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whipofdoom -> Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:14:54 PM)

OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.



missturbation -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:19:54 PM)

Why are you here?
I'm here to run amock and cause havoc.
How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.
I wouldnt say no [:D]
Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?
Ah i see i need to start taking it from behind to be a twue slave.
Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?
Having my ass slapped and taking it from behind?
When did the BDSM kindergarden start?
Not sure but i need to enrol.
Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?
Whos to say he hasnt?
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.
Hi my names misst and im looking for a hot quick fuck with a bit of ass slapping. Oh and the sex has to be from behind. [;)]
 



apettiger -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:20:32 PM)

this girl asks the same question right back at the Dom/Master's. submissive does not mean barbie doll, nor are all slaves 21.



IrishMist -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:22:09 PM)

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Why are you here

for the obvious intelligence that abounds [8D]
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How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.  

Golly gee...I wish
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  Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?

Bring it on [:D]
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  Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?

I know what it's about for me. As to what you think it's about...I have no fucking clue
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  I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all

Dayum. You mean I missed one?
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  When did the BDSM kindergarden start?

Monday through Friday; 7 to 3; Saturdays all day. Price is negotiable.
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[Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?/quote]
And what makes YOU think that they don't?
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So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.

Ok, if you say so.



slaveish -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:24:22 PM)

Whoa. ~eyebrows slightly raised~

Verbally attacking a roomful of strangers probably isn't the best approach from which to draw non-smartass answers.



sleazybutterfly -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:25:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Why are you here?
I'm here to run amock and cause havoc.
How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.
I wouldnt say no [:D]
Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?
Ah i see i need to start taking it from behind to be a twue slave.
Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?
Having my ass slapped and taking it from behind?
When did the BDSM kindergarden start?
Not sure but i need to enrol.
Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?
Whos to say he hasnt?
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.
Hi my names misst and im looking for a hot quick fuck with a bit of ass slapping. Oh and the sex has to be from behind. [;)]
 


Do I sense a bit of smartass in that response Misst???[;)]


We all are here for the reason we are.  Just because someone doesn't want you to be their Dom, doesn't mean they don't have a clue about what is going on.

I am always open for a good fuck, well..not so much now that Master ties my legs shut, but before then.

There are a lot of players here, no doubt on that, just ignore them and move on.



StellaByStarlite -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:27:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Why are you here?
I'm here to run amock and cause havoc.
How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.
I wouldnt say no [:D]
Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?
Ah i see i need to start taking it from behind to be a twue slave.
Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?
Having my ass slapped and taking it from behind?
When did the BDSM kindergarden start?
Not sure but i need to enrol.
Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?
Whos to say he hasnt?
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.
Hi my names misst and im looking for a hot quick fuck with a bit of ass slapping. Oh and the sex has to be from behind. [;)]
 



Hahaha! This got a real out-loud laugh out of me, sheeeeit.

Hello, my name is Stella, and I do so love a hot quick fuck with a tad tiny bit of ass slapping. Said ass-slapping can be no more then 1 min 17 seconds, and no less then 9. 3 seconds. Behind Taco Bell considered a big bonus, but will also consider behind the occasional discount outlet store



stef -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:30:23 PM)

*yawn*

Lighten up, Francis.

~stef



sabswife -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:33:58 PM)

 Why are you here?
To gather information and to gain entertainment from such posts as this.

How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.

Not I.

Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?

I'm a sub but thats just a perk.

Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?

I'm going to assume you mean slightest, but well ya never know.  In case you do, yeah loads, its both the ass slapping and the nipple biting. What else?

When did the BDSM kindergarden start?

Waiting with baited breath assuming you are likely to post lesson 1.

Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?

Of course.  Age doesn't equal wisdom.  There are many examples of 'older Master/Doms' who seem to forget which nipple to pinch.

So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.

Course I am, but I have already found the Dom I want it from :)



missturbation -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:36:20 PM)

Do I sense a bit of smartass in that response Misst???[;)]
Me a smart ass lol - never [:D]
 
Hahaha! This got a real out-loud laugh out of me, sheeeeit.
I have my moments lol [:)]



Darkspoiler -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:38:11 PM)

Why I am here is to seek a real Submissive, most that i have found here are fake as the day is long. They all bich about the oneliners in thier mail and when you send them a well thought multi sentence most times complimentary note, Would it be to much to ask for at leest a reply....Even if it is just one word. Real life ,real time I am a sadistfirst and Dom second



barefootgal -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:39:46 PM)

Just for the record, I said from day one that I didn't have the slightest of clues what this lifestyle is all about. In fact, that's why I came here!

But I do know how to spell slightest.



missturbation -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:42:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Darkspoiler

Why I am here is to seek a real Submissive, most that i have found here are fake as the day is long.
Sorry fake here.
They all bich about the oneliners in thier mail and when you send them a well thought multi sentence most times complimentary note, Would it be to much to ask for at leest a reply....
Ermmmmmmmm................yes.


 



bayboundse -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:43:16 PM)

hmmm ..... smart ass slaves who like to have their ass slapped...SOUNDS LIKE FUN!!



stef -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:44:16 PM)

Let's see...  An empty profile, a photo that makes you look like Mr. Creosote's lumberjack cousin and no forum posts at all before this attractive little whine.  I can't believe that willing victims aren't breaking down your door and lining the block!

~stef



KatyLied -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 12:51:27 PM)

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Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?


If he's not rude he's already one (huge) step up from you.



akisha -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 1:02:33 PM)

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 Why are you here?

 
I'm trying to make friends and hopefully a Dominant all for my very own *S*
 
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How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.

Not me, I can find ppl to fuck with out having to come online. Not my scene anyway. Casual sex is tiresome and non fullfulling most of the time.
 
 
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Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?
Nope but then again I never claimed to be a slave. I don't think it neccessarily means you are a sub either. But a couple of sex actions are not what determines what you are, only the person can do that themselves.
 
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 Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?
Yes, but it is about exactly what each person or couple or family feels it is about for them. What other people think does not really matter as long as they are happy with what it is they do amongts themselves.
 
quote:
 I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.


I started at 16, so at 23 I did know to some extent what i wanted. Some people didn't discouver BDSM until they were 40. Just because they are 40 and not 23, does that mean they are therefore a better Dominant or Submissive then a 23 yr old that has been in it for 7 years already?



lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 1:02:44 PM)

This boy is seeking to find his one true Owner and Mistress or Master for TPE not games .



Chloelicious -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 1:03:38 PM)

OK at my signal unleash HELL.


Why are you here?

To make friends and talk about this lifestyle and also to  be a pain in the ass to people like you.

How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.

First of all where is the( ?) in your question? How much i do not know but a sure thing is that YOU are here for that purpose and you are pissed of because they all decline!!!!


Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?

Why do you stop at slapping our ass, where you can slap faces or tits?  Imagination is something you do not use often. Do you think that being a prick made a dom out of you??


Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase daddy, tell me!!!!  Was i born in a flower or is this the stork who took me in? I can't wait to have your point of view

so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all.

Maybe because they had enough of old acid guys like you, being agressive. Maybe because being submissive does not mean that every one of us (i'm not including myself, i m not a top model) wants to have an old, buffy, heavy smoker dom.

When did the BDSM kindergarden start?

The same day  , the retirement home BDSM contest open ?

Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?

 Are you so sure to knowing it all yourself? Are you rocket scientist?

So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.

OK i m honest, i sometime look for a hot quick fuck but not with you.  But i got a few names that i maybe will reveal later and to another person.

Chloe





cariad -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 1:04:03 PM)

Greetings Masters and Mistresses
Greetings fellow slaves:

quote:

ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.


why am i here?

i am here for many reasons:

1: i am looking for a real life, tce relationship

2: i am here to learn from the forums both BDSM and Gor

3: i am here to make new friends.

i am definitely not here just to find a good fuck or to take it from behind like a good little slut.

i know that as a slave whether or not i belong to a BDSM Master or a Gorean Master, it is not about me that it is about serving Him, pleasing Him, making sure His wants, needs, desires, wishes and fantasies are fulfilled to the best of my abilities.

i know that should i do something that displeases Him, He will correct my behavior in no uncertain terms and that i deserve such punishment if i do something that has displeased Him and do not believe in whining, snivelling, complaining, trying to twist said punishment to suit my needs and i definitely do not believe in trying to get out of it.

age does not matter in the lifestyle as long as they are 18+ and have some knowledge about the lifestyle and are HONEST about their lack of knowledge, are willing to learn as a couple and willing to listen to advice from those who know more than they do, and willing to hear their slaves thoughts, concerns, fears, wishes and desires we have no right to say they do not belong in the lifestyle.

there are Doms and Masters, Dommes and Mistresses who are 50 and know nothing of the lifestyle so for you to say "When did the BDSM kindergarden start?"  is wrong in my opinion and if you feel this way then as was posted on one of the Gorean threads "Do not throw stones if you live in a glass house."

what do i mean by that last bit? simple you are no better or worse than anyone else here. in the Bible it says "Do not judge, lest Ye be judged." or something similar to that.

i am not a bible thumper by any means but do believe that what is right for one person be they a Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress, sub, slave, bottom, Top, Leather or Gorean is not always right for others.

i have had older Masters who didn't know shit from shinola and younger ones who knew lots, i have also had older Masters who knew tons and younger Masters who did not know shit from shinola so, in my opinion age is not a factor here...... Skill, knowledge, the ability and willingness to learn and grow as a Master, Mistress, Dom,Domme, Top, bottom, sub or slave is what counts.

now that i have put my $80 worth in i am off to do other things.

Blessed Be
cariad



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