RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex

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daddysprop247 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:08:27 AM)
my Master doesn't find the act particularly submissive in itself (unless one is doing it with the intention/hope of pleasing the female), but it's not something he has a desire to do more than every once in a looooooong while lol. i'm very grateful for that since i have always disliked that particular activity and do have a hard time mentally with a man being physically below me, trying to please me, etc.

drawntothedark -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:10:35 AM)
I do not like oral sex performed on me. Sooooo of course, that's what most of them love to do. I don't think they do it because they "like" it. What they "like" is making me uncomfortable.

stockingluvr54 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:30:42 AM)
I enjoy both giving and recieving...and the better she recieves, the better I give...and hopefully vice-versa.....

Lorelei115 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:39:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass And I think this discussion has officially "jumped the shark" Shark-jumping? Is that a new sport? Shark Jumping: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jumping_the_Shark In answer to the OP, I think oral can be construed in any way the Top wants it to be. If they want to view it as "domly" they can, if they choose to see it as a "sub" activitity they can. A lot of it has to do with the context that it is in. Personally, I view it as a VERY dominant activity. I like knowing I have the power to make him squirm.

AquaticSub -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:49:00 AM)
Oddness. But thanks for the link.

KatyLied -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 8:52:12 AM)
You may enjoy checking out the categories that are guaranteed to grant "jumped the shark" status to tv shows: http://www.jumptheshark.com/

AquaticSub -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:04:09 AM)
Looking it over now. Quite interesting and amusing really.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:17:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: drawntothedark I do not like oral sex performed on me. Sooooo of course, that's what most of them love to do. I don't think they do it because they "like" it. What they "like" is making me uncomfortable. LOL, yeah I've done that as well (oral on him), just to disturb a boy's comfort zone. [:D] M

Caitriona -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:18:16 AM)
I do not see the act of oral sex as "dominant" or "submissive." I enjoy going down on My Lord every once in awhile, although I daresay he wishes it were more often. As I don't often reach orgasm this way, receiving oral is a sort of "warm up" treat for me. I like him to start there and move to other things,

SusanofO -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:18:48 AM)
It's weird, but I've always been able to "take it or leave it" when it's being done to me, but I love doing it to someone else (really). - Susan

Petruchio -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:56:30 AM)
There's a web site domme who's constantly sucking off her toy-boy in her videos. Another video (perhaps by the same domme, perhaps not) showed her teaching a slave girl how to suck her husband. Personally, I'm in the dom position whether I'm giving or receiving.

Naughtygal33 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 9:59:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Since my dominant was sitting right next to me... Me: "Do you like giving me oral?" Him: "When you are on your flow?" Me: "No, just whenever." Him: "Yeah, I don't mind. It's cute when you scream." He does give me the most wicked grin when my legs are in a spreader bar, my heads are tied over my head and he's about to lower his head... God I love this man... Lucky girl! That sounds heavenly.

PONYSEEKER -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 10:06:11 AM)
Yes! Yes! and Yes! Nothing like doing a long cool muff dive espectially when they are bound and hanging from the ceiling in such a fashion to disallow any kind of movement or interfearence from the reciever... it can be quite a torture locking them into an orgasmic prison betrayed and enslaved by there own pelvice!

SlaveAkasha -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 10:12:17 AM)
I very much enjoy doing oral sex on Master and he does on me also. He has also found it's a great torture device for me. I can't take any touching or licking after I orgasm, so he continues to do it and I can't stop him. I get a lot of pleasure from him doing oral (he is very good), but he likes to be a sadist in the process. Kasha

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 10:54:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO It's weird, but I've always been able to "take it or leave it" when it's being done to me, but I love doing it to someone else (really). - Susan The only way receiving oral (or any sex) is a take it or leave it situation for me is if someone is clueless and not paying attention to directions on how to do it to moi. I doubt I could be satisfied in a relationship with a man who didn't enjoy sex in all ways, or one who wouldn't take the time to learn how to give and receive with me. quote: Personally, I'm in the dom position whether I'm giving or receiving. I'm with you there Petruchio. I've had to explain to one or two boys that taking what I want from them (as when giving) is how I dominate some days. M

xonemasterx -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 12:06:58 PM)
"I love it! I can't get enough!" Its an integral part of who I am and what I enjoy. I love a partner who shares the passion.

lateralist1 -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 12:49:26 PM)
I love oral both ways. I think some people still have this idea that Dom/mes do certain things and not tothers. Can I say it once more. If you are totally in control of the other person you are the Dom/me. It doesn't matter what you like to do. You do what you want to do and your submissive likes it or doesn't. As long as you are responsible for their safety and you care about them as people that is all that matters. If they are not happy then they are not submissive to you. Or they are just unhappy people fullstop. Not a lot you can do about that now is there? So yes I like giving oral depending on what mood I am in it might be pleasurable or painful. It could be torture or release. And I love receiving it especially when I have trained a slave to perform well. It's the same as everything else some people do it well naturally others need to be trained. It's for my pleasure but if a slave loves it then great. I would much rather they enjoy themselves than not. If they don't like it then fine I'll use it as punishment lol.

OrionTheWolf -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 12:49:44 PM)
I personally enjoy hearing my girls scream and shake uncontrolably from things I do, including going down on them. It is what pleases me and that is all that really matters from a Dominant perspective. Each person can determine that for themselves. Orion quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass I'm just curious, cause I can't be the only one, but people don't admit to this too often: Are there any Masters/Doms/Owners/Tops (etc.) out there who really enjoy performing oral sex on their subs/slaves/property etc? I absolutely enjoy going down on my boy - as long as it's when I want to. He would never ask anyway. Are you brave enough to admit it?

Lashra -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 1:10:17 PM)
We both love it. I do it when I want to and he does it with great zeal when I tell him too. I really wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't enjoy oral as much as I do. So yes I admit it and its my relationship so it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. ~Lashra

SusanofO -> RE: Doms, Subs, and Oral Sex (12/12/2006 1:13:04 PM)
Goodpoint, BlackTallFullfig, I may have just had not-very-adept partners. - Susan

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