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RE: forced masculinity - 3/22/2006 8:06:17 AM

TrainerC

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Yum, Texas, that's the reason I opened this thread to begin with, because I thought it might be about force masculinity re: femsubs. I'm in a genderqueer group on another website, and we had a thread about force dressing, etc, mtf TGs, which was hot and pretty edgy.

In answer to the OP: Yep. My trainee is a nerd boy who works on computers in a basement. You wouldn't believe the clothes he has (eventually past tense). They're not girly at all, but come on, pink plaid shirts??? LOL! I'm going to slowly change all of his wardrobe as we can afford it, and have done other stuff already, like having him grow a goatee, and work out. What I'd like to eventually accomplish, actually, is the butler look/attitude, because of his age and soft voice.

I was sorry to see how flamey this thread got, but I reckon it's par for the course. I don't really want to add to the flames, but I do wish that there wasn't this general idea that male subs should be grovelling whiney little things. I get it so often in emails and IMs, and I guess it comes from porn sites. I'm not bashing any one group of people, but I'd like it better if I were approached as a person, rather than as some sort of "Supreme Female Being," or whatever's selling at that particular time. In my experience, the ones who approach me like that are never the types who actually want to meet and serve.

Anyhow, this has been an interesting thread and has covered a huge range of topics.
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C

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RE: forced masculinity - 3/22/2006 8:15:40 AM

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I have had one Domme dress me up like a woman twice and it did nothing for me. Maybe because (and this is just the way I think) I don’t see anything humiliating about being a woman?

THANK you for saying this, mantis. That squicks me like just about nothing else. I really love my CD friends, because they dress like women because they love women, love their power, love their clothes, smells, etc. But when I run into someone who wants to be force-femmed because it's humiliating to him to be seen as feminine, that's a huge turnoff, and makes me ill.

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C

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