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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 12:40:48 PM

siamsa24

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Sia, any other pictures of you in stockings? (evil grin....)

Not for sharing, those are for one person's eyes only

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 12:49:30 PM

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OMG! I thought i was the only one who absolutely HATES to shop. Master picks out 90% of my clothing. i love it and i thrive on it! When i do shop alone, its for a SPECIFIC item, and yes.... it turns into a battle with myself most of the time. If its not perfect (in my eyes) i won't spend the jack (which means i rarely spend the jack....).

I live alone these days and since I'm sans a Dom I've had to make adjustments. Luckily up until about a year ago I had a close friend that wears the same size as I do and has the same basic figure type who loves to shop. Soooo...Voila!!! We made a deal where she'd automatically pick up a second whatever if she found something cute in a different color(she's a blonde and I'm a brunette) and I'd pay her back for it later. Unfortunately, that came to a screeching halt a bit over a year ago so I'm back to muddling through on my own.

And yes, grocery shopping is just as bad, however, since I DO live alone if necessary I can skip a few meals to avoid the shopping.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 5:09:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: darlingjade

And yes, grocery shopping is just as bad, however, since I DO live alone if necessary I can skip a few meals to avoid the shopping.

you know how poor colllege students live on Ramen for lack of money to buy any other staples? darlingjade can go for days on Ramen just to avoid having to go to the store (small exaggeration, but not much). but when she does shop, she can get the best prices and deals... it is amazing.

anyway, i often find myself asking my Master what He would like me to wear. He actually prefers naked and barefooted with cuffs most of the time. He lets me wear a shirt and panties a lot, too. and has commented on how he likes certain combinations. but when we are in public, or for pictures, i like when He tells me what He'd like to see. it is all about pleasing Him to me. usually, for "out in the world" wear, He tells me to wear what i'd like, but i do go for things i know have pleased Him before.

aaaaaaaaaaaanyway, right there, it is fun to know that there is a certain thing that will drive Master wild.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 7:45:08 PM

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I love it. Master doesn't do it very often, though, but when he does he tells me how to do my make up, do my hair, everything. Generally when I am with him I am without clothes, so I guess that explains why it doesn't happen very often.

I also like having my food chosen. I prefer not to even open the menu or it is even better when Master cooks.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 8:26:36 PM

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Doug chooses what I wear daily and has for the past 6 year's. He doesn't choose food. Only because I'm a very picky eater. Some food's do not digest right and can and will double me over.
He does however try to make sure I eat. I do forget, I rarely get hungry. So I forget. Just get busy doing other things.

Do I like it. Well it is 6 year's later and we are still together. I've not known anyone in real life who wanted to go that extra mile to choose clothing. Of course, that doesn't mean there aren't some out there. However, it is a HUGE chore for Doug. He enjoys it, but in the beginning it was more of a chore. The inventories...etc. It is definately much harder on the dom than it is the sub.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/30/2005 10:49:12 PM

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Would You be kind enough to post the sites You've stumbled across? I love lolita clothing, but it's all so expensive. Trying to learn how to sew, so it might be possible for me to create my own.

Anyways, thanks in advance.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/31/2005 4:03:49 AM

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I get my clothing chosen by my Dom only when W/we get together or when He is in the mood to do so. Of course i have my regular rule of no panties. I like it when He tells me what to wear, cause i know i am pleasing Him. As for food, last week, W/we were at a restaurant and suggested that i take a healthier kind of bread.....i am not use to it, but i have to say, i was happy when He did so. He is watching what He eats,

He's a great Dom....

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/31/2005 8:36:23 AM

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Hi there.

I'm usually the Top, but recently I've taken up the position of sub just out of curiosity. No real time Domme now, but there's someone over the net I'm trying this out with. One of her first things to do was pick out the types of clothing I'm to wear.

Only skirt or dresses, and tight fitting tops. No jeans or anything like that. And the part I don't really like, no underwear, which includes bra. So far, I'm actually adhereing to the code, even given the lack of physical pursuasion. It can be odd walking around college with nips showing.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 3/31/2005 4:35:28 PM

SirCache

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Of course!

A personal favorite of mine is http://www.cosmates.jp/ because they do nice work and pay good attention to detail. Ah, now just to find someone who likes a little dressup fun!

Unfortunately, the other links I used to use are all dead, so I'm searching and researching at the moment. Oh--do a search on cosmates for 'maid', and see some of the fantastic stuff they have there!

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/1/2005 5:21:48 AM

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Ive been told both how to dress and what i will be eating....but for me its natural and a good feeling ....

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/1/2005 2:37:45 PM

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Good luck with that and have fun, I'm accually a really good seamstress and while I may be the first person to say that it's not always as hard as people think it is, however it can be horribly hard. I have made clothing and formal wear but to be honest, I think I would rather buy it. Patterns are a pain and rarely correct. But don't let me scare you from it, it is a lot of fun, but I think you'll find that the money and time you put into it adds up to the same as buying it. I keep sewing because I can't buy full Elizabethian that fits and is what I want. But it can be a wonderful journey.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/2/2005 9:09:15 AM

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How many female slaves here enjoy having outfits chosen?

Master approves of all clothing purchases and has the final say on what is to be worn with what and when at all times. this slave knows how to put an outfit together for whatever the occasion might be with what is hanging in the closet, so unless specifically instructed it is up to her to put something appropriate together and then model it for Him for final approval before leaving the house. this slave enjoy's having outfits chosen very much because it makes Him happy.

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What are you typically made to wear and how do you feel about it?

it very much depends on where we are going and what is going on once we get there.
A bra or panties would be allowed only in the most uber-vanilla instances, and would be accompanied by an equally boring vanilla outfit and shoes; a child's graduation from school or a business dinner, for example.
if we are going to a dungeon or BDSM themed party, convention or club, then it would be cuffs, collar, and leash and depending upon the rules of the location, varying degrees of nudity combined with leather and lace acoutrements(garter, skirt, top, thigh-high boots)
at home, collar and cuffs and sometimes chains when He wants, but never clothes, just a robe if it is chilly or have to answer the door.
if we go out riding bikes, or for a walk on the beach or to the gym the cuffs, chains and leash are left at home and sweats and gym clothes are on.
if the top is down on the convertible, then it is long sleeves and pants for this slave because of her sensitivity to the sun.
if we fly on a plane, this slave has to have a boa, who can fly without feathers

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What about food chosen?

Master approves of all food and when and where it will be eaten. this slave discussed all previous dietary and health history with Him before becoming His slave and He would never make this slave eat something that would disagree with her, causing her to become sick, considering her sensitivities to certain foods and additives. Master orders for His slave at restaurants or bars. this slave's childhood training taught her that was a polite thing for a man to do when out with a woman, so that's just old-fashioned chivalry like opening doors and such, isn't it?

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/7/2005 11:29:22 AM

Superman42280

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Any other subs or slaves required to wear stockings or hosiery all the time?

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/7/2005 11:43:49 AM

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How many female slaves here enjoy having outfits chosen? What are you typically made to wear and how do you feel about it? What about food chosen?

ORIGINAL: proudsub

I pick out my own clothes but Hubby will certainly tell me if He doesn't like what i'm wearing and i will change for Him. As for food no one tells me what to eat because i am the one who does all the research on nutrition and we eat according to the South Beach plan. He calls me the South Beach cop because He is trying to follow the plan but never read the book, so i have to keep Him on track.

*laughs* South Beach cop.. *laughs*

I like the challenge of dressing myself with the aim to please the Dom. Its like a special "surprise" gift for him daily, unless he specifies a specific dress for that day. Daily being told what to wear would be too micromanaging for me and I'd start to resent it. In the back of my mind the voices would start "Are you really THAT bad of a dresser? Does he really think you're THAT inept?"

As far as food chosen, that I wouldn't mind nearly at all. I wouldn't appreciate being starved to death or being made to eat really grotesque stuff. I am on a rather strict diet by Doctors orders, and have a few real dislikes that I'd consider "food limits". I am also terribly indecisive, so as long as the food was within the Doctors guidelines and edible I wouldn't mind at all.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/7/2005 11:44:32 AM

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I would say that this question has been answered pretty much as much as it is going to be.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/7/2005 7:05:31 PM

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this slave likes to have her Master pick out her clothes makes her fell that he cares ...he loves me in stokings and garter belt and high heels but i allso have a pair of high boots that he likes too...i also like when he orders for me when we go out to eat

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/8/2005 4:43:49 PM

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Bra's are very important because they support the breasts and with out them tissue breakage and saggage are much liklier to happen much much faster. Plus medical bra's support the breasts and tend to cause less back problems because I know for one big breasts DRAG on the back and shoulders.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/13/2005 12:22:03 PM

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My Master hates pantyhose he sayd it gets in the way so i have to wear thigh higs or nothing at all but he really pefres if i werst yhr thigh high he thinks its so hot

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 4/17/2005 12:36:19 AM

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I enjoy wearing a variety of clothing and outfits that please my master. My master prefers me to wear skirts with thongs so he has ready access to my bottom. He also prefers garter belts, stockings and heels. He prefers that I wear tops that show off a little cleavage in public.

Sometimes, at home, he likes me to indulge him as his french maid, including black wig and makeup. Other times, it's a baby doll or sheer nightgown. I love wearing these things because my reward is his arosal and we will both be extremely satisfied.

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RE: Clothing Chosen - 6/22/2005 4:22:27 PM

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Very sexy. I love it when a sub wears stockings, very refreshing, very sexy -- makes me happy and thus my sub happy.

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