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juliaoceania -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:01:44 PM)
quote: mumbles something about nitwit submissives who dont realize he is the be all and end all and deserves a perfect 10* Sinergy Howabout a 20? That is actually what you are.

KnightofMists -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:04:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: mumbles something about nitwit submissives who dont realize he is the be all and end all and deserves a perfect 10* Sinergy Howabout a 20? That is actually what you are. suck up...... I could of swore you said 9 3/4's... but really that is rather um big....

Sinergy -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:07:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: mumbles something about nitwit submissives who dont realize he is the be all and end all and deserves a perfect 10* Sinergy Howabout a 20? That is actually what you are. suck up...... I could of swore you said 9 3/4's... but really that is rather um big.... Good call, KoM. Sinergy

KnightofMists -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:16:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy quote: suck up...... I could of swore you said 9 3/4's... but really that is rather um big.... Good call, KoM. Sinergy see julia.... compliment a guy's manhood and you can get yourself out of all sorts of trouble

lighthearted -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:18:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: lighthearted maybe instead of this turning into an "I'm better than you are thread" or a "why are all _____ fat", it could be a "why can't we all just get along thread"... I suppose it escapes some people that this thread is not about Fat people. He could of easily used "Purple" People.. We need to look beyond our own defensive responses. I agree...but as I'm neither fat nor purple nor old nor blue, nor really that emotionally invested in bulletin boards or online personal ads, I'm pretty sure I'm not defensive either.

FatDomDaddy -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:21:15 PM)
I have found that all too many women what to experience their fetishes and kinks but are afraid of being hurt by having their own sexuality being used without love. Worse are the women who gossip, shun and bitch about the woman who are empowered by their sexuality ands play for play's sake. I cannot tell you how many times I have herd a woman telly me that another is a slut because she plays around with different Doms and Dommes. There are many many women who cannot have sex or sexuality intimacy with a man unless in their own minds they have deep feeling of trust based on what they perceive as love. They make hell for the other women (Not just in the BDSM world but in the Vanilla world as well) who don't need the same levels of love and trust to enjoys their own hedonistic pleasures.

juliaoceania -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:23:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: mumbles something about nitwit submissives who dont realize he is the be all and end all and deserves a perfect 10* Sinergy Howabout a 20? That is actually what you are. suck up...... I could of swore you said 9 3/4's... but really that is rather um big.... Well if it was an actual 20, there is not much chance I could ever "suck it up"[:D] quote: see julia.... compliment a guy's manhood and you can get yourself out of all sorts of trouble Yeah, I was "speechless" for about 10 minutes trying to think of a comeback....Ha Ha!

juliaoceania -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:26:37 PM)
PS The name of this thread is "Unrealistic Expectations"... I would call a "20" pretty unrealistic come to think about it[;)]

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 9:57:38 PM)
leaving bodyweight aside, other unrealistic expectations: women who have almost NO info in their profiles at all expecting a man to risk contacting them and providing at least 500% more info than THEY do. people whom from their profiles are specifying romantic needs on a site that is basically FETISH AND SEX ORIENTED and expect Don Juan to show up, or people that approach the folks just mentioned in this sentence with "bow down, call me sir and rinse my cock with your mouth" expecting any form of reply other than a hearty guffaw. anyone who thinks because they are kinky they are entitled to or gonna get a better/more honest go of the merry go round of partners than nilla people. Still think that? How big was the rock dropped on your head while you were a toddler, huh? What neural cell destroying drugs that sent your neuron flow to a trickle did you OD on before you got here, expecting better than the average redneck in the local watering hole? No matter if you dress in PVC or KMart fake-ass Church Sunday Polka Dot outfits, all the same when naked, expecting anything "deeper" as so many threads are about is UNREALISTIC. FUCK fat versus non fat, fuck whining about "wahhh, I was used and he wasn't monog with me". How about being equal RE COMMON FUCKING SENSE rather than the kilogram weigh in? Want women to reply to your profile, dingleberry? WRITE A REAL FUCKING PROFILE. LEARN HOW TO FUCLKING FLIRT, DUMB-ASS. Hey toots, want guys you sub for to stop cheating on you? Want him to be dedicated and monog with you? How about acting like you're MORE WORTH THAT than the women he's also after instead of being a whiny-ass net shrew? Speaking of which, and speaking as a generally monog guy, UNREALIST is expecting that dating from a pool of people that is basically HALF non monog (overall kinksters/bdsm) will net you a monog fish. You want monog? date in a goddamn MONOG POOL, DUHRWAD. If someone has mainly spanking and assplay as "loves" or "lives" for on their profile, instead of being anti male genderist and whining about cheaters in the bdsm crowd, or being anti female genderist and complaining about overly high demands, go to a fucking SPANKO board or site. Most of them are TOTALLY into monog, ongoing relationships, you just DON;T see the amount of "wahhhh, he did this to me" threads there. Why? the guys are what you want: DEDICATED. Unrealistic is harvesting an orchard of perfectly good peaches then bitching when you looked in your basket and found no cherries.\ Good fucking GOD.

michaels4evr -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 10:33:42 PM)
He lost me at..Tall....

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 11:12:07 PM)
Yeah you tell 'em to get real Michael! Covers mouth and giggles that the so called "stunning" are just as pissed off about unfullfilled love lives as the so called unattractive M

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 11:38:53 PM)
and since I'm on a roll... profiles and posts that complain of being victimized and basically say "if you are a victimizer, leave me alone." HELLLLLLO???? Ever hear of a red flag to a goddamn BULL? I hate these pricks too, but dammit, if anyone is gonna put that crap on their profile or start a thread about it hoping for a fucking PITY PARTY (and that happens on ALL such sites like these), then for GOD'S sake get a goddamn clue and do some research on the web or speak to a professional that knows about such things, because the FIRST thing they will tell you (if they didn't get their degree outta a crackerjack box or from some country with a name that's hard to pronounce or is popular for offshore bank accounts) is that ~ VICTIMIZERS seek out people who "smell" like a victim previous victims have the easiest "smell" whinging online in boards or chat or on your profile about it sends them TO you rather than AWAY from you like a mako shark in the water while you're bleeding out from an ARTERY rather than a vein BEING a non victim to avoid being victimized is a REALISTIC expectation. Putting out a GLOBAL INTERNET billboard saying you have been a victim (which bastards know mean you'll be easier to hurt again) and then expecting nice guys to come to you, when dammit, you were suckered by the BAD GUYS PRETENDING TO BE NICE GUYS, is flaming fucking UNREALISTIC. This goes for guys too, in all the ways we know. I have tons more but I know this is way more than anyone wanted me to say so back to the show.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 11:43:05 PM)
I for one am glad you're able to get all this shit off your chest here too like the rest of us... [sm=biggrin.gif] LOL. M

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/15/2007 11:48:52 PM)
better for me to get shit off my chest and possibly help three people suffer less from scumbags than have it unsaid and have those three make a mistake that they'll never forget.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:13:21 AM)
by the way, also he makes a size 16 sound like a beached fat blubbering whale with his comment about a gf who was size 16 but he could look beyond it.. 16 is NOT an indication you're not taking care of yourself, and 16 is NOT fat.

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:29:11 AM)
I won't date anyone under a size 8. and THAT is only if they are under 5 foot 2, LOL for some peple, always Mae West and Jane Mansfield, NEVER Audrey Hepburn or "Jolie" or "Kylie Minogue". For some of us, Mae an Jane (sexually, visually) are the "ten", and the Kylie's and Nicole Kidmans are the "5"'s. That does NOT make us chubby chasers, it does not make the women we like "better or worse". IT DOES however underscore that the hollywod crap is the Emperor's New Clothes of body image and that over 60% of the men in the world prefer curves to bulemic bones. We just generally have no voice in the media meatgrinder. I know tis is an aside but I just wanted to support the above post RE dress sizes. Because that involves realistic/unrealistic expectations as well. The notion that with enough work, EVERY WOMAN can be a size 4 or less is BULLSHIT. Genes, bloodline, cultural background all deny that and frankly the Hollywood and Fashion Wankerage forcing that day tyo day is as lame a minority rule as Apartheid in S. Africa before we changed that in the 80's. so fucking there. again, back to the show.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:29:56 AM)
I actually disagree with your theory that people who have had a lot of drama don't attract nice guys... I know at least a couple of nice guys (friends) who only date/marry girls who've had a lot of drama, lol. M

lilme4u -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:38:44 AM)
i can`t help being a size 6/8 and 4`10

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:43:41 AM)
"I actually disagree with your theory that people who have had a lot of drama don't attract nice guys... I know at least a couple of nice guys (friends) who only date/marry girls who've had a lot of drama, lol." 1: That's an inferrence from what I posted; not to be picky, but that's not what I really said. 2: as a guy, lemme tell you, we often do not tell female friends how "hapy" we are in relationships with women, especially if you are friends with those women. Sorry, many of us don't. I'd bet if I was best friends with the guys you reference I'd hear some DIFFERENT aspects. which again goes to "real/unrealisistic expectations". Just to lighten things up, how many men that you know (including nilla) do you think have faked an orgasm versus the amount of women whom have (for any reason)? Not that we booty men can;t spit on a woman's back after doggystyle, LOL yeah, that was crass, but dammit, the joke had to be made. \ I mean you as an African American woman will appreciate that one of my HEROES is Flip Wilson (far funnier and erudite than Eddie Murphy or even R. Pryor), and as his character was fond of saying... "The devil made me do it!" to expect less of a Flip fan is, well... unrealistic. Badomp-boomsh!

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Unrealistic expectations (1/16/2007 12:43:43 AM)
Well you can, but I won't tell yah how, lol... This thread isn't about size, it's about a man who felt the need to tell other people to get real about their ability to attract a kool mate.... M

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