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I was careful and got what I wished for - 2/14/2007 1:13:27 PM   
grinningcat


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Status: offline 		A little more than a year ago I agreed to meet someone that I had met on CM.  I hadn't been on the site for long, but I took the chance and met him. 
 
We began seeing each other on a relatively frequent basis....and then I pushed him away.  Hard.  I did that not once, not twice but THREE times.  On all three occasions he accepted me back into his life. 
 
I finally saw the light last November and realized that he was exactly what I had always been searching for.  I don't know who was more surprised me or him!
 
Since that time we've defined and refined our relationship.  We're committed to each other.  I can't remember being so happy for a very long time.
 
I'm so happy to belong to SirDiscipliner69.  When you're careful what you wish for you have to be smart enough to recognize it when you find it.  I'm glad he's a LOT smarter than I am.
 
cat
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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 2/15/2007 7:09:22 AM   
Onij


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Joined: 9/15/2006
Status: offline 		aaawww that is nice. I feel the same way about my pet, though we met on xanga, which isnt a D/s site.

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 2/16/2007 2:26:34 PM   
softcoresicko


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Status: offline 		That's lovely, grinningcat.  Congratulations!  You as well, Onji!  

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/16/2007 4:53:06 PM   
pearlmoongirl


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Status: offline 		Hi cat:

I was really moved by your post to this thread. I am at the beginning of my search for a Dom, so please tell me .. how did you find the courage to start down this road? Did it take a lot of that?

Curious and scared and trying to be brave!
~ pmg

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/17/2007 4:48:43 AM   
bayboundse


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From: Oak Ridge, TN
Status: offline 		Grats to both of you. Glad it has worked out.

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/23/2007 4:26:00 PM   
Windygal


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Status: offline 		hmm interesting. I had a male sub for a while, he seems to try to push Me away, tho he comes back, even when I don't ask him to. Why do you think you did that yourself?

Windygal

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/24/2007 6:38:42 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		Do you know what "cold feet" means? It means there are enough people feeling it that they had to make a name for it.

Really intense feelings, even when they are good, can be scary. It is common knowledge that people sometimes push away what they need most.

i am glad to read the OP is involved with someone who was wise enough to see past this, and be willing to continue the journey.

Best Of Happinesses to You Both~*
Master's dorei

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/30/2007 5:03:50 PM   
FunLuvinNJf


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Joined: 12/22/2006
Status: offline 		What a wonderful story.  You gave me more insight into why subs (and Doms too) keeping leaving and coming back.  I will have to keep that in mind.  Thanks for sharing

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RE: I was careful and got what I wished for - 3/30/2007 9:37:37 PM   
wireweaver


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Joined: 12/18/2006
From: NE.Texas
Status: offline 		When you really matter to each other you are willing to give and forgive and give some more.  Good luck to you, and much happiness!!!!

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Unwavering obedience to the true principals we learn will assure us spiritual survival.

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