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A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 4:17:04 PM   
cloudboy


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Status: offline 		Dear Dominants,

The subject is dirty talk or its close cousin, erotic language. What phrases, when uttered by a sub, strike you as erotic?

For instance, with my own Mistress, she likes to hear something along the lines of, "Oh, please not an enema....." which imbues her with a feeling of power and the fact that I cannot refuse her commands.

If possible, try to be as specific (as opposed to generic) as possible in your replies, i.e. try to remember something unique that washed over you when the sub uttered a particular phrase. Feel free to describe the setting and context of your experience.***

***A specific example from me is: My Mistress, at any time, may txt msg me the instruction to insert a butt plug from a start time to an end time. I cannot refuse, and I always have to do it. One time I was out, and could not insert it until forty minutes after the time she requested. I texted her about this, and her reply was, "Don't worry, you will make up for that lost time up in another manner."

(This is the eroticism of unforeseen and unknown consequences. It is very sexy, and it is very understated.)

Footnote: I ask this question b/c I think most of the erotic language of BDSM is attributable to Dominants and their language of commands, sadism, and power. Yielding and submission, on the other hand, being reactive, don't quite get the same erotic standing. So, I am fishing for the other side.

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Switches,

For you, what phrases spark your dominant mood? What turns your switch dominant?





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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 4:31:32 PM   
Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

What phrases, when uttered by a sub, strike you as erotic?



When my submissive, trying to recover from, oh, lots of things lol, softly breathes out, ""You're just crazy."

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 4:32:35 PM   
WhiteRadiance


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Status: offline 		Nothing gets my juices flowing better then making him beg for something humiliating- such as me going on a date, or being pleasured by another man's cock.   I like to hear those wimpers as he begs me to do those things.  "Please Mistress, please fuck the big dick"...
 
I also love the sound of "Yes Ma'am, right away Ma'am" and "As you wish"

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 4:43:17 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I find that the only thing that consistently draws a reaction from me is 'pigfucker'.

Not too many people think to use that one.

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 4:45:25 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		"the money will be in your account shortly" always works for me.

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 5:07:37 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		hmmm... dirty talk.  This is fun to do. 

The word "please" over and over again always gets him going.  Of course I have to feel it; that need to beg for release.  He loves it.

He also likes to hear about me fantasize about giving another guy a blow job.  There was once when I combined the two and in my fantasy the guy had to beg my Lord for an orgasm.  That got us both really hot.

*edited to add... he also likes when I get to a point during SM that I call him a "fucking asshole".

Knight's kyra

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 5:25:53 PM   
DominaSmartass


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Status: offline 		Much like your Mistress, I really enjoy hearing someone ask me *not* to do something.  It kind of strokes my sadistic side and makes me want to do it even more. Of course I wouldn't do whatever it is if it hasn't been agreed upon beforehand or at least agreed upon that I have the authority to go against his requests in the relationship as a whole.

Last weekend my boyfriend was a demo bottom to someone known as being particularly sadistic in the scene. After she was done he was back with me and was definitely still feeling it from some of the stuff she did. Ok, I won't be elusive here. She put an anal hook covered with some sort of pepper-lube inside him.  He was still feeling the burn for quite sometime. He looked at me with these puppy dog eyes and said, "Please don't ever do that to me." And of course I told him I wouldn't but inside I was thinking how beautiful that sentence was to hear and how I wish I heard it more often.


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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 5:55:43 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		The most erotic thing my slave can say to me is "Mistress" because I do not allow just anyone to call me that.

The second most erotic thing is "please".

I love to hear stories and I have specific rules about them that I find highly erotic. Must be told from the sumissive view and in first person, in active voice, with lots of descriptions and it must focus on one of my general fantasy scenarios (which are learned in training). It is very rare to find someone who can tell a good story with these criteria at the drop of a hat.

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 6:00:03 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		For me, the most erotic thing I could possibly hear is "hold me mommy" or "I love you mommy". They get me every time.
There are others, but y'all REALLY dont need to know that much about my pillow talk :P

DV

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 6:04:13 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 6:50:53 PM   
Smythe


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I like "oh no"which means he's not happy about what I am about to do, but will not even consider refusing me.
To be honest, I kind of got turned on today when I did something in the kitchen and he said "I could have done that for you."

Smythe



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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 10:47:52 PM   
szobras


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Status: offline 		Simply, "Please Master", and also when she refers to herself as "this girl".

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 2/28/2007 11:33:04 PM   
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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 5:06:19 AM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		I think most things are erotic when uttered by my sub because he has a sexy English accent.   I enjoy hearing him whisper "That hurts, Mistress." and "You drive me wild, Mistress."

Be well,
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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 6:23:14 AM   
marsman


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Status: offline 		A phrase that I love to hear that especially during a nice slow caning session is

"Please Sir, may I have another?"



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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 6:54:54 AM   
BigbadBob1


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Status: offline 		Yours begs...



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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 9:41:34 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		I use the words "Please, please, please.." a lot during scenes, and I say it like I mean it, because I really do mean it, and it has an urgency in tone that used to really be exciting to my ex-Dominant. I am really into Begging as a bdsm activity, but I didn't see it as (particularly) just a bdsm-oriented thing, and have also used it during "vanilla" sex (way back when...)

- Susan  

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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 10:00:58 AM   
ServiceNeeded


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Status: offline 		well, whimpers never get old. yummie.......
I also love to hear when I say "i'm going to ____" him reply submissively with "It would be my pleasure to ____"  "yes mistress", etc. I do like verbal acknowledgement of what is happening. Sometimes, if they don't reply, I will make them, then make them beg-- teehehe, it's Fun.

I also love a good confession story. either prompted or not. Kneeling before me, making him tell me all his little secrets.... "and what did she do?" "and what did you want her to do?" and what were you afraid she would do?".....hehe, You know what mummy is going to do now, don't you??? hehe ............ followed by of course: Whimpers.




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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 10:34:43 AM   
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Any type of begging works for me as well.


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RE: A Dominant's Erotic Ear - 3/1/2007 10:41:04 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		"You are a bastard...Sir." That is priceless. So funny. Am going to remember that one.

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