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Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:12:31 AM

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I promised I wouldn't write anymore about "those problems" and I'm not going to now. We got rid of that problem and had a few long talks. For awile I was sure it was over,that he wouldn't be in a D/s relationship with me. Boy was I wrong. Apperantly after the problem left we still had alot to work out. One of the biggest being my ability to comunicate,the second being my ability to listen . So I finally did both. I can't even tell you how GLAD that I did.

Please don't think I'm to strange, but I asked him if I could call him Daddy. Actually I wrote him in a letter as I was blushing furiously. I was afraid that he would be creeped out by it. To my surprised he smiled and said he would be pleased. I'm not attracted to my father in anyway what so ever but calling my husband Daddy was a huge turn on. As a matter of fact we had awesome, very intense sex with me begging Daddy to fuck me.

I don't think this makes me a sick person, because as i said I'm not attracted to my real father in anyway. However i would sure appreciate some insight from anyone who also enjoys this and some opinions of everyone else. Thanks---Lady

RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:28:29 AM

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I'd say daddy/daughter or daddy/little girl relationships are the 2nd most common in bdsm type situations. It's very very common, many subs enjoy being protected, they enjoy giving up adult responsibilities, they enjoy having someone else to take care of things, and being a "little girl with a daddy" allows them to do all of that in a very direct way. Many doms enjoy the nurturing aspect as well.

For some people it can be a role play/occasional thing, for some it's a natural dynamic and for some it's a total living situation, in which the sub ALWAYS is the little girl.

Age play is varied and it would be difficult to go through all the different shades that exist and even more of the motivations for it, but if this is how you feel yourself developing, then you can enjoy it.

There is also of course a higher risk factor, when relationships hit trouble it can be a LOT harder to go against "daddy" and be left alone than an adult relationship. BUt as long as everyone is aware of this and can deal with it in an adult way when necessary, it's not a problem.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:52:29 AM

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Thank you for sharing. I wasn't sure when we started in bdsm how to make things run smoother, (you know we've had problems) Then it just kind of fell into place. We both feel good about this. It's not one of us (me) trying to make the other except it,it's both of us truely enjoying the same thing. It's comforting to know it's pretty common.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 2:29:58 PM

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Here are two earlier threads on Dom Daddys:

Daddy?

Dom Daddy?

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 4:06:54 PM

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BlouLady, I don't think it makes you a sick person either, for I also call my Dom "daddy" now too. We stumbled across this preference quite by accident actually, I was sick and he set me up for the night before he left for work, and when he came home without thinking I told our family dogs that I needed daddy's attention too, and it became a course of discussion with him being very pleased with the idea of it, and for me I will now be able to act out the "naughty" side of me and get the reactions that I want without fear of "Master" thinking I am trying to top from the bottom. And beleive me I can be very mischeivious at times. It meets a need for me to be nutured and taken care of by him and I beleive it meets the nurturing side of him also, for he isn't a Master who is into whipping just to do it without cause, now this will meet my needs for it and give him a cause. Hope this doesn't sound dorky, but it fits us and what we seek.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 7:46:12 PM

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That's how it is with us! he had a hard being a Dom because he didn't like to hit me for no reason, and I didn't want to top from the bottom.Now like you I can express myself and feel good with fear of letting him down. It has been real good so far.Let's keep our fingers crossed.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:02:12 PM

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Sir has already expressed that He is not into daddy/daughter. However, W/e had an interesting conversation about how He was very parental with me (He actually is with many people). While i will not call him Daddy (on purpose anyway), He and i both know it is the nurturing side of Him that i need as well.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:23:23 PM

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This is actually the type of relationship I am looking for. I find it very erotic to be daddy's little girl. I feel like I belong to someone exclusively this way. I feel the since of security and love that I have a hard time finding, but somehow feel through this type of endearments between the Dom and the sub.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:33:27 PM

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It does give me sense of belonging and security.I feel wonderful,happy and taken care of.Thank you for writing!

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/14/2006 7:02:25 PM

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I currently discovered that the daddy/lil girl relationship was what i needed and craved. I am new to bdsm, but i had always had a thing for calling my man daddy , most guys liked it some didn't. So when i started exploring this realm i knew that i wanted a daddy dom...the search was very hard mostly b/c all the men i meant wanted me to be an adult baby. I now have a daddy and i depend on him very much for support and love, i have never had a relationship like this one. Its wonderful, and i wouldn't trade it for anything.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/14/2006 7:33:44 PM

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I call the dom I am seeing Daddy... it feels very warm inside doesnt it? Smiles. He is only 5 yrs older than me and doesn't resemble my father at all, nor do I think of my own father when I call him Daddy. We are not into age play either. I do not feel creeped out by this and I am surprised when other people are revolted by it.

You know, many people call their spouses "mom" and "dad", or "Grandma" and "Grandpa" as terms of endearment..meaning they have kids or grandkids in common. I do not find this creepy, so why should calling my dom Daddy creep me out?

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/14/2006 7:52:12 PM

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Thumbs Up! Frankly I'd have to say I believe you to be among the most healthy and wholesome women at collarme.
Enjoy what feels so natural and comfortable with your Daddy, as well as what your Daddy teaches you... good girl!

Everybody else can go rent the movie! OMG

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/14/2006 7:59:28 PM

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Hi there, Blou...

As you can tell by my nic, I am a Daddy's girl. (In my relationship with Master, and also with my father.) I enjoy being taken care of by a wonderfully responsible and loving man. As my dad puts it, "In the South, a girl's father is always going to be her daddy, that is, if he amounts to anything." (I love that!) So, I have my dad and then I have my "Big Daddy." It's funny when we are all at my house together and I yell out, "Hey, Daddy..." because they both answer me. (giggles)

Master has referred to Himself as Daddy for a very long time, even before me. I love the dynamics of O/our relationship as it is nuturing, loving, has a teaching/disciplinary component to it, and is very protective, (we don't role play, per se, though). I actually call Him Daddy all the time, as one would call someone a nickname. Calling Him by His given name when W/we are among mutual nilla friends is really awkward. (hee, hee...) It doesn't mean that anyone is creepy or gross for enjoying this type of BDSM relationship.

I'm glad that you and your Dom are finding your way in your relationship. Be well.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/14/2006 8:06:43 PM

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smiles from tali BlouLady... you are neither sick or alone. i too call my Master, Daddy and both of us love it!

Like many have said, for the nuturing and warm fuzzy feelings, for feelings of protection, for being able to be my cheeky self, for being His little slave girl, and yes... for the added benefit of the amazing erotic effect it has to. (The list could go on... )

i love my biological father, but i have no inclinings whatsoever, toward him in any sexual way. He has been a great dad, but perhaps not as affectionate as i would have liked/needed... doesn't mean to say he doesn't love me, i know he does very much. But the D/s aspect of my Master being my Daddy too, is entirely different, and i guess only those of us who feel the same, understand what this is. That's MHO anyway...

As always LA... you say it so well

tali

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 6:48:03 AM

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I don't think you are sicl (to the op) as you see many people do this same thing. This would not work for me it is just not my thing. I was always a daddies girl with my biological father and i can't see calling my Master daddy. If it works for you and you are happy i say more power to you don't worry about what others think.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 8:18:43 AM

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I to would like to call my Sir.. Daddy..but I am not quite sure how to approach it with him. I mean.. he has kids..and I don't want to make him feel weird or anything.. but for me.. I would love that feeling of calling him that. He is protective of me..and disciplines me when needed..is very nurturing and loving. I can feel quite bratty at times..and even childlike with him...

So, I see it as totally normal... I just need to figure out how to get it myself..or approach it myself. I get kind of jealous when ppl say they are "daddy's girl" and I want that feeling also.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 8:34:39 AM

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But that is just it; it is the dynamic of the inter-play that vibrates your pissflaps, not the actual thought of pedastery. Explain it cogently like you just did. I am sure he will find a way to accomodate it, or at least try it out to see if it is HIS HARD LIMIT.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 8:57:20 AM

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Why not just call him Daddy and see what he says? Worse case you get a spanking...or is that the best case?

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 9:15:31 AM

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Why not just call him Daddy and see what he says? Worse case you get a spanking...or is that the best case?

Right after I wrote that post.. .he sent me an email.. I answered back and said Daddy at the end of it.. .he wrote me back..and said how much he loved that. So I copied/pasted my post to him...and sent it. He sent this response back: That is a lesson to you angel, never feel afraid to tell me anything. I have always thought of you as my little girl!!

*beaming* That was the sweetest thing for me to hear.. I love him so much..and this shows me once again why. So, now I am Daddy's lil' girl...and very happy about it.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/15/2006 8:50:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: HisTicia

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Why not just call him Daddy and see what he says? Worse case you get a spanking...or is that the best case?

Right after I wrote that post.. .he sent me an email.. I answered back and said Daddy at the end of it.. .he wrote me back..and said how much he loved that. So I copied/pasted my post to him...and sent it. He sent this response back: That is a lesson to you angel, never feel afraid to tell me anything. I have always thought of you as my little girl!!

*beaming* That was the sweetest thing for me to hear.. I love him so much..and this shows me once again why. So, now I am Daddy's lil' girl...and very happy about it.

That's wonderful HisTicia... congratulations... no need to be jealous now

tali

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