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RE: how did you get started? - 3/6/2007 6:20:29 AM   
redsky


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Status: offline 		the first time i ever had sex when i was sixteen, the guy held my wrists above my head as i lay underneath him in an old abandoned house, he let me know it was probably going to hurt like hell & he was right, it hurt. he never once let go of my wrists & talked to me the whole time telling me i was his sweet girl, we dated all through high school, but only had sex twice. i dont actually know if he ended up in this lifestyle, but after my fist experience 'normal' (nice, clean) sex just seemed boring & unsatisfactory. ok, im thinking this maybe like too much information, but oh well...thats how i got started, but didnt try it again until 3 years ago.

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/6/2007 6:26:25 AM   
soulKnife


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From: atlanta, Georgia
Status: offline 		thank you all for the stories so far. After reading these I've reflected on some things I used to do and seeing them in a different light.

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/6/2007 8:04:24 AM   
Shylahgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: soulKnife

just curious about how others began to go about exploring their interest in bdsm.


(I apologize for any miss spellings ahead of time)

I used to tie up my friends and boyfriends when I was younger.

My first ligel BDSM experince, meaning I was over 18, happened a month after my 18th birthday and a gothinc dance club in SLC   called Area 51.

It was a fetish theamed night and there were demos of supention bondage, wax play, and mummification going on that the audience could perticapate in.

I was intrested in mummification and decided to try it out. I loved it... intresting side note, the man doing the demo would later be my wonderful loving Master.

nothing else happened for about 6 months after that, I thought about that night alot, but shortly after that night I had a bad experince with someone who talked a big game but was in reallity veary dangerous. After that I thought BDSM wasn't for me.. or at least not botteming.

Then I met my Master again on myspace.

We talked for a bit and went on a cupple of dates, on the third date I came back to his house, he cut me, and we fucked. The next day I asked him if he could teach me to dominate, for some reasion I thought it would be safer, he said "I'll teach you to dominate, but only if you learn from the submissive side"... he needed someone to clean his house and take care of stuff like that. It was only ment to last a month or two.

About 3 weeks into my training we were talking about what I had learned and wanted when it was all over when I said, "What if when it's over I don't want to leave?"

And now a year and 4 months later I have earned Masters collar and have a place in his house as his live-in 24/7.

And of course, after a year and 4 months I have experince alot of diffrent play, from wax (which I didn't like so much) to blood sports like needles and cutting (which I love).

I am an active member of the SLC BDSM comunity. We have a suprising large BDSM comunity in SLC, Utah which has a very high focus on learning, so I have also been blessed in that way as well.

Shylah

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/6/2007 8:11:02 AM   
doublechocolate


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From: Richmond Hill, On
Status: offline 		thats pretty much how I got started too... as I grew older (and the internet came too) i started surfing channels and websites to learn more about the lifestyle.. and having met a few people to play with deinfately helped as well.

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/6/2007 2:32:56 PM   
iwannapullurhair


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Status: offline 		I was seeing a lady about 4 years ago and she mentioned that she liked her hair pulled. So I was used to normal, gentle sex(except for some nipple twisting with a previous ex girlfriend). I pulled her hair and the look on her face was one of being totally turned on-instantly. Everytime I would give her hair a nice hard pull, she would get so aroused and would fuck even more energetically. I came to enjoy it. She was also submissive in other ways, doing whatever I wanted. We eventually broke up, but I found a lady on Collarme back in October. She really loves the hair pulling, being held down, having her face smacked(a real turn on), obeying, and rough breast play. She would space out after I really worked on her tits without mercy. Afterward, she would need to be held while she recovered, crying sometimes for awhile. It was great.

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/17/2007 1:19:10 PM   
sabis


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quote:

ORIGINAL: soulKnife
Butch version of dolly parton? that's an odd way to describe someone :)


*smile*  She was (at that point) under 5 feet tall... already had size 38 DDD breasts, startlingly blue eyes in a VERY tanned face, and short, chopped off hair.  Her dad had the worst case of Little Man syndrome: A cherubic-faced man about 5 feet tall, who was a cop. He wanted a boy for his first child so much he sorta .. well... raised her as if she was a boy: taught her to wrestle, arm wrestle, hunt with a gun or knife, all sorts of woodscraft, etc. She was very butch, very masculine, but yet had this very pretty face and these HUGE boobs.  So... a butch Dolly is the closest I can come.
 
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~sabis
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RE: how did you get started? - 3/18/2007 6:19:06 AM   
mistresszariah1


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Status: offline 		I always was a Dominant Woman and dressed the part , My friend introduced Me as a Pro Sub/Mistress for her Dungeon

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RE: how did you get started? - 3/18/2007 6:53:35 AM   
ravenairsprite


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Joined: 7/23/2004
Status: offline 		Wow where do I start? I was an odd child according to societies standards. I was doing self bondage at 6. (Yeah like I knew what that was) I've always been naturally subserviant and would be the fall guy for anyone and everyone. I was always a people pleaser. It's kinda funny now that I think about it. My first RL experience was with a teenager when I was like 13 I think. (He had a fantasy rape fetish). I usually don't count that but if I want to be honest that is my first real experience. I first heard about BDSM when I was 16 at least I think so. It was on an HTML chat site. I experienced a small select group of friends who were into it in Louisiana. The first true community experience I had was 3 years ago. So whichever you think is most meaningful you choose. I tend to think every last one was.

Kali

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