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Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:17:09 PM   
kinkntwist


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Status: offline 		let other dominants assist you in dominating your submissive as either a form of punishment or even as a reward, and would you let her pick one to assist you or would you select one for her?

What are your thoughts?
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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:19:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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let other dominants assist you in dominating your submissive as either a form of punishment or even as a reward, and would you let her pick one to assist you or would you select one for her?

What are your thoughts?

Punishment, no.  That's a personal issue between myself and my boy.  Including anyone else is unnecessary and unproductive.

Reward?  Sure, that would be fun.  I'd allow input, but make the final choice myself.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:20:35 PM   
alandraofMists


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Status: offline 		i have been Topped by other Dominat's both with my Lord and with out Him being present. 

i enjoyed most of the scenes and found  a different energy when playing with someone other then my Lord.

none of these scenes were for punishment.... nor really for reward.... they happened because it was what my Lord wished at the time. *ss*

Knight's alandra

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:25:50 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I've been a 'third' with several submissives in the past.  It was never for punishment, although I think it was sometimes for training (to see how they would/could handle it).

Interestingly, I was picked by Dominants who did not know me personally, but by reputation.

At times, the other Dominant was present; with others I was on my own (with instructions).

A good time was always had by all.

Jeff

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:26:26 PM   
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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:34:52 PM   
kinkntwist


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ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

NO


haha

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 6:37:13 PM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		If she was really, really bad... like genocide, nuclear war, germ warfare, shit like that... I would make her listen to a sexuality lecture from dbg, no matter how long that lecture would last.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 7:02:45 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		Yes, I would let another dom/me help me with my sub.  Specifically if it was something I was not familiar with or something I didn't particularly enjoy.

I would have to be the one to pick the dom/me

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 7:21:33 PM   
SirDraven


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Status: offline 		Recently I attended a birthday party where W/we all took turns doing diffrent things to the sub. This was her desire and wish. She was surrounded by close friends yet blindfolded. So to share a sub for pleasure? Sure I can see that happing.

Punishment is a diffrent story...
I might consult with My mentor or another Dom but no in the end punishment should not be shared.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 7:29:56 PM   
kinkntwist


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Status: offline 		Perhaps she can be shipped off to the  "Bad Subbie"  Farm for a day where a mean Dom will not be sympathetic to her sweet eyes and pouting lips.... that would be hot... wouldn't it? Unless he was trying to stuff her.....with his cock!

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 7:57:39 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		As punishment, never.  Anything that serious would be kept strictly personal and private berween us.

As fun, absolutely.  Been there, done that, happy to do it agaon.  We generaly pick together, though we cetainly have times when I don't ask "grins".

K

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:27:24 PM   
needdiscipline23


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

If she was really, really bad... like genocide, nuclear war, germ warfare, shit like that... I would make her listen to a sexuality lecture from dbg, no matter how long that lecture would last.


Thank you for that....I SO needed that tonight.

And I believe my Domme has indicated that her boy, who is a switch, will play with me as well, once I'm more comfortable, and others as well, but not until I'm a little more comfortable in the scene, so to speak.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:29:02 PM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		You bet ya! Glad I was there for ya!

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:34:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

If she was really, really bad... like genocide, nuclear war, germ warfare, shit like that... I would make her listen to a sexuality lecture from dbg, no matter how long that lecture would last.


Aww... that's mean. Poor sub!

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:34:35 PM   
kittensmailbox


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Status: offline 		i would hate it myself, i feel that by having another Dom even touch me would be a punishment within itself...

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:49:29 PM   
Melynn


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Status: offline 		I'm way too new to BDSM to even have an opinion on this, methinks, but... If it was in play, then it'd be fun, the way a threesome is. But I think if it were punishment (in my head anyways) it'd feel more like being cheated on, in some perverse and reverse way.

Punishment just seems like something that should be reserved for your master.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:53:50 PM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		Well Melynn before you get all caught up in all this you better come over for some mentoring.

digity digity... all right!

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 8:56:06 PM   
Melynn


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Status: offline 		Haha. Like I said, I'm kinda new to BDSM. I had a bf who was into spanking and wearing a collar, found that hey, a man's ass feels pretty nice beneath a hand... then a ruler... then a cane.... And, well, here I am.

I have very little expertise though, so don't be offended if my opinions or advice are naive.

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RE: Would you...... - 2/21/2007 10:31:04 PM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		No sweat my pet. You will get the swing of it!

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RE: Would you...... - 2/22/2007 5:50:54 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		I don't like to punish.  I do discipline, but I don't enjoy the formal punishment element as a rule. 

I would enjoy occasionally including another top, depending on the circumstances and people involved.  With the right person, the 'abuse' can be quite cruel. 

On that theme, I wish they'd shown how two or three drill instructures and scare the piss out of the toughest recruit when they team up, on Full Metal Jacket.  Ah well.

Stephan


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