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collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 5:32:12 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		What type of collar works best for a heterosexual male sub with a very vanilla job?
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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 5:36:10 PM   
porthuronsub


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Status: offline 		My Mistress outfitted me with a gold chain.  It is a symbol between her and I.  I also am sometimes told to wear a leather bracelet that she picked out.  Neither one screams out submissive, but we both know what they stand for.  That is the most important thing.  A collar is merely a symbol, so it can be anything.  I gained mine when I signed her contract.  I never take it off, ever. 

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 5:39:55 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		Is it a gold choker or a longer necklace? I know men wear long gold chains, but do any wear the shorter ones that fit around the neck or are those pretty much for women only?

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 5:44:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		A sub friend of mine wears a shirt-collar length thick rope chain. no one ever knew it was a collar. 

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 7:18:53 PM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		There are all kinds of things tha can be used for a collar from a man's necklace to a ring.  You can even do pircings that are not visible or a tattoo if you want something more permanent.  Take a look around at your local jewelry store.  Men do wear various lengths of necklace as do women and what matters is that you and he know the significance. 

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 7:32:52 PM   
MistressTaboo


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Status: offline 		I make a variety of custom chain maille collars...mostly aimed at men since I couldn't find any I liked for my husband...I found a very pretty decorative lock and we use that when we go to parties and such...but we use a normal closure for day to day...

Feel free to email me for pictures etc...I've been lazy about the web page...sorry...

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edited to add...I forgot...these are very unique vanilla looking chains...very pretty in silver and gold...


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RE: collars for male subs - 2/9/2007 9:19:21 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Something that looks very vanilla. A necklace, a ring, a bracelet or a watch. If he's in a job where he's not going to be changing clothes in front of people and you want something a tad more permanent, nipple piercings or a scrotal piercing. A PA is probably going to be noticed at the urinal, but you could simply make him sit to pee all the time.

Do be sure to check the safety regs at his job. Most blue collar jobs won't allow you to wear jewelry because it can get caught in machinery. Not a problem if he's a desk jockey, though.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/10/2007 4:46:28 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		as a sub i wore a pink rubber braclet on my wrist for my Mistress as well as as wearing panties under clothes

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/10/2007 5:29:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Is it a gold choker or a longer necklace? I know men wear long gold chains, but do any wear the shorter ones that fit around the neck or are those pretty much for women only?


It hangs down to the first button, I guess it would be collar length.  It is a flattened link type.  She didn't want anything that would look to guido (sp) as she does accompany me in public.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/10/2007 5:29:27 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		If he wears a shirt and tie, then anything long enough to not be seen. Otherwise, an anklet will work in any job, even the ones where you can't wear a ring. Presumably the purpose of the collar is to let him feel your connection, not to get asked lots of questions by people who don't need to know.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/10/2007 6:32:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

A sub friend of mine wears a shirt-collar length thick rope chain. no one ever knew it was a collar.

DV


I see these hemp and shell necklaces on men on college campuses all the time. Something the shells are really beads or there's just the rope.

Fox had a necklace he wore but then we got his ears pierced and that's our sybmol. I got him two near pair for Valentine'd Day so he can switch between earrings.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/10/2007 6:34:30 AM   
lilbrattie


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Status: offline 		Greetings all,

there are new ankle collars out on the market. they are a band of sorts that fits and locks to the ankle, this can work best for both male and females during work situations or times when a collar isn't appropriate..

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 7:52:10 AM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

What type of collar works best for a heterosexual male sub with a very vanilla job?


I like using anklets when discretion is an issue.  Ebay has a good selection. 

If you want to personalize the chain with an engraved tag, I use: http://stores.ebay.com/LA-DISTRICT-JEWELRY-AND-WATCHES. 

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 9:41:24 AM   
joyinslavery


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We need an easy button for this one.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 10:38:27 AM   
JustAslave2007


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Status: offline 		A wrist band works good and reminds a slave of a status of being owned while still being unobtrusive unnoticed to those leading a vanilla lifestyle.  The domme should explain the symbolism to the slave so the slave understands that this symbolizes the neck collar and while in public the slave will always think about it.  Even a slave bracelet that is worn on the upper arm could possibly be worn under the slave shirts.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 11:50:50 AM   
cloudboy


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I never take it off, ever.



Except for your avatar photo, of course.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 12:29:45 PM   
porthuronsub


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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


quote:

I never take it off, ever.



Except for your avatar photo, of course.


The avatar pic was taken before I met my Mistress and was collared.  I haven't bothered with a new pic as I am no longer looking.  And yes, I have it on now.  I could just take the pic down, and be anonymous like so many others on here I guess.

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RE: collars for male subs - 2/11/2007 1:13:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have my boy a foreign coin in his change purse.  He is reminded of his commitment every time he sees it. The coin also has the year of his collaring.

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