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DominaSmartass -> Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:12:47 PM)

I'm just curious, cause I can't be the only one, but people don't admit to this too often:

Are there any Masters/Doms/Owners/Tops (etc.) out there who really enjoy performing oral sex on their subs/slaves/property etc?

I absolutely enjoy going down on my boy - as long as it's when *I* want to. He would never ask anyway. Are you brave enough to admit it?



agorwarrior -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:17:32 PM)

I do when I wish to (which is often), and I could not be in a long term relationship with a girl who didn't enjoy recieving oral. As far as what others think....I Don't Care.



DianeB269 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:18:30 PM)

Yes.......I love going down on my main sub. 



SweetAndYummy -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:30:19 PM)

Only when I switch, then I love it. Giving oral is not appealing when I am in the Dominant mindset.



DiamondOrchid -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:36:01 PM)

Yep. I do... especially when I'm using 'extras' as it were (I adore the taste of cinnamon, and it doesn't bother my mouth as much as my (when I have one) subs neither regions... [sm=evil.gif]... and I like to use my teeth). I just don't see oral sex as a 'sub' duty or activity.
 
Mind you, I'm not that fond of recieving oral... are the other Dom/mes/Tops like this as well? Do you prefer to give rather than recieve?
 
D.



DianeB269 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:38:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiamondOrchid

Yep. I do... especially when I'm using 'extras' as it were (I adore the taste of cinnamon, and it doesn't bother my mouth as much as my (when I have one) subs neither regions... [sm=evil.gif]... and I like to use my teeth). I just don't see oral sex as a 'sub' duty or activity.
 
Mind you, I'm not that fond of recieving oral... are the other Dom/mes/Tops like this as well? Do you prefer to give rather than recieve?
 
D.


Getting oral doesn't work for me......I don't feel it.



DiamondOrchid -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:41:52 PM)

Do you mean you literally can't feel it, or it just doesn't to anything for you?



DianeB269 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:43:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiamondOrchid

Do you mean you literally can't feel it, or it just doesn't to anything for you?



I can't have a orgasm that way............



DominaSmartass -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 7:54:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SweetAndYummy

Only when I switch, then I love it. Giving oral is not appealing when I am in the Dominant mindset.


I find this an interesting comment because it's so common to see, yet for me it's not the case at all. I enjoy giving oral as a dom because I see it as very powerful and controlling act. This is especially true if the boy is tied down or any number of other things you can do to him while going down. You can also lick and suck and tease but refuse to get him to the point of orgasm. That's torture. I've always found power arousing and nothing to me is more powerful than taking away a man's ability to control his own cock. If I am in charge of it I can make it hard or not, give him pleasure or pain depending on what I desire, and in the end, control his orgasm. What really "gets me" as a dom is when I'm doing all of this and he says and does nothing to encourage me or beg me in any way. I ask him why he doesn't beg me to let him come and he says because it's not his place to. That's what really makes me hard, a boy who completely accepts that he has no control over his fate. Ok, I've really digressed!



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:08:59 PM)

My Master enjoys doing it as much as I do. I do not think a particular sexual act makes it submissive or dominant. Some see it that way but I do not agree.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:10:36 PM)

I like this guy!

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ORIGINAL: agorwarrior

As far as what others think....I Don't Care.



AquaticSub -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:14:03 PM)

Since my dominant was sitting right next to me...

Me: "Do you like giving me oral?"
Him: "When you are on your flow?"
Me: "No, just whenever."
Him: "Yeah, I don't mind. It's cute when you scream."

He does give me the most wicked grin when my legs are in a spreader bar, my heads are tied over my head and he's about to lower his head... God I love this man...



SweetDommes -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:17:02 PM)

I'm not big on giving oral, but it has nothing to do with it being a submissive thing to do or any such nonsense.  It's just something I don't like to do very often.  When I do, it's almost always on my terms (meaning that I don't ever switch with the boys, but I do with Holly - so she sometimes changes my plans).



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:23:18 PM)

You make it sound like some big mysterious to do. lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

Are you brave enough to admit it?



DominaSmartass -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:26:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

You make it sound like some big mysterious to do. lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

Are you brave enough to admit it?



I was kidding. My name is Domina Smartass for crying out loud :) But in all seriousness, there are DEFINITELY people out there of the dominant orientation who either will not or will not admit to giving oral to a sub. I think it's balloney.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:29:00 PM)

Someone needs to clean themselves a little more carefully if you think it's baloney.  I mean, I know there can be some unexpected scents down there, but it shouldn't smell like a delicatessen...

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

I think it's balloney.



DominaSmartass -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:50:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Someone needs to clean themselves a little more carefully if you think it's baloney.  I mean, I know there can be some unexpected scents down there, but it shouldn't smell like a delicatessen...

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

I think it's balloney.



One word: EEEEWWWWW!!

And I think this discussion has officially "jumped the shark"



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:57:39 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_8305/mpage_1/key_giving%252Coral/tm.htm#8305
Is giving oral domly?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_70067/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#70067
oral sex on a sub

http://www.collarchat.com/m_279010/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#279010
oral sex- a submissive act?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_533633/mpage_1/key_doms%252Coral/tm.htm#533707
is it masterlike to enjoy eating pussy as much as I do?



AquaticSub -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 8:59:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

And I think this discussion has officially "jumped the shark"


Shark-jumping? Is that a new sport?



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/11/2006 10:16:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass
Are there any Masters/Doms/Owners/Tops (etc.) out there who really enjoy performing oral sex on their subs/slaves/property etc?

I absolutely enjoy going down on my boy - as long as it's when *I* want to. He would never ask anyway. Are you brave enough to admit it?
Hell yeah, but only when I want, and for only as long as I want!   M



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