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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:50:25 PM

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They were from Kansas and 3 of them were into bdsm.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:51:22 PM

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Well, ToTo, we're not in Kansas anymore.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:52:30 PM

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Well, ToTo, we're not in Kansas anymore.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:54:33 PM

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doesn't anyone but me remember the 'trainer' thread. it doesn't matter what you say...she's not going to listen. i'm not sure why she posts as she doesn't want to hear any dissenting opinions. she has an illogical answer to everything you say or changes the facts to fit her new version of reality.. just give up now and let the thread die....please i'm begging here!

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:56:59 PM

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Well, ToTo, we're not in Kansas anymore.

Dorothy

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It would be non-consensual, I am sorry----that'll be a pass.......

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 1:59:21 PM

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I've been listening. If I wasn't listening, I would've just said I was right without asking anybody. If the people I talked to had told me I was wrong, I would've admitted I was wrong a long time ago. I've come to the conclusion that I got my definition from the state I live in. Obviously, many people in Kansas have a different definition.. I apologize to anyone I might've offended.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 2:06:36 PM

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That can't be easy dbg but I am so glad did apologise. No one wanted to hammer at you [yea okay at the end yes lol] but you are a bit stubborn.

My recommendation? Drop this thread, if someone tries to revive it or get snarky just repost #1306.
Just don't forget the lessons learned, we worked mighty hard to get it this far.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 2:44:53 PM

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I've been listening. If I wasn't listening, I would've just said I was right without asking anybody. If the people I talked to had told me I was wrong, I would've admitted I was wrong a long time ago. I've come to the conclusion that I got my definition from the state I live in. Obviously, many people in Kansas have a different definition.. I apologize to anyone I might've offended.

I think you are right to a point, where you grow up certainly affects you values and ideas. No doubt about that. Compare someone who grew up in San Francisco to someone who grew up in the bible belt and I am sure you will find alot of differences. But to continue to say that having one sex act with someone of the same sex = bisexuality is still wrong.
To go back to an earlier analogy if it helps..You are a meatatarian and because your Master asks you to try vegetarianism for a weekend doesn't mean you are a vegetarian. You would have to have an underlying love and attraction to the vegetable for that to be true and you still only love your meat.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 3:07:52 PM

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Actually, I'm looking for a combination of both vanilla and d/s. Seriously though........I've been asking alot of people I know if they would consider someone who engaged in same sex acts to please another bisexual and so far they have all told me they would. Wanted to find out if I was wrong and they said I was right. I really think it's where I'm from rather than a case of stupidity on my part.

Probably. But, again, from what you've told us about where you live I wouldn't believe anything they say on the matter.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 3:09:46 PM

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I've been listening. If I wasn't listening, I would've just said I was right without asking anybody. If the people I talked to had told me I was wrong, I would've admitted I was wrong a long time ago. I've come to the conclusion that I got my definition from the state I live in. Obviously, many people in Kansas have a different definition.. I apologize to anyone I might've offended.

How come you believe the people in the backwards place where you live (when you've told us you are afraid to stand up for someone being called faggot and such lest you be beaten up) yet it's so hard for us - the people who actually have the differing sexualities and who have done these things and have the real life experience - to get you to believe us? I mean, I know don't believe everything you read on the internet but come on...

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 3:12:27 PM

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All and all, I'd like to (hopefully) end my contribution to this thread by saying that I'm glad your mind seems to be a little more open. Submission isn't always about doing what you want to do, but neither is any relationship. You always have to do things that you don't want to do, it's just a matter of what you are willing to do to get the things that you really do want. Sometimes that's having bisexual sex because it pleases you to please your dominant.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 3:13:23 PM

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dont be hating on sports. I love football my team made it to the final round of the playoffs but did not get the gold ring but my other fav team did.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 5:44:06 PM

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It would be non-consensual, I am sorry----that'll be a pass.......

Oh, Ron, that was, precious.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:41:10 PM

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This is the thread that never ends
it just goes on and on my friends.
Someone started typing here not knowing what it was
and they'll continue typing here forever just because

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Love ya, man, but if that song gets stuck in my head, I swear I'll track you down somehow and sing it 24/7.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:43:09 PM

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i've been warned by the MODs to not comment further. so i, reluctantly, must refrain

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:46:20 PM

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but what you said up till this point was a lesson to us all, I am sorry that you have been admonished.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:48:40 PM

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i'll live...wish i could make my own, unrestrained, website...would be interesting to see how things would go

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:54:38 PM

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Build a server, buy the software and send me the address.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:56:19 PM

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Are you really prepared for the comments you'll get in an unmoderated forum?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/22/2007 6:58:43 PM

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Oh heck yes!

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