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Forced head and body shave - 1/11/2007 4:46:51 PM

worthlessinnyc

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hello all. My question may sound a bit harsh but when is it appropriate to tell a Mistress that I am totally into complete Head and Bodyshaving as my way of giving myself and proving complete commitment? Should i do this before i see a Mistress? please help

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RE: Forced head and body shave - 1/11/2007 7:04:45 PM

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Why not just make a list?
Most submissives on collarme create "Do Me Wish Lists".
Make a list of what you want to "submit" to, good luck!

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RE: Forced head and body shave - 1/11/2007 7:20:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Why not just make a list?
Most submissives on collarme create "Do Me Wish Lists".
Make a list of what you want to "submit" to, good luck!

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RE: Forced head and body shave - 1/11/2007 7:30:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: worthlessinnyc

hello all. My question may sound a bit harsh but when is it appropriate to tell a Mistress that I am totally into complete Head and Bodyshaving as my way of giving myself and proving complete commitment? Should i do this before i see a Mistress? please help

This isn't about doing what your Mistress wants...this is about you expressing yourself in a way that you hope she will percieve as devotional. How a person shows love/devotion and how a person sees love/devotion from another may be two different things.

For example, I tend to show those around me that I love them by giving gifts. How I see that I'm loved, though, is through quality talk. So, to tell my lover I care for him, I'll buy him a CD...for him to tell me I'm important in his life, he talks to me as close to a daily basis as he can.

So, what you need to do is one of two things:
1) Decide that you simply like this for yourself, then do and maintain it for yourself.
OR
2) Find someone who would see this as you saying what you intend it to say. To do that, you'll need to talk to them.

My observations have been that if it's something that's really important to someone, it's really, deep inside, important because they simply LIKE it...and sometimes they have to find a reason to make the action ok. Like me and my short hair...I cut it, at first, to send a negative message to my 2nd husband; I needed the reason of rebellion to make it ok for me to have super-short hair. Now, I realize that I should simply do it becasue I LIKE short hair. And I do. Got it trimmed last week, too.

Just my thoughts.

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RE: Forced head and body shave - 1/12/2007 8:16:33 AM

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hello all. My question may sound a bit harsh but when is it appropriate to tell a Mistress that I am totally into complete Head and Bodyshaving as my way of giving myself and proving complete commitment? Should i do this before i see a Mistress? please help

Honestly, no.

If you really want to show committment to someone then you let them know what parts of your life and body you are willing to recognize their authority over. Then you leave it up them to state a perference or an order.

Doing something without a perference or order shows your desires not a desire to let her do as you wish.

Fox keeps his hair short because it is my perference, he keeps his body shaved because it is my perference. In terms of his body hair, he didn't like it any way so our perferences match. In terms of his head hair, he'd love to have longer hair but he does not because as my slave I have first say over that part of his body.

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RE: Forced head and body shave - 1/12/2007 6:00:18 PM

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If you really want to show committment to someone then you let them know what parts of your life and body you are willing to recognize their authority over. Then you leave it up them to state a perference or an order.

I agree completely.

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