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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 6:54:17 AM

Morrigel

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What's most disturbing about this whole thread that in ELEVEN pages, I'm the only one that called the OP out on the safety issue of leaving a gagged, bound slave alone in a room (and walking outside the house.)

No, you're not the only one. I did the same. Then I moved on to the fun part of the thread.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 7:37:53 AM

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How can a domme keep a male sub from escaping?

Situational Bondage. If he squirms in this direction it causes pain in that direction. If he moves in that direction it causes pain in this direction. I'd give up tying him in a comfortable position. It leaves them too comfortable and with too much of their own thoughts. Give him something else to pay attention to while he's tied up - like wondering how long he's going to be able to bear the position he's been put in. Hog tied. Standing up with one leg tied off the ground and the opposing arm at his side, leaving him one leg and one arm to steady himself. Then use the nipple clamps that get tighter when pulled, bound to a stationary object. Let him think about balancing for a while, instead of escaping.

Perhaps a new rule that the rope will be used as a harness to hold your largest dildo or butt plug in if he escapes again (unless he likes that) while he's made to scrub your floors and clean the cat box.

Occupy his mind with a difficult situation.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 7:54:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

What's most disturbing about this whole thread that in ELEVEN pages, I'm the only one that called the OP out on the safety issue of leaving a gagged, bound slave alone in a room (and walking outside the house.)

No, you're not the only one. I did the same. Then I moved on to the fun part of the thread.

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Me too. post two.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 8:07:45 AM

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I didn't see the need to reiterate what others had already said with regards to safety. If the OP doesn't understand safety issues & concerns by now, I doubt she ever will. Simply spelling them out on this form imo, is a waste of time since the OP is 'experienced' with bondage already and should know the inherent dangers.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 4:34:47 PM

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In regards to the safety issue, all I did was step outside long enough to smoke a quick cigarette. Once, this same sub bound his legs, gagged himself, cuffed his hands behind his back, and waited for me to drive to him (he lives about 20 miles from me). This was HIS idea, not mine. Of course, I'm sure he could have escaped if he had wanted to, but still......

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 5:57:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

What's most disturbing about this whole thread that in ELEVEN pages, I'm the only one that called the OP out on the safety issue of leaving a gagged, bound slave alone in a room (and walking outside the house.)

No, you're not the only one. I did the same. Then I moved on to the fun part of the thread.

--M

My bad....I missed that part of your post 10 pages ago LOL

OK, two of us.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/10/2006 5:59:10 PM

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Ellen -- my apologies. Can I borrow your glasses to read the forums from now on?

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 12/11/2006 1:01:30 AM

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Sadly not MisP; My echo location isnt too good, and thats all I'd have without my specs. It'd be cool to have wings, but being as blind as the proverbial bat isnt great. Still, its handy around the ugly and the beautiful; everyone looks the same, a bit like pigs, if I dont wear them; what a leveller.

I'd like contact lenses, but have proven myself to be so useless with them I gave up. I went for the laser correction, but the arthritis is a contraindication, apparently.

No need for apology - its no biggie.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/22/2009 8:31:35 AM

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MY 2 cents for male slaves escaping its called TRAINING you want him tied up theres always a whip canes crops a few good lashes or strikes from that for even trying or getting out of the ropes and chain they wont try it trust me had a girl that was great at it till I got smart and did it nice and tight and having a low voltage cattle prod ready when they did try to get out that fixed that problem in about 3 or 4 zap will never try to get out ANY more and for the gagging.... if you all think about it its all breath play so wtf is the problem lol

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/22/2009 10:01:14 AM

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Another necromanced thread...I dont mind, makes for good reading, and its fun seeing alot of the old gang that does not post anymore.

My two cents: Houdinis are not bad subs, they have a differnt kink and for them part of the fun is escape...But what I do with them is tie thier hands on opposite walls, or opposit points, and if that is not available lock puppy mits on them.

Puppy Houdinis are very cute when you make them wimper...

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/23/2009 8:13:05 AM

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why does he need to escape if you don't want him to? what is the punishment for escape? you need to up it whatever it is...

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/23/2009 9:48:02 AM

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To the OP:

Check out the bondage technique courses often offered by BDSM organizations. You may be able to learn what you need to make your rope bondage more secure.

Alternatively, invest in serious, secure lockable leather or metal restraints. They are also easier to appy.

Finally, ignore the snooty people who insist that a sub shouldn't try to escape, blah, blah, blah. They're pompous snobs pissing in your soup, trying to tell you that their way is the only "true" way, and they haven't got a clue about anyone who has interests, emotions, and values that are different from theirs.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/23/2009 9:49:54 AM

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I'd like to see him get out of a hog tie............I cant even do that!

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/23/2009 11:16:31 AM

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My sub is always teasing me because I can't keep him tied up. I thought I finally had the perfect plan. During our last session, I tied him spread eagle on my bed face down. I taped his fingers together, put socks over his hands, tied his hands with rope, then put duct tape over the rope. His feet were tied with rope and tape. He was gagged with my thong and 3 pieces of tape. He was also blindfolded with duct tape. I stepped outside for 5 minutes to smoke a cigarette and when I came in, he was sitting on my couch. How can a domme keep a male sub from escaping?

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WTF??!!

Just tell him to be still. You don't need to restrain him at all. Restrain him if you like, or if it helps him fly, if you want him to... But otherwise just order him still.

How hard is that?

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/23/2009 9:27:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

My sub is always teasing me because I can't keep him tied up. I thought I finally had the perfect plan. During our last session, I tied him spread eagle on my bed face down. I taped his fingers together, put socks over his hands, tied his hands with rope, then put duct tape over the rope. His feet were tied with rope and tape. He was gagged with my thong and 3 pieces of tape. He was also blindfolded with duct tape. I stepped outside for 5 minutes to smoke a cigarette and when I came in, he was sitting on my couch. How can a domme keep a male sub from escaping?

(fast reply- I haven't read the thread yet)

WTF??!!

Just tell him to be still. You don't need to restrain him at all. Restrain him if you like, or if it helps him fly, if you want him to... But otherwise just order him still.

How hard is that?

Unbelievable. Another person who just doesn't get it, saying the same thing after it's already been discussed and dismissed.

If you read the rest of the thread, you'll see some discussion of it, and maybe you can try to understand. If you still don't understand, how about just accepting that some people find inescapable bondage, really, really, really HOT, instead of trying to rain on their parade? Is that OK with you?

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/24/2009 5:07:48 AM

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I understand that. In fact, I broke out of wrist binding not too long ago, just to see the look on the domme's face. He likely wants the feeling of being unable to escape. That is the point of the binding in his head.

I'd use handcuffs along with the binding- they should keep him in one place and well bound if used right.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/24/2009 5:56:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

My sub is always teasing me because I can't keep him tied up. I thought I finally had the perfect plan. During our last session, I tied him spread eagle on my bed face down. I taped his fingers together, put socks over his hands, tied his hands with rope, then put duct tape over the rope. His feet were tied with rope and tape. He was gagged with my thong and 3 pieces of tape. He was also blindfolded with duct tape. I stepped outside for 5 minutes to smoke a cigarette and when I came in, he was sitting on my couch. How can a domme keep a male sub from escaping?

(fast reply- I haven't read the thread yet)

WTF??!!

Just tell him to be still. You don't need to restrain him at all. Restrain him if you like, or if it helps him fly, if you want him to... But otherwise just order him still.

How hard is that?

Unbelievable. Another person who just doesn't get it, saying the same thing after it's already been discussed and dismissed.

If you read the rest of the thread, you'll see some discussion of it, and maybe you can try to understand. If you still don't understand, how about just accepting that some people find inescapable bondage, really, really, really HOT, instead of trying to rain on their parade? Is that OK with you?

(no time to read the thread now)

Yes of course, inescapable bondage is YUM!

I loved it as a slave, and as a domme... Both my slave and I find it extremely delicious.

Just sayin' its not necessary, since the OP has apparently been unable to provide it.

Who pissed in your Wheaties?

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/24/2009 7:56:22 AM

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my Ma'am suggests you blindfold him First so he cant see how its being done, and with have more problem figureing out how to undo it.
also suggested is situation bondage... fix it so if he moves his hands, the rope will tighten and hurt the testicles.

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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/24/2009 10:25:39 AM

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i dont understand how Ladies can get so tied up in knots over subs. Then again in this case the Ladies's hands may well be tied. oh puhhhhhhhhhhhhleeeze forgive the pun
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RE: help......my sub thinks he's Houdini - 7/24/2009 1:34:15 PM

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