BlkTallFullfig
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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty In this lifestyle, competent dominant men are in short supply and can have multiple partners, if they desire. Submissive women will simply have to face that fact, or keep looking for quality dominant men who are wired for monogamy (like Lawrence). The funny thing is, I never hear the sub men complaining about dominant women who want more than one sub...maybe that's cause I don't pay much attention to sub men. Taggard Hey Taggard, I liked your wiseass reply better because it rings completely true... I feel that women are no more hardwired to be monogamous than men, but most people make a choice to be monogamous; than there are the greedy ones, who simply because the odds are good, will go for "hey, I think I can have more than one with these odds", not saying that's your case, but I do believe it's the case for most who want it. With all due respect, I don't like this reply of yours simply because it sounds a little alarmist... a lot like the study that suggested it's easier for a woman in her 30s to get hit by a terrorrist than get married (like marriage is such a prize for women anyway, lol). Of course it's hard to find a good partner, and it is rare to make a good connection, but to sugeest to women "suck it up, and become open to bi/poly is kinda self serving advice from a man, and does a terrible disservive to monogamous serious ladies. As for boys not complaining when the lady wants multiples, I've only encountered it (again I admit in my limited experience) when the primary boy has a huge desire to play with other boys, but is afraid to seek it out, he has some dysfunction and knows the lady may need more than he can provide or He REALLY likes to watch... To be fair, there has been a couple of convos with men who are capable and not against cuckolding if it is what pleases the Domme, but that is so far very rare in my experience. M
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