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AquaticSub -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/2/2007 10:28:35 PM)
~Semi Fast Reply~ I've read though some of the comments - I admit not all. I'm sorry this happened to you hon. I don't really think I have anything to add that hasn't already been said. Just talk to him about this. I know that's going to be hard for you but that's reallly all you can do and it's the best way to make sure that this doesn't happen again. sends hugs

julietsierra -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 6:44:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra He was shocked when he heard this because it honestly never occurred to him that I was uncomfortable. While he knows I'm shyer, it really didn't occur to him that it had been difficult for me. He told me then how he thought about the whole situation so that in the future, I'd be better able to handle it. And that was that. Sometimes even the obvious escapes those who care for us the most. juliet quote: MagiksSlave We both made some mistakes but mostley it was a lack of some comunication... HA! I got it right! Yay! (that's just an aside for me.) I've very glad you two got this sorted out MagiksSlave. These things always seem so much bigger when they're only in our heads, don't they? juliet

Devilslilsister -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 6:52:32 AM)
quote: Ahh so you think you are cute......that makes the picture alot clearer. God so loves the fool but then again ignorance is truely bliss as you have so aptly proved. I will take your discription of yourself as being an ass to mean you are sorry for being ignorant and disrespectful. I can take a joke as well as anyone, I simple do not find you funny is all. p.s. I'm not a Sir Sir or no Sir, doesnt matter. And yes, i find myself hilarious. No no no, no apologies here. Respect is given where earned. Its a shame you didnt find me funny, but i cant please everyone all the time.. just myself and my Master. (aye and he'd of thought it was hilarious) its a shame i'm just waking up and still blurry eyed. Otherwise i'd crack some other inane joke and start my day off well. Unforuntely im leaving for Georgia soon so i cant come back later and help you feel offended either. Lighten up! okkk...... lemme i got one! Domiguy said: quote: p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers (p.s. i think i spotted one to be protected from!)

Devilslilsister -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 6:54:37 AM)
quote: Here is one link for you to look at and many others can be found: http://www.garynull.com/Documents/CaffeineEffects.htm Caffeine stimulates the Central Nervous System and many of the effects of large doses of caffeine mimic symptoms of anxiety. When I suffered from depression and anxiety I found it very beneficial to severely limit the amount of caffeine I consumed. Even now if I have too much during the day I start having anxiety symptoms, even though I am not anxious. Knight's kyra Wow.. thank you. Just reading it now and i'm telling you Soda is getting worse by the minute. Not only are the things in it bad for you, but it also affects you physically like the CNS and other crazy things. Amazing. <grins> No wonder so many people dont drink cola anymore...

BDSM05478 -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 7:49:49 AM)
edit because I was stooping to someone elses level and I am better than that.

DominaSmartass -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 8:41:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BDSM05478 quote: funny to me would be.... somone in a rocky, half assed delusional relationship getting knocked up cause they think having a baby will make that reationship all better. now that is funny! < Message edited by BDSM05478 -- 1/3/2007 8:25:27 AM > LOL! You're right, that is funny. But then again, I'm often told I have an extremly "wrong" sense of humor. And I do love making jokes at religious people's expense but I normally stick to something specific enough that I know what I'm joking about is actually valid. Like the neuroses of my own religion...OY!

Devilslilsister -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 8:52:00 AM)
LOLOL No you arent better then that.... and your attack isnt valid - which is unfortunate as i could of been seriously hurt, but lucky for me you didnt attack me properly. What you should of said was something like "what is funny is some one as emtionally unstable as you could possibly think they could raise another child" Now that might of gotten me. But to think i am dumb enough to think that baby's make anything better.. well sheesh. It WAS all a joke. Its a shame you got so offended. I did let you know i also believe in Jesus to sort of notify you it was all in jest and i obviously know there is a difference between religious fanatics and those that practice. Which as a person that i am sure does not hide under a rock.. you would know there are some crazy fanatics out there. But if you want to get offended and start throwing personal attacks, hoping to hurt other people. So be it. Just dont go calling yourself one that follows Jesus, because then i'd be offended. You have no right... you did some where say its intent aye? My intent was being silly.... what was yours? Oh thats right.. you were trying to hurt me. Better luck next time and i will offer some advice. When you are trying to hurt some one - make sure you have a good understanding of the truth that affects them AND its also good to tell them the truth that they prefer to ignore. Best way to hurt some one is tell them the truth about themselves. better luck next time dweeb

Mercnbeth -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 9:31:12 AM)
first you said: quote: Well Master wanst letting me drink... He even made sure to let the host know about that... then later you said: quote: ...I had a few sips of Masters beer and one full drink of my own (I dont drink a lot as I have said) but yeah I took into account the beer and the drink I had and the sip of one of Masters other drinks I had ... quote: I think we can chalk it up to us both beeing human. or perhaps not just being human, but making a few choices that humans often do, that left you, and them, with a less than desirable outcome. this slave has known a few people that have been on meds for their depressive disorders and they are always encouraged by their physician as well as their therapist/psychologist NOT to consume alcohol while taking the medication because it can cause seizures, as well as a relapse into undesirable thoughts/behaviors if they skip dosages and then throw alcohol into the mix. you don't go to any counselling or therapy, just the meds, then? if they aren't working for you, perhaps you should talk to your physician about that. sometimes, for some people, just prescription meds aren't effective after awhile...or at all. quote: I just needed to vent a little here and get some feedback as we all do sometimes. this slave can appreciate that this place is a resource for venting and feedback on personal relationship issues before one communicates with somone's partner in their relationship, but not all folks here participate that way. an important cornerstone in the M/s relationship of which this slave is a part, is the trust that communication with Master first and foremost will never be something this slave would ever regret. if this slave ever brings anything here, Master is aware of it beforehand because it is something we have already discussed. we even discussed this reply to your post. He reminded this slave that although this post has nothing to do with your Master's profile, the fact that he self-identifies as a switch makes this slave unable to relate to the intricasies of such a dynamic from this slave's perspective. us humans, however, are blessed with the ability to recognize patterns and also the ability to change our patterns, armed with knowledge and desire if we so choose. best of luck to you and your Master[:)]

MagiksSlave -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 10:36:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania This thread seems to be a very good example of why some people feel the need to make up profiles to ask advice about situations they may face to get input. MS, having just read through this thread tonight I am glad that you have seemingly worked through your issues with your master. Remember that sometimes jumping to the worst conclusion is not necessarily good for you. Also, you can only do the best that you can, you can do no better than that. Be good to yourself, have faith in yourself, treat yourself kindly and then the way others treat you will have a little less sting (even if they are your master). I have always thought you a sweetie from what I read on this board, and instead of trying to answer for what another has or has not written in their profile, just keep on taking responsibility for yourself and your actions. Take what you need from here and leave the rest. Happy New Year! Thank you very much Happy new year to you to julia Magik's slave

MagiksSlave -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 10:53:17 AM)
Mercn Beth Hi thanks for the lovely reply... No Master wasnt letting me drink he did say however I could have 1 drink at midnight and yes i guess I was a little sneeky with that by taking a sip or 2 of Masters drink(even though he knew and let me) by all and all I had about 1/100th the amount to drink from what the others where drinking. I am seeing a therapist and I do in general know not to drink and I have said I dont drink often I said in another reply if I have 5 drinks a year that would be a lot. My meds are actually working great but I have been out of them for about a week now and that is where the problem with that was. Last night we had a long long talk and things seem rather back to normal. He did apologise to me for not beeing there for me the past few weeks and he promised that very soon he would have a lot more time for me. Magik's slave

BDSM05478 -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/3/2007 3:59:51 PM)
I'm feeling you there DS, I too have a very warped sense of humor and chuckle at some of the worst times, like when Karma takes a big ol bite of someones ass! Thats why I do not get angry anymore usually life will dole out a punishment far better than what I can come up with and that is funny. I love all religions for one reason, way or belief they have, as most have the same basic concepts but it is only correct to joke about your own faith. Mazel Tov!

MagiksSlave -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/4/2007 10:22:43 AM)
I never got that... beeing able to joke about your own faith.... why is beeing called a penny pinching jew ok when its by another jew??? oy vey Magik's slave

BDSM05478 -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/4/2007 10:49:41 AM)
lol its also ok to use racial slurs in refference to your own kind. Only another white person can call me cracker, ofey, blue eyed devil, whitebread ect. I would guess that since they are the same religion or race as each other it makes it ok. Like only fat people can tell fat jokes in public.

MagiksSlave -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/4/2007 10:54:30 AM)
cant say I have ever told a fat joke ever.... ((giggles)) Magik's slave edited to add: LOL Iv hijacked my own thread Magik's slave

Presidentialwhor -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/4/2007 10:55:23 AM)
personally, i don't do racial slurs at all...whether it is within my own race or not. its just stupid to me. ( i tend not to do name calling either, although, it has happen. lol lol) *Note: sorry if am hijacking a thread or something....this just stood out to me. so sorry lol.

DominaSmartass -> RE: what to do when your opinion of your Dom changes (1/4/2007 11:13:46 AM)
To quote a very profound source: Everyone's a little bit racist, sometimes. Doesn't mean we go around committing hate crimes. Look around and you will find No one's really color blind. Maybe it's a fact we all should face Everyone makes judgments Based on race. Everyone's a little bit racist, today. So, everyone's a little bit racist, okay Ethinic jokes might be uncouth, But you laugh because they're based on truth. Don't take them as personal attacks. Everyone enjoys them - So relax! Everyone's a little bit racist, it's true. But everyone is just about as racist as you! If we all could just admit that we are racist a little bit, And everyone stopped being so P.C. Maybe we could live in Harmony! (From "Avenue Q" Written by Jeff Marx and Robert Lopez)

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