, the ghost of christmas past.

I say if Financial Dommes have change for a dollar, why not.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/13/2007 11:12:26 PM

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Seems to me the only ones who get "upset" about financial slavery, is one...it is truly the last vestage of control males seem to keep as a means of controlling women, and second, those who are too broke to afford this type of total power exchange type of fetish.

Currently a women is able to finanically support herself with out the help of a man if she so chooses. If a women can make her own money and support herself SHE HAS MORE POWER! She is no longer dependent on the man and can walk away. If a dominant has the finanical ability to walk away from their submissive that is much more powerful then me having to eat pasta for a week cause my dominant took my money.

I am a college student with little money and I live around a city full of girls that want nothing but straight money for just looking pretty. Sorry the real world isn't a strip club! Man girls I have talked to that have a "finanical domination" fetish really don't. When they find out I only have the money to take them out to dinner and maybe a show they see it as a waste. I have met a few that are truly finanical dominants but they act rationally with the money they recieve.

As for professional dominants requiring tribute for play. You are offering the client a service and you should be paid for it. As with calling yourself a professional I assume you are practiced in what you are doing and have a good/great idea how things should be done. We just don't let any person call them selves a professional athlete unless they are good at what they do.

Other non-professional domme's asking for tributes for play is fine as well. I would assume that the tribute might pay for the wear and tear on the toys travel to the meeting spot maybe the rental fee of a the dungeon, etc.

Demanding a gift is no fun for me whether giving or recieving. Yeah I have a christmas wish list and having a wishlist is a good thing it lets people know what you want And I have no problem buying something off this list but demanding a bottom purchase something for your own good and offer no other service then to spend his money is stupid.

Keep in mind these comments come from a guy who is about to finish college and move onto law school. My opinions could change if i had the money to offer others. Maybe majoring in Economics has something to do with how i feel about some of the finanial domme's

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/14/2007 7:32:25 PM

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I've never met any of these financial fetishists....I think they are a pretty small percentage of kinksters overall. I love the IDEA of someone handing me money "just because" but I would feel wrong for not doing something in return. One of my foot guys sent me pedicure money (out of the blue, wasn't that nice!) and of course I told him all about the pedi I got. Shoot, if I had used the money for gas, I would have made up a pedicure story! Kink play is a two way street for me, even if the sides seem inequitable to those that are not playing.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/15/2007 10:51:36 AM

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Interesting conversation. Financial slavery, as someone may have previously mentioned, is considerably different than providing a service for profit. I know a few voluntarily collared slaves (female) who turn over whole paychecks to their Master. I have also noticed a trend among Male Dominants to expect their female subs to provide financial support by whatever means expected for whatever reason. I find this to be appalling, degrading and plain stupid. I have attempted to convey that it is one thing to contribute to a household, or to turn over a portion of one's paycheck so that a wise and financially savvy Master can be a financial asset to the life of a slave. But too many times I've seen women be so taken advantage of. It's painful to watch.

LOL, so if a man does financial domination, it is exploitation. But if a woman does it, shes empowering herself.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/15/2007 11:00:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: BelovedSybilla

Interesting conversation. Financial slavery, as someone may have previously mentioned, is considerably different than providing a service for profit. I know a few voluntarily collared slaves (female) who turn over whole paychecks to their Master. I have also noticed a trend among Male Dominants to expect their female subs to provide financial support by whatever means expected for whatever reason. I find this to be appalling, degrading and plain stupid. I have attempted to convey that it is one thing to contribute to a household, or to turn over a portion of one's paycheck so that a wise and financially savvy Master can be a financial asset to the life of a slave. But too many times I've seen women be so taken advantage of. It's painful to watch.

LOL, so if a man does financial domination, it is exploitation. But if a woman does it, shes empowering herself.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/15/2007 11:15:32 AM

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Seems to me the only ones who get "upset" about financial slavery, is one...it is truly the last vestage of control males seem to keep as a means of controlling women, and second, those who are too broke to afford this type of total power exchange type of fetish.

Nah, it just shows that you rather take the easy way out in life.... can't say I find anything respectable about someone who is basically no different than some guy who begs for change in front of a corner store...in fact these women are worse than that, because they have other options. the way they go about it is quite repulsive, with the "give me money!!!!11" without even caring where it comes from, and besides I am quite sure that a good percentage of these "money dommes" aren't who they say they are.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/15/2007 8:31:44 PM

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Seems to me the only ones who get "upset" about financial slavery, is one...it is truly the last vestage of control males seem to keep as a means of controlling women, and second, those who are too broke to afford this type of total power exchange type of fetish.

Nah, it just shows that you rather take the easy way out in life.... can't say I find anything respectable about someone who is basically no different than some guy who begs for change in front of a corner store...in fact these women are worse than that, because they have other options. the way they go about it is quite repulsive, with the "give me money!!!!11" without even caring where it comes from, and besides I am quite sure that a good percentage of these "money dommes" aren't who they say they are.

Who do they have to be, anyway? They exist to exploit, that's what that fetish is all about!

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 5:47:38 AM

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I've never met any of these financial fetishists....I think they are a pretty small percentage of kinksters overall. I love the IDEA of someone handing me money "just because" but I would feel wrong for not doing something in return.

Well it can be subjective. If a woman takes the money and just walks away - true that he'd be getting nothing in return however if she "relishes" the experience and draws it out by talking about it, making fun of him for doing it, etc then he's getting alot in return.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 5:55:30 AM

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Congratulations on an excellent bit of satire on the reactions of many vanilla people to kinks they don't have!! You cracked me up, your mimicking -especially the use of the urge for psychiatric help which is often mentioned to anyone with a fetish, kink or interest in power exchange- of someone ignorant and rude towards any interest not their own was great!

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 10:41:25 AM

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Congratulations on an excellent bit of satire on the reactions of many vanilla people to kinks they don't have!! You cracked me up, your mimicking -especially the use of the urge for psychiatric help which is often mentioned to anyone with a fetish, kink or interest in power exchange- of someone ignorant and rude towards any interest not their own was great!

SO true!

And as for the non-satire-- doesn't it go to show that for so many men, the true power lies in their wallets? :)

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 10:51:38 AM

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It also shows that most women deep down, hate men and only love money.

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 11:03:03 AM

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I didn't want to take part in this conversation because it seems utterly futile.
But - I retort daily anyway in My own personal world of CM mail center, thanks to the hoardes of messages that contain: "You're a dude, go away" or "get a job slut!!" or something of that variation - so responding to some of the ridiculous claims here wouldn't be so far of a reach.

I have a money fetish. Owe it to a 'Pretty Woman' complex, owe it to a barely-there father - but I actually do get wet when men, sub or not, give Me money. Seeing them aroused by the simple gesture of opening their wallet gets Me off in return. Vain, I know.

I do not hate men. In fact, I love My Bf. He will be the only one, as divulged to another CM Dom, who will ever shove Me over, fuck Me from behind, and tug My hair back to shove bills down My throat.

I do not only love money. I love kittens. And dainty lace. And Foucalt. And green grapes.

Sigh - seriously, who gives a fuck?

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 1:42:04 PM

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It also shows that most women deep down, hate men and only love money.

Guess you have to be working on your gayboy attraction tactics, then, eh? :)

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 2:34:28 PM

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It also shows that most women deep down, hate men and only love money.

Good Gawd. With lines like that it makes me wonder why you bother posting in a forum for women and the sub/slave men who worship them...

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RE: Financial Domination/slavery - 10/16/2007 2:48:33 PM

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It also shows that most women deep down, hate men and only love money.

Guess you have to be working on your gayboy attraction tactics, then, eh? :)

What's wrong with being gay?

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