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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/27/2007 5:00:05 PM   
mistressfran


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Status: offline 		i will be glade to over the weekend busy with just getting home and dealing witth the kids once again ty so so much

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/27/2007 5:02:21 PM   
DianeB269


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i will be glade to over the weekend busy with just getting home and dealing witth the kids once again ty so so much



Cool!!!!

How big of a strapon did you use on him?


Diane

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/27/2007 5:08:00 PM   
mistressfran


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Status: offline 		i think it was like a 5 or 6 inch

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/27/2007 5:19:56 PM   
DianeB269


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i think it was like a 5 or 6 inch



Check out the Nexus Jr and the Nexus strapons...You might like them.


Diane

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/28/2007 10:41:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressfran

i think it was like a 5 or 6 inch



Check out the Nexus Jr and the Nexus strapons...You might like them.


Diane


the vac-u-lock system does give great flexibility in size though. from the Nexus's size to a good 8"x2"thick! mmmm..yes for that one!

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 2/28/2007 6:20:26 PM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: mistressfran

any avice for a dom using a strap on for the first time

Get a custom harness. Mine is from http://www.cometsoftware.com/she/ The difference between a ready made harness and one made for YOU is quite profound. The properly fitted one moves with you and is almost a part of you.

Also be aware that they have these types of attachments..
feeldoe http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-13BA08--m-80
nexus http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-1-3-BA-BE05
triple play http://www.healthyandactive.com/triple-play-dildo.html

You still need to use a harness with the feeldoe and nexus (never met anyone who has used the triple play) but they do provide a lot for the female side of the equation.
 

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/1/2007 1:43:54 PM   
solvr70


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Status: offline 		a cum covered strapon....now that would be something!

would take an insistant Woman to have one suck it clean of cum as well, due to the excitement level dropping off quite a bit after a guy cums. one day... :)

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/1/2007 4:59:16 PM   
cogitator


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Status: offline 		Am curious, they say men are inherently "visual", are women wired this way too?  Is there any particular pleasure just from the sight, the visual of seeing your strapon enter your submissive?   Or perhaps it's even more enjoyable to watch it as you remove it from him?

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/1/2007 6:51:16 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: cogitator

Am curious, they say men are inherently "visual", are women wired this way too?  Is there any particular pleasure just from the sight, the visual of seeing your strapon enter your submissive?   Or perhaps it's even more enjoyable to watch it as you remove it from him?



Yes to all of the above...


Diane

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/2/2007 1:59:00 PM   
ScarletteOTerror


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ORIGINAL: cogitator

Am curious, they say men are inherently "visual", are women wired this way too?  Is there any particular pleasure just from the sight, the visual of seeing your strapon enter your submissive?   Or perhaps it's even more enjoyable to watch it as you remove it from him?


There is quite a bit of pleasure from watching the strapon enter your subbie. I find watching him writhe and hearing him moan is incredibly stimulating.

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/3/2007 5:00:49 AM   
mistressfran


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Status: offline 		i will have to say there is quite pleasure in watgchign it go in out of my sub and hearing him moan incredibly stimulating i have to say my first time do this i was so turn on by it ...i am loooking forward to going back really soon to do it again and i know he is also loooking forward to it

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RE: going to use a strap on for the first time - 3/4/2007 2:57:33 PM   
ruthfw


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Status: offline 		I've never tried the Nexus.

I can confirm that the Feeldoe, under the right conditions, doesn't require a harness.  I find when I take a standing position and bend him over a bed, I have no issues at all using the Feeldoe without a harness.

In some other positions where my legs may be slightly spread and I have less leverage (such as traditional missionary sex on a softer surface, such as a bed) it's best to wear the Feeldoe with a harness for extra security.

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