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Sex - 2/3/2007 8:02:57 PM

Wulfchyld

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Everyone has been poking at it (in a fashion) so lets get to it.

1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?

3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

If I missed anything please expand the list.

Edited to ad the D's

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:08:24 PM

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Ahhhhh, what about......."sex, whats that? I forget."

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:19:11 PM

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I keep trying to fix that and you keep whining about snowed in and other such silly excuses.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:25:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld
1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

Often, but not necessarily.

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2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Depends on where the energy is. Each instance has its own sense of itself.

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3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

Yup.

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4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

Yup.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:27:44 PM

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1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what? I am a sexual being and it is tied to me in most things in my life and certainly anything powerful emotionally like BDSM with my Master will have a strong sexuality to it. This does not mean that all things BDSM end up with sex acts but certainly there is a sexual tone or a sexual response by me on some level.

2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings? Not really, it can be incredible, good, average, so so and yucky just like anywhere else. Maybe a much higher percentage on the better ones though.

3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex? Hell yeah! But that also depends on what you mean by vanilla sex. I have found that vanilla sex with my Master is still quite different then vanilla sex without a Master even taking emotions and heart out of the equation.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:27:52 PM

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Everyone has been poking at it (in a fashion) so lets get to it.

1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?
- when with my partner? yes, sex is a usually a factor.
- When playing with random people? no not married to it.

2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?
- No just usually different activities.

3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?
- Of course. just cause there's no whips or chains doesnt mean sex is no longer good lol.

4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's
- Depends on the person and the moment.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:31:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

I'll stop at this one, since theothers dont seem to aply. No, sex isnt married to my D/s at all. Angel and I are not sexualy active. We dont hae any kind of sex, 'nila or otherwise.
AS for other partners, that always depends on the other I had been with.
I am picky, I will only have sex with smeone who is owned, or at least prospectively will be owned. There have been very few in this category recently, and even more recently... only Angel.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:37:40 PM

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Hanif Kureishi says, "After a certain age sex can never be casual. I couldn't ask for so little. To lay your hands on another's body, or to put your mouth against another's -- what a commitment that is!" So therefore sex is a commitment every time never so casual....STEEL

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:40:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: MASTERSTEEL

Hanif Kureishi says, "After a certain age sex can never be casual. I couldn't ask for so little. To lay your hands on another's body, or to put your mouth against another's -- what a commitment that is!" ..STEEL

That was very enlightening and pertinent to the thread. I'll be back in a bit once I found the thread it was pertinent to.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:42:57 PM

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#3. No. No way.

#4. Full-time, or full-time-to-be.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:48:58 PM

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1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

that depends on whether or not you consider anal play without costumes and rigmarole to be still "BDSM", along with nasty stingy things for the female arse that are not made of leather, rubber or include "floggers". If yes, then yes, if not, then not.

2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?

Yes, I find people that can get off as hard in a hotel room or in the woods with no theatrics to be better in bed than people that need to be tied to a cross or be observed.

3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

if hard anal is included in that, without any mamby pamby Halmark Card Oprah approved "romantic" vaginal, ora or missionary, then yes, if not, then not.

4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

I only play with people I sleep with/have sex with, draw your own answer from that.

If I missed anything please expand the list.

1: do have have certain types of sex with BDSM'ers that you do NOT give to vanilla people?

2: do you require bdsm "costumes" to feel as sexy and as erotically involved as you do simply naked or shirt off/pants or skirt down?

3: have you ever played harder for someone whom was not your primary relationship rather than your primary relationship partner, due to how they "presented themselves" in PVC/Leather/Accoutrements?

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 8:52:57 PM

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Wow! Good additions reamer.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 9:20:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Everyone has been poking at it (in a fashion) so lets get to it.

1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?
    Yes

2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?
    Yes

3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?
     Yes

4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's
     Yes

If I missed anything please expand the list.

Edited to ad the D's

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 9:43:02 PM

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Ah married..no I am divorced, settings?...no I done it in the bathroom, living room..still the same...Nilla? you mean the cookie?..full time, part time, sometime? ah okay I am lost..what are we talking about? Nice to see you

I wish you well

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 10:15:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Everyone has been poking at it (in a fashion) so lets get to it.

1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

No, I normally do not like sex at all involved in my BDSM practice.

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2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?

The once every few years that this happens, it is different due to the angle sex is being addressed. The sex comes as part of the BDSM play, not as just sex for itself.

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3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

Yes, it is almost the only way I have sex at all.

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4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

Never, ever sexual contact with submissives/slaves of mine.

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 10:21:38 PM

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1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

The other way around, our BDSM is sexual, our sex is just sex

. But even ordinary sex has elements of D/s

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RE: Sex - 2/3/2007 10:31:31 PM

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Without putting too fine a point on it... we do what he wants, when he wants, and how it wants it.

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RE: Sex - 2/4/2007 12:03:16 AM

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1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

Yes it is for me, but I'm more of an D/s (or M/s) relationship type than an S&M type of girl.

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2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings

Not really, but I wouldn't call the hotel connected to the event a BDSM setting. I've not had sex in a play area, but than again it was forbidden.

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3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

Absolutely, it's a must. I've already disclaimed that I'm S&M light anyway.

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4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

I've not yet had a full time/live in sub/slave in the last 4-5years, so yes I do have sex with someone I'm dating, because a girl cannot live by morals alone... Well maybe I could, but why risk it? M

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RE: Sex - 2/4/2007 1:52:51 AM

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Are you talking about sex with someone? *laughs*

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RE: Sex - 2/4/2007 2:12:14 AM

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1. Is sex married to your BDSM practice or what?

My enjoyment of BDSM isn't just limited to sex. I get a buzz from the Dynamic even when My girl is just bringing Me a cup of coffee in the right way. Even My BDSM play isn't tied to sex as I CAN and have 'played' with folks I have no sexual attraction to and enjoyed their reactions.

But the question was is sex married to My BDSM (Rather than is My BDSM married to Sex!)... and the answer to that is yes. sex with someone that I didn't at least have some kind of Dynamic with holds no appeal, I need more than the physical sensation to get Me and keep Me interested. So My sex definatly has a BDSM or D/s link.

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2. When you have sex in a BDSM setting is it different than other settings?

Everywhere is a D/s setting because My dynamic is 24/7, but you mean a dungeon or club? Diffrent places have diffrent energys, diffrent possibilitys.... so yes... but then sex on the beach is diffrent from sex in the woods is diffrent than dragging her into a dark doorway for a quickie is diffrent than throwing her over the arm of the sofa in the livingroom is diffrent than catching her washing up at the sink and grabbing her, using her swift and hard before letting her continue is diffrent than slow sensual lovemaking on the bed........ etc.

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3. Do you still have strait up Nilla sex?

Define 'nilla sex'? Actions... possibly.... why what do 'nillas do.... if it is enjoyable than I probably take it from My girl when I want it on occassion... oh that would make it not quite nilla then.... I sorta got to answer that one with... No!

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4. Do you have sex with full, part time, or sometime sub/slaves...D's

The only girl I am having sex with currently (Well not quite currently, curently I'm drinking My coffee and typing this!) belongs to Me. she is My slave 24/7

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