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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 7:59:36 PM

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note i did not comment on my own weight nor did i say being overweight is bad. I was also reality checking to see if anyone else noticed what i did. i m interested in the why of things. many people on here seem quite suspicious of each others motives. Its cool to just be direct and say what you think , i mean, u can beat someone silly but not talk about weight? hmnn

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:00:10 PM

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i am curious about something too. At 5' 3", 153 lbs, do you consider yourself overweight? i am 5' 4" and generally run around 140 lbs and i am far from thin. i would not say i was overweight...but 'chubby' (lol)

Just wondering if you classify yourself as overweight along with the others?

Edited to add: Gawd...i must have been posting the same thought as a few others here at the same time

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:00:28 PM

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its just something i noticed. strangely both of u who responded are slender, so u must have noticed the same thing

OH BLESS YOU...slender not a word every used to describe me before....LOL

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:00:44 PM

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does this seem that way to others? in lookin thru pix it seems like there is a signifcantly higher proportion of overweight femalesin this lifestyle, both tops and bottoms that in the general population. Any theories? i m stumped

thouchthesky:
Your profile indicates that you are not exactly svelte so we might start with what attracted you here.
I have not noticed that the ratio of full sized women here exceedes the general population. I will admit that I have not perused all of the profiles on CM. but then I am new here myself.
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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:02:05 PM

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I'm only fat in print, the camera adds (1)10 pounds, bad lighting, ummm...ok, I am fat. Criminey, I hate being outted like this...you have no idea what this will do to my friends who think I am just pleasantly plump. They are under the misguided notion that I am carrying all my extra weight in my breasts...okay, maybe I told them that.

What really bothers me is why are so many submissives brunettes? It makes me less original. So much in fact that I had to go and get blonde highlights. Ever sit around for an hour looking like you are trying to tune in some UHF channel? Its humbling.

Edited to add: I am here because I could not find love anywhere else.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:03:00 PM

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Lets stop sugar-coating this bloody topic, the reason it never goes away is cos everyones 'too scared of hurting peoples feelings'...shall i play Devil's advocate

... important research has been done into the field of obesity (particularly in the U.S. but growing here in the U.K. (where the world began) , scientists have been studying the body tissues and densities of various ages and races of females, they took into account the climate change, population and land ratios which would determine and isolate the key cellular activities generating bigger females nowadays as opposed to yesteryear. NOT forgetting how biopsychosocial and behavioural differences can have astronomical changes upon societies and thus impact on their levels of cholestrerol and body fat (take into account females carry more body fat than males) ALSO looking into the dramatic rise in agriculture, farming, harvesting and the entourage of food manufacturing competition which invariably drives down the price of food en masse THIS was found to be magnified by the growing world of BDSM in which many assume the 'Domme' role and confuse this with sheer idleness as they get there 'subs' to do the work (a study of sub men found most men UNDERWEIGHT). We can assume at this point that large quantites of a substance known to human beings as FOOD coupled with an expressive non-response such as 'MOVEMENT' will more often than not lead to immense body tissue growth, sometimes leading to FAT which is unsightly and makes the body smell...bad. One answer being bantered about to combat this problemette is to inject a fetish on to the scene such as 'tread mill' fetish 'sub= Mistress please may i be your tread mill slave, I will wipe down your seat and sniff it for you, Domme= you pathetic weak idiot, kneel at my feet while i run til i sweat out 45 lbs of putrid fat!'.....this could work! (not meant to be offensive so there!)

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:03:06 PM

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:03:21 PM

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i don't post on match.com but i am on myspace. a trimmer bunch. Mind you i am not being critical. i have an inquiring mind. My idea was perhaps we are a more hedonistic lot. the theory is that people are more overweight now might also be quite on point, as i notice this also to be tru with the 20 and under posters

I'm on myspace too....you might want to ask those here who is on it, before you assume Myspace is a trimmer bunch.......Oh, welcome to CollarMe and the boards, I notice you are bisexual, by the way....what have you noticed about Male Tops and Bottoms?

Edited to add: Wait!!! It says you have no photos because you have no computer, and would have to send pictures by regular mail?

**Wanders off wondering how her esp got so damn good someone with no computer could post on this forum and her understand it. Oh wait, I bet she got some mute csrs to tap for her!!

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:03:53 PM

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There are a few topics that tend to get peoples ire up.

religion.. politics.... female vs male supremacy... and weight

bring them up and you can expect to get extremely unhappy responses from some people..

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:05:24 PM

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People in general are overweight. Look to the news. Poor nutrition and sedentary lifestyles. I don't think BDSM has a hold on it anymore than anything else.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:06:09 PM

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I think that size 8-12 are "perfect" for 30-40 age women. I recently increase to 16 from being inactive due to a car accident. Interestly enough, only my stomach is over sized. My breasts are a desireable DD and I get alot of attention that I did not as a size 10-12. To each there own. TML

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:07:49 PM

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ah yes i would say i was overweight. doesnt bother me. alot of people find plumpness pleasing. as i said it is a question. i still think most of you are avoiding the issue so i will assume it is a mystery

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:09:01 PM

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......but we like to write in anyways....

But of course... we must be heard!

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:09:24 PM

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I tend to view my stomach as oversized (as a guy) but I still get called skinny. It's funny, I don't think women get similar benefits for the most part. Perhaps you notice the overweight women more because that's what you're looking at more, too?

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This was meant to touchthesky.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:10:07 PM

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what would CM forums be without pointless and controversial threads??

Productive. But, considering the BDSM community thrives on fantasy chalk this up to being just another one.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:10:45 PM

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its just something i noticed. strangely both of u who responded are slender, so u must have noticed the same thing

I am a big gal...lol. I am not a BBW, but I am not skinny. I have noticed Americans are fatter. I am thinking this will change now that transfats are going to be a thing of the past... anyone want to bet that we all start losing weight just from that?

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:12:48 PM

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Do you think pro-longed internet usage for whatever reason has a dramatic correlation to being a teletubby? Oh yeah that and 65 donuts.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:13:34 PM

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There are fat people everywhere. you just can't picture browse all the masses of people in real life like you can here.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:15:18 PM

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There are fat people everywhere. you just can't picture browse all the masses of people in real life like you can here.

I think the person with the original post was merely pointing out a growing (pardon the pun) trend as regards pics on this site...tis all..

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:15:44 PM

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Do you think pro-longed internet usage for whatever reason has a dramatic correlation to being a teletubby? Oh yeah that and 65 donuts.

If I eat 65 donuts can I be a teletubby too?

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