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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 3:31:14 AM

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Thank you, everyone for your comments. i do have some pics of me which i have sent to one of the Doms but evidently He doesn't think those are enough, even the more revealing ones or the ones which shows me in play. The Doms i am referring to are long-distance and meeting would take some logistics. i have tried to be really open-minded about long-distance because frankly i'm not meeting anyone locally. So far, my experience with long-distance has been dismal. i don't want to get into a situation where i am "performing" on cam and never meeting in person.

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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 4:18:07 AM

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I am with you, requests for nude pictures or web cam screams wanker to me.

If i plan on meeting someone i will send a very vanilla picture. At that point if they are demanding proof i am female by asking for nudes i always used the block button. I do not think there are any nudes of me period.

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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 7:19:40 AM

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or you could always turn it around and ask them to appear on cam and/or send you nude shots be sure they are real. it's only fair since they asked proof to see you're a real woman.

i've had men asking proof of my DD/E bra size ...sometimes telling them "if you want to see them, meet me in person" works but they would rather have a pic instead.

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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 7:27:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Thank you, everyone for your comments. i do have some pics of me which i have sent to one of the Doms but evidently He doesn't think those are enough, even the more revealing ones or the ones which shows me in play. The Doms i am referring to are long-distance and meeting would take some logistics. i have tried to be really open-minded about long-distance because frankly i'm not meeting anyone locally. So far, my experience with long-distance has been dismal. i don't want to get into a situation where i am "performing" on cam and never meeting in person.

perhaps a good compromise would be you turning it on only to prove that you are indeed who your pictures claim you to be; but that you also state clearly that nothing else will be shown until THEY can prove their sincerity by meeting in person with you.

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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 3:14:39 PM

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I don't see why ANYTHING sexual has to be shown. A woman showing her face, slightly modified by freeware can prove honesty about age. Same with bodytype, even wearing a moderately conservative top/shirt/blouse and pair of non tight but non baggy jeans, which is what people at the mall or supermarket would see her in. Easy enough to tell if a woman or male is "for real" after that, and the question of "fake footage" is easily remedied by the person requesting the clip to ask a simple non sexual question of the person, they answer, thus we know the clip is recent.

Any top or sub that can't figure out that someone is attractive or "real" after that kinda clip is either after wankerage or suffered a massive brain fever as a child and never recovered. You can be hot as hell in track suit pants and have someone be panting after you, you can be "ack" in a pair of $500 PVC buttless pants/skirt. Besides, it's not like if you decide to meet someone for coffee at Starbucks first you or they will be wearing fetish gear (or if they are, well, look for the hidden camera from "Punk'd").

Though another thing to consider is that not all "wanking"/masturbation is visual/sexual. There is "emotional" wanking, in which someone wants e-mails/phone calls/messenger that inspire them to daydream about the romance/relationship etc., which frankly is still masturbation if someone spends more than a minute swooning over these. Just like people that buy the crappy Anne Rice Beauty books but never "get off" (physically or psychologically) on visual stimulus such as other people might.

Guess what? Still wankerage. It's just THEIR wankerage vs. the wankerage of the other person asking for a visual, and sorry, it takes equal effort, so it's equal wankerage. They just value THEIR side more than the other person's.

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RE: Cameras and Webcams - 1/30/2007 6:47:59 PM

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If anyone ask to see my webcam which I haven't touched in nearly two years, I just ask to present themselves first in exchange as after all, they are the one to first demand it.

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