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Will I EVER find a mistress? - 1/17/2007 2:57:33 PM

sublois

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Hello my name is Lois and I am sub.I have an STD(herpes) from being raped when I was younger.I want to know if it is possible to find a mistress who is willing to accept me or is it just hopeless.I am a good sub I have had alot of Dommes tell me that but none to accept me yet.My dream is to be a live-in sub but I don't know if its ever going to happen.Well thank you for your time.
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RE: Will I EVER find a mistress? - 1/17/2007 3:00:18 PM

MsJesse88

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Well it is good you are up front about it, and Im sure with patience you will find someone perfect for you that accepts this; just as in any type of relationship between any two people, no one is perfect.

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RE: Will I EVER find a mistress? - 1/17/2007 3:03:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: sublois

Hello my name is Lois and I am sub.I have an STD(herpes) from being raped when I was younger.I want to know if it is possible to find a mistress who is willing to accept me or is it just hopeless.I am a good sub I have had alot of Dommes tell me that but none to accept me yet.My dream is to be a live-in sub but I don't know if its ever going to happen.Well thank you for your time and hope to get some replys.

First I'm sorry that this terrible event in your past has left such a disease in your body.

Second, I think that disease (any disease) is a matter of the individual and their own risks and illnesses. If sex is important to you then the type of sex may increase or decrease risks of transmission. If sex isn't important to you then I don't see much of a problem.

That's the way with any disease though and certainly the case with all physically issues and many mental issues.

I think you being up front about this will only increase your chances of finding a good match. It wil take time, it always takes time. How exactly are you searching for a mistress, if I may ask? How we search and where we search plays a huge role in our success of finding partners.

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