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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:35:55 PM

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me? you are calling me a smarty pants.

geeee...image that...the blond...he thinks the blond is smart...lol

beth

Oh great. blonde jokes in a thread about fat girls, this is a new low on cm (I hope you know I am totally joking as one blonde to another, and the low about fat girls was reached long ago)

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:36:40 PM

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well stated GG

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:36:49 PM

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erm yes..YES thats what hes asking....answer?

First of all, it's a she. Secondly, her guess would be about as good as anyone else's, no?

i mean, saying i'm fat and notice a lot of other fat people here....why are there so many of us on this site....just sounds a little goofy to me

So i really don't have an answer as the question behooves me.

DG

Yeah but you dont make any sense dudette, you are laughing at the question yet you dont wanna answer it, behoove all you want if you didnt wanna answer it then...well just dont bother atall! silly billy

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:37:04 PM

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sighs....

...I surrender!..~drags fat butt to another thread~...Tempting

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:38:11 PM

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me? you are calling me a smarty pants.

geeee...image that...the blond...he thinks the blond is smart...lol

beth

Oh great. blonde jokes in a thread about fat girls, this is a new low on cm (I hope you know I am totally joking as one blonde to another, and the low about fat girls was reached long ago)

LOL NOW look what you done beth...blondes ARE smart they just choose not to be....there did that make you feel better?

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:38:19 PM

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Hasn't this horse been beaten to death already???? Who freaking cares if ppl are fat or thin, blond or red heads... good lord....Everyone has different taste....

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:39:35 PM

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So why is the discussion about fat females exclusively??? what happened to fat males?? If we are going to pick on people there should be no gender bias here!!!!

Edited to add that I hope everyone realizes that I am trying to be sarcastic...

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:40:08 PM

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Hasn't this horse been beaten to death already???? Who freaking cares if ppl are fat or thin, blond or red heads... good lord....Everyone has different taste....

This horse not only was beaten long ago, its bones whitened in the sun, and now they are fossilized, but hey, we can have fun and make a joke of it all instead of a flame war

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:41:59 PM

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Touchthesky, darling you have asked the best question of the year.
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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:42:43 PM

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sighs.......I surrender!..~drags fat butt to another thread~...Tempting

Apparently smoking supresses the apetite.....and smoking fetish rules!!

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:43:15 PM

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I am tired of people attempting to dictate what we talk about.
If you don't like the topic or the thread:
Don't read it, don't comment and move on.
You can not dictate what others want to chat about or write about.
Now back to this interesting conversation.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:44:35 PM

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Yeah but you dont make any sense dudette, you are laughing at the question yet you dont wanna answer it, behoove all you want if you didnt wanna answer it then...well just dont bother atall! silly billy

Oh yes, i see that you are the sensible one here

So let's see....i don't have the answer as to why there are so many fat females on Collarme. Hmmm.....(searches for crystal ball....must have left it somewhere).

Silly me? Or silly you?

DG

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:44:48 PM

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Here's a response...who gives a crap whether or not BDSM gals are heavier than vanilla gals.

I mean honestly, have you nothing better to do with your time than waste mental energy pondering other people's looks?

You know why vanilla sites APPEAR to have more thin people? It's because the vanilla crowd in general is less tolerant of obesity, therefore fat people aren't as likely to list profiles on vanilla sites to begin with.

Newsflash: America is fat. Get over it. Walk into the grocery store and count the number of fat people vs thin people and you'll find that over half the adults are at least moderately overweight. I say "adults" because teens don't really count...a lot of women are thin as teens and gain after the age of 18 or so. I was one of these (went from a size 3 to a size 14 almost overnight and with little change to my diet or exercise regimen.)

The big question is why the hell does anyone care? I respect that some people want to be thin. Good for them. The rest of us will enjoy our food and find more intellectually productive things to do than spend hours on a treadmill. Live and let live and don't worry about other people.

I'm 5ft3 and almost 200lbs. I'm also cute as all get-out. As long as I'm happy with myself, I see no need to post threads pondering the appearance/weight of other people. What they look like is just not a terribly interesting subject.

Very good point, we all have choices, some choose not to give a crap and some choose not to be with them... but as you said who cares if you are happy..right?

Exactly. We all have a right to make choices and I have never once resented someone who was put off from dating me based on my weight. People have preferences...you can't hold that against them. I find more than enough men who like girls my size, so why worry about the ones who don't?

People have a right to not care about certain things and others have a right to exlude those people from their dating choices based on that. For example, everyone over the age of 21 has a right to get drunk on the weekends but I wouldn't date someone who did that. Doesn't make them a bad person, just not a person for me.

You and all the other fat people have a right to be fat.
We also have a right to talk about fat people if we want.
Now back to the topic.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:44:51 PM

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me joking about blond is who I am...OMG....

ok....honest story......I was having some treatments done and they kinda froze my brain ..just a little....I went into work the next day not quite thinking completly clear....and I told the guy I was working for...OK....you can't laugh...but they froze my brain yesterday....I am not going to be much good today.......he hid he face....later that day he made a crack about it...then laughed...said come on..you CANNOT tell me that and not of expected something.....LOL

he really does just need to be beat...

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:46:22 PM

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stating an opinion is not dictating what people can talk about any more than starting the topic in the first place.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:46:51 PM

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Because when there is a meeting it is called a "Munch." What? do you think they sit around and talk?....No! at every munch it is the same thing.....Hundreds if not thousands of pounds of lobster are devoured along with enough drawn butter to fill a child's swimming pool. Then when the crunching and cracking of shells has subsided it turns into a horrific "butter orgy."

It's actually quite a sight to behold....

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:46:53 PM

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Yeah but you dont make any sense dudette, you are laughing at the question yet you dont wanna answer it, behoove all you want if you didnt wanna answer it then...well just dont bother atall! silly billy

Oh yes, i see that you are the sensible one here

So let's see....i don't have the answer as to why there are so many fat females on Collarme. Hmmm.....(searches for crystal ball....must have left it somewhere).

Silly me? Or silly you?

DG

Go to your first post on here, you never answered the question... you just avoided it....why? and yes im silly YOU GOT SOMETHING AGAINST SILLY PEOPLE!?

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:47:41 PM

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stating an opinion is not dictating what people can talk about any more than starting the topic in the first place.

Thank you. I wasn't stating we shouldn't talk about it. I was merely stating my opinion.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:47:54 PM

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These have been my feelings also, many people in this lifestyle are endulging their desires in one area, so why deny the urges
in other areas. I don't mind a woman being 10-20 pounds overweight. Many women look nice a little overweight. I have issues
with women and men, that weigh 250, 300 and 400 pounds, at that point it is just unhealthy.

Why do you have a problem with it? Why is it any of your business? What makes you think that simply because someone is at a particular weight over what you deem appropriate is unhealthy? I have issues with people that have problems with things they can't control and things that have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with them. I am just over 40 years old, I am a 6'1 woman, I weigh in at just over 300 lbs. I am healthy. The only health issues I have stem from an injury from a car accident 7 years ago.

SO, don't assume that just because someone is "overweight" (what exactly is overweight anyway?)that they are unhealthy. Skinny people die of heart disease, stroke etc...and get debilitating diseases just like heavy people. If your weight is causing you to have health problems, by all means gain or lose the weight. If you are healthy, continue to take care of yourself and enjoy who you are.

For all of you that have problems with us that don't fit into your mold, you have the choice not to associate with us.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/10/2007 8:49:47 PM

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topping out at 289 or so depending when you ask I'd love to be 200 again. I'd ideally like to be less eventually but 200 for now would be nice.

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I'm 5ft3 and almost 200lbs.

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