slavegirljoy -> RE: Please help me - Re: Non-disclosure; understandable? Or manipulation? (3/8/2007 5:50:07 AM)
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Susan, i feel badly for you, in this situation. i have been in a similar predicament. Before i met my current Master, i was so excited about another Master who had written to me on Yahoo, before i even knew about CollarMe. He seemed really terrific and, not really understanding how things should be when a slave is seeking a Master through the internet, i was afraid to ask too many questions or "demand" information from Him. He told me that He was going to take care of the logistics to move me from Georgia to Virginia, where He was. He told me a lot of things. Long story short, i drove from GA to VA to meet Him at a hotel, that i paid for, and i sent Him $400.00 to secure the moving truck. He paid for nothing and then sent me an email, at the last minute, telling me that "He had found God and was taking a different path in His life" and He wished me well. It was a rude awakening and a very hard lesson for me, but it was a lesson. When i found out about CollarMe and put my profile on here, i got very lucky by stumbling onto Master David's email to me, that was nearly lost in the pages and pages of emails from others, He made it very clear from the start that He would not have me come to NC to meet Him, without first giving me His real name, First and Last, His phone number, Home as well as cell, along with a lot of other personal information. W/we spoke at great length on the phone and exchanged a lot of emails before it ever got to the point of Him taking me under "serious consideration" and giving me His personal information. It was only 3 weeks from the time He first wrote to me until i went up to NC to meet Him, but W/we covered a lot of ground in those few weeks and i never would have agreed to go to meet Him without His being able to trust me enough to give me His information. TRUST works both ways and HONESTY & OPENESS, from both Master and slave, are essential. That was my big lesson. If He can't trust you enough to give you the information that you should have to really know who He is, then you shouldn't trust Him enough to go to meet Him. It can be hard for a submissive to say to a prospective Master, "i need to have this information from You before i can really trust You enough to visit You", but, you deserve that information and He is not yet your Master, He is a "prospective" Master. You need to protect yourself and He should understand that. slave joy Owned property of Master David
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