Lawrence111
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ORIGINAL: WipeoutXL hi i was wondering how should we as doms relate to submissives that dont belong to us for instance greeting them, talking to them (when their masters arent around) i would assume that in the case of the master being around we would first ask if we may talk to his sub (at least thats what i would like any dom wanting to talk to my sub to do) my sub has had instances over irc where a dom would private her and immediately start refering to her as slut and if she doesnt greet back politely be called disrespectful anyway your thoughts please ? ;) Everyone has different rules and protocols. It's impossible to know where you stand, so I used to just stand aside. At events I used to just smile at someone (top, bottom, dom, sub, master, slave, switch, however they identify... ) and leave it up to them to say hello. Sometimes after a presentation at a conference, I would talk to the dominant who did said presentation, figuring that he was open to questions, but never to the submissive (unless I was introduced). I certainly never extended my hand to a submissive (as that might be interpreted as stepping over the line... how was I to know that that was not acceptable behavior?) and only recognized someone after their dominant partner introduced me. If the submissive was single and unescorted, then I waited until a mutual aquaintance introduced us, or until she said hello. I supppose I was less of a horn-dog than others I saw around me, and the end result was that I made some nice friends. Just one person's perspective, Lawrence Ooops! Being new to this site, I just realized that there is another "Lawrence" on-board, so to differentiate, I suppose I had better sign, Lawrence Ithaca, NY :)
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