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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 6:57:21 AM   
ADomlesssub


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ORIGINAL: Purrkittykat

I've never experienced an orgasm where I'm not the one playing with my clit. Receiving oral, different positions... I would love to lay back and let my lover do all the work but it doesn't seem to work.  And you can orgasm from someone sucking your nipples? Maybe I'm broken...


oh honey i dont think you are broken at all..... i used to find it hard to allow myself to accept pleasure from my partner too - not thinking i was worthy of it, or that they weren't really enjoying pleasuring me....

please please try to overcome that - a Master once ordered me to lie and back and relax for him and hey presto it worked.... we chatted afterwards, and he said that it was making him feel inferior or useless beacuase i couldn't orgasm under his touch.......

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 7:09:22 AM   
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Hmm just wish my lover was a bit more dominant  the amount he goes down on me etc. has lessened i think due to him getting so upset he can't make me come.. and we have the problem that I'm the sexual deviant and have very different libidos... hehe good luck with your master though  ur lucky he seems to know what he's doing!

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 8:25:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub

Ah thank jeepers for that - i thought that was the case - i mean many chicks needing clit stim too.... but my last master was adamant that MOST girlies climax through penetration - i did suggest that maybe that's what they told him and perhaps faked it....

Ooh that flogging hurt......hehe


Your last Master didn't know women very well.  We are all very different.

Most women that I know cannot climax with just penetration - clit stimulation is a necessity.  I am an anomoly in that I *can* orgasm with just penetration, and unless I am masterbating really cannot do clit stimulation along with the penetration (takes away my concentration).

Don't try so hard to change what your anatomy is able to give.  Find an understanding Master and you will find the key to your orgasmal happiness.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 8:30:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: jblack

I've had orgasms while being kissed on my ears; I've had orgasms while my nipples are sucked; I've had orgasms in my sleep.


You're making me drool!  I do all of those things too, and then some... nipple orgasms are the BEST!!

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 8:39:24 AM   
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I have found each female to be made a little different in reference to angle of vagina and location of the clit in relation to it. Some women receive stimulation to the clit during penetration, some don't. As far as toys, I suggest you buy a vibrating cock ring for your Dom, my girl loves it.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 9:29:48 AM   
BORAT


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I has orgasm while making hand party on the khram.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jblack

I've had orgasms while being kissed on my ears; I've had orgasms while my nipples are sucked; I've had orgasms in my sleep.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 11:54:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BORAT

I has orgasm while making hand party on the khram.



Ya know BORAT, you're one sexy mofo.  I might have to dump LaM for you.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/22/2006 5:45:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub

oh honey i dont think you are broken at all..... i used to find it hard to allow myself to accept pleasure from my partner too - not thinking i was worthy of it, or that they weren't really enjoying pleasuring me....

please please try to overcome that - a Master once ordered me to lie and back and relax for him and hey presto it worked.... we chatted afterwards, and he said that it was making him feel inferior or useless beacuase i couldn't orgasm under his touch.......

snarf
xxx


In my experience, not only is it a matter of feeling worthy of receiving pleasure, it is often an issue of feeling connected to one's partner and being relaxed with them.  Some people don't seem to need this kind of connection in order to relax and enjoy the sharing of sexual intimacy and pleasures, while others do.  As a male, I personally find it difficult to reach an orgasm through penetration with a new partner without this kind of mental and emotional connection. 

It seems as though there are a myriad of factors that go into what it takes to be able to relax and allow oneself to receive and enjoy all of the pleasures of another's company when being intimate with them.  It appears to me that those who can do it with just anyone they have no particular connection with or feelings for are more the exception than the norm.  To my way of thinking, that's a good thing in this day and age where one can so easily die as an outcome of one single casual encounter.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 1:38:35 AM   
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What's this about Cambridge, England?
  

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 3:21:42 AM   
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Like I have said in another post I consider myself very lucky as I can orgasm so easily.

If he bites me on the neck it drives me wild... if he keeps doing it I just melt and there is my first one. That one spot acts as an on switch and practically anything he does can bring me to orgasm: the nipples, my back, my stomach, my thighs.... it gets to point where stimulating the clit gets me to have the biggest orgasm which could last for hours and I cant walk afterwards and my whole body is shaking..
Also just entering me is enough to drive me over the edge too.

As for the position mentioned right at the start (doggie style with your head low and your arse as high as it would go) well that gets me going good too but that because I can feel his testicles press against my clit as he thrusts ***swoons***

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 6:17:09 AM   
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I can climax from intercourse but it isn't gspot stimulation, it's indirect clitoral stimulation. Some women can orgasm from indirect clit stimulation and others need direct. But for gspot stimulation he uses his fingers and frequently has his thumb on my clit as well.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 11:36:33 AM   
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The g-spot is about a 1/4 inch inside the vagina on the left side at about 11:55 if it were a clock. Feels like corderoy. Make sure you pee before starting g-spot play. Cumming like that makes you feel like you have to pee and knowing you're empty will help you relax so you can cum.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 12:58:51 PM   
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I am 50 years old, have never had a vaginal orgasm, clitoral only, but they have been some very good clitoral ones...lol.  I can multiple or prolonged orgasms from clitoral stimulation.  The research I have read says that I am in the norm more so than most would think.  Some men will always think if I stick it in enough she will come...HAHAHAHA.  I say, he plays with his dick and licks me.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 1:27:30 PM   
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For me, the g-spot isn't the "magic orgasm button" that people seem to think it is.  Just touching it doesn't send you into orbit....it's when I've done everything else for awhile and am getting close to orgasm, but not quite going over the top, THEN is when the g-spot stimulation has magic powers.

If you just start g-spot stimulation early on, though, nothing happens.

< Message edited by windchymes -- 4/9/2007 1:28:28 PM >


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RE: G-Spotless.... - 4/9/2007 1:53:20 PM   
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We are all different.
All three at the same time always works for me though.
But then when has making love only been about orgasm or the denial of orgasm?

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