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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 10:51:02 AM

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OT: This isn't about what the poor fellow looks like. It's about his duplicitous nature. Why do you keep trying to make it about his photograph? Would it suddenly be okay for him to deceive his wife because he was fit? Are there different moral standards depending upon weight? Where do football players fit into it, who often have very high BMI's, but are in very good physcial shape? Is there a moral to this, or do we just attempt to salve flagging morale with morels? None for me, thanks. I'm allergic.

Silly Llyren. Don't you know that pretty people make all the rules? If you are married to a pretty person, you should be so happy that this superior creature decided to marry you that you shouldn't care if he cheats!

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 10:53:27 AM

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I was married to a pretty person. Tall, dark, handsome, and could be terribly charming. In the end he was also a lying, cowardly, cheating freeloader, but then I guess it was okay, cause he was just soooo fine! (Those of you who have read the Sweet Potato Queen books should remember that bit)

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 10:53:40 AM

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I watched a film in my Sociology class recently on appearance. After the film, we had a class discussion about how unrealistic it is for women to try to look like those portrayed in magazines and on billboards. Only 5% of the population has what is considered the "perfect body" without undergoing expensive surgery. Even with surgery, one has to deal with scarring. If you have a perfect body, then you are either in the minority or covered with surgical scars.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 10:58:20 AM

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this is one of the fundamental reasons that i STRIVE to find good blowjobs, time fades all else, it turns to dust----but a good blowjob is beautiful forever.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:01:28 AM

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I can appreciate a good looking guy. But if good looks are a facade for dysfunction and low integrity, I am not interested.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:05:06 AM

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I am not good looking, entirely dysfunctional, sans a thread of integrity or couth, so I would hope to be every womans dream....and dream they do; of others.

Ron (in a wistful moment)

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:15:38 AM

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I think all us fat and happy women should put fat and happy you bet after all our posts* yes I am being facetious*

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:16:35 AM

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Oh come on, Ronnie. We all know you get more ass than a public toilet seat.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:17:44 AM

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you mean she said this...

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ORIGINAL: chrissyslave

Frankly I haven't looked at yours or anyone's profiles who posted in this thread

and she also said this as well.

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Just let me observe what your profile indicates: 180 lbs at 5'3" and suffer from a host of physical and mental problems, and no photos.

No further comment is required.

mmmmmmm so is looking at profile the same as observing a profile?

I think she is right... "No Further comment is required"... let you draw your own thoughts here.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:44:16 AM

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Or how about all us fat women sitting on the couch eating pizza get up stampeed all together as one and trample every one else lol.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:47:53 AM

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Oh no, we can't do that - we'd get blood all over the carpets, and you know what a bitch it is to get rid of blood stains ...

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:53:18 AM

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The same way I would expect us kinky people to be not diss'ed cuz of our own personal tastes, so should vanilla people be allowed to be who they are and not chastised for not being kinky, because I don't think they can help what they are or aren't into any more than we can.

I agree 100%. I have come to the conclusion that most of the women posting here from Arizona are vanilla. Nothing wrong with that, it's just an observation. It may or may not be different in other states. Nothing wrong with being vanilla, and most of them say so in their profiles, so that's OK by me.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 11:54:38 AM

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The same way I would expect us kinky people to be not diss'ed cuz of our own personal tastes, so should vanilla people be allowed to be who they are and not chastised for not being kinky, because I don't think they can help what they are or aren't into any more than we can.

I agree 100%. I have come to the conclusion that most of the women posting here from Arizona are vanilla. Nothing wrong with that, it's just an observation. It may or may not be different in other states. Nothing wrong with being vanilla, and most of them say so in their profiles, so that's OK by me.

Why are you saying that? Because they don't want to help you cheat? Being D/s doesn't mean you will help someone cheat and it doesn't make you non-monogamous.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 12:02:00 PM

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* big sigh* Yes, you're right, but I had so wanted to do a stampeed. Well maybe another time when carpets won't be ruined lol.

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Oh no, we can't do that - we'd get blood all over the carpets, and you know what a bitch it is to get rid of blood stains ...

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 12:04:52 PM

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Oh, but Aquatic ... you know that all "twue" female BDSMers are just a bunch of horny sluts that can't wait to jump into bed with the next horny, possibly disease carrying, male - no matter if he's married or not, or if we would otherwise find him attractive in any way/shape/form, or if we are even looking for a play partner. We are required, by our participation in BDSM to be exactly what the "twue" male BDSMers think that we are.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 12:06:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

* big sigh* Yes, you're right, but I had so wanted to do a stampeed. Well maybe another time when carpets won't be ruined lol.

We'll have to make sure to put tarps down first - and overlap them so that none of the blood leaks LOL

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 12:18:23 PM

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Oh, but Aquatic ... you know that all "twue" female BDSMers are just a bunch of horny sluts that can't wait to jump into bed with the next horny, possibly disease carrying, male - no matter if he's married or not, or if we would otherwise find him attractive in any way/shape/form, or if we are even looking for a play partner. We are required, by our participation in BDSM to be exactly what the "twue" male BDSMers think that we are. (end sarcasm)

Damn it you are right! I completely forget. I must be overdue for my monthly "brain-be-gone" pill. Now, is it my fault for forgetting or Valyraen's fault for not ordering me?

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 12:19:26 PM

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* big sigh* Yes, you're right, but I had so wanted to do a stampeed. Well maybe another time when carpets won't be ruined lol.

We'll have to make sure to put tarps down first - and overlap them so that none of the blood leaks LOL

Duct tape the seams so that the blood can't get through. As Martha would say, "It's a good thing."

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 5:52:41 PM

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Why do you need to hide this from her?

Because sometimes married couples have wants, desires, and needs that just can't be reconciled.

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RE: do married guys have much luck here? - 3/17/2007 5:55:59 PM

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I'm going to tell you the same thing I told the last guy looking to justify his cheating.

In the end, she WILL find out. You can save a lot of hurt, heartbreak, and devistation by being open and honest with her NOW. Yes, it is hard; yes, it will hurt her ... but you sneaking around behind her back will hurt her even more. There is no win/win solution to this, but there is a way to minimize the hurt and potential devistation and that is to talk to her and not sneak around behind her back.

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