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Gagging and throwing up. - 3/19/2007 7:59:42 PM   
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The person I am with enjoys me gagging while performing oral. And I am nervous I will throw up in the process. My question is, how many hours beforehand should I not eat, so that if I do throw up, it will be clear? And also, should I drink much water beforehand?

I don't mind throwing up, I just do not want any food coming up.
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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/19/2007 9:24:53 PM   
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I would wait a few hours at least so your food has a chance to digest. I myself hate performing oral recently after eating because my Master likes for me to take him all the way down my throat and I don't like throwing up at all. Water I think would be okay because if you throw it  up it will be clear.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 3:59:52 AM   
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wow... peeing in the anus... now throwing up on a dick... well at least not wanting to.... collarme is presenting me with some real unappitizing ideas today...my advice tho... is no one eva threw up on Thor... gagging doesn't have to mean violently... just that little jump in the throat creates a very nice sensation... u can control it with pracitice

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 6:36:48 AM   
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I'd be careful of doing to much of this intentional vomiting.
Once a month or so for special scenes vs every day so to speak is the rule of thumb here.
As with bulimia victims the esophagus is burned by the stomach acids produced.
Too much stomach acids in your esophagus will damage your throat over time if done too often.
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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 7:41:04 AM   
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I'd be careful of doing to much of this intentional vomiting.
Once a month or so for special scenes vs every day so to speak is the rule of thumb here.
As with bulimia victims the esophagus is burned by the stomach acids produced.
Too much stomach acids in your esophagus will damage your throat over time if done too often.
suzanne



I apologize if I made anyone misunderstand my question. This would not be an everyday situation.  This would only happen if I had to (my gag reflexes are not the greatest.) So my question was how long would it take for the fluids to actually be clear.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 9:24:00 AM   
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Dont watch gag the fag is all I can say !!! lol One very disturbing gay porn flick that intentionally causes the oral giver to throw up  yuk!!!

I first read the post wrong and thought you meant he wanted to gag you with a gag and then getyou to perform oral sex lol (its been a long day )

My only advice to you is if you are going for some deepthroat action ( I presume this is how he will gag you )  the best thing to do is breath slowly through your nose while you do it.  Putting an inch of a cock in my mouth used to make me gag and i was determined to over come this. And thankfully due to a more than willing practise person a few years back I discovered how to do it with little or no gagging, in fact any gagging now is done purosefully as the azzmaster says a little bit og gagging feels great.  The key is definatly not forcing it down if you dont want to be sick and breathing through your nose.

If you feel like you are going to be sick though i would suggest that you pull back a bit becasue you dont want to involuntarily bite his cock or start throwing up out of your nose it makes your nose sore and doesnt look to attractive lol.
You can make your self gag on purpouse by swallowing  hard while its well in your throat (well its what i do and its always worked for me).  I hope this has helped.


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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 10:21:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LickMeGood

The person I am with enjoys me gagging while performing oral. And I am nervous I will throw up in the process. My question is, how many hours beforehand should I not eat, so that if I do throw up, it will be clear? And also, should I drink much water beforehand?

I don't mind throwing up, I just do not want any food coming up.


I'd say a few hours beforehand you shouldn't be eating, in terms of drinking water I'm not sure how much that affects it.  I don't always have much of a choice in terms of when I'm going to be giving my owner oral so I've thrown up in my mouth and then just swallowed it back down (its pretty gross, but pretty unnoticable).  So worse comes to worse just swallow it back down and do some hand action while you are doing that.

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Edited to add: I've found that the wetter and snottier the head of my owners cock is, the easier it is to deep throat.


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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 10:35:34 AM   
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I hope this will be of benefit.

Some women are capable when sucking cock of spitting up copious amounts of saliva-like fluid. I do mean copious amounts, I'm not talking a little bit of spit here. I could tell you stories. ; )

When you gag and you feel liquid come up, it may NOT be from your stomach. It may, but it may not.

Early on in my own path, I trained as a sub to an extremely masterful Master. He told me this "spitting up" occurred in some, and that a body could be trained for it, but I didn't believe him. It sounded crazy. He also told me that a woman could have orgasms whenever she gags on cock if she had this ability to spit up. Not /throw/ up, but spit up.

With time and his masterful training, I discovered that he was right on all counts.

It took time. It took learning to relax. And it also took...knowing it was possible. If I had not known it was possible, /it likely never would have occurred/.

If you can learn to relax enough to gag without panic or too much discomfort...to embrace the gag...and if you can learn to watch for the possibility of a lot of fluid coming up, and learn to let it just come out (even if you're afraid of what it might be) instead of swallowing it, there are pleasure possibilities beyond just the pleasantness of gagging sensation for the male.

A sub who has orgasms every time she gags on cock would be /very pleasing/ to her Master, don't you think? ::smile:: And it certainly would motivate a sub to cock worship. ; )




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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 11:33:19 AM   
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Go to slumber parties.com they have this stuff called good head. You take a bit and rub it around the back of your throat and it numbs it back there, so you wont have that violent gagging reflex. Just light ones. My owners love that stuff, and so do I.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 12:20:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs
I don't always have much of a choice in terms of when I'm going to be giving my owner oral so I've thrown up in my mouth and then just swallowed it back down (its pretty gross, but pretty unnoticable). So worse comes to worse just swallow it back down and do some hand action while you are doing that.

C~

Edited to add: I've found that the wetter and snottier the head of my owners cock is, the easier it is to deep throat.


oh ya, same boat. i really dont know how long it takes for things to be clear, well coz i usually dont have enough warning. D LOVES to gag me with His cock and often i think He is intentionally trying to get me to puke. it has happened a few times but unless i am in the shower, ya you gotta swallow it LOL and keep on truckin

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/20/2007 9:32:50 PM   
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Thank you for all the advice so far. I really appreciate it. Please keep it coming!

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 2:23:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressScarlot

He also told me that a woman could have orgasms whenever she gags on cock if she had this ability to spit up. Not /throw/ up, but spit up.

With time and his masterful training, I discovered that he was right on all counts.

......


A sub who has orgasms every time she gags on cock would be /very pleasing/ to her Master, don't you think? ::smile:: And it certainly would motivate a sub to cock worship. ; )







Wait, what? Orgasms from ONLY gagging on a dick? No vagina action at all, no other stimulation of the body, only gagging? Please, elaborate.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 6:34:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs
I don't always have much of a choice in terms of when I'm going to be giving my owner oral so I've thrown up in my mouth and then just swallowed it back down (its pretty gross, but pretty unnoticable). So worse comes to worse just swallow it back down and do some hand action while you are doing that.

C~

Edited to add: I've found that the wetter and snottier the head of my owners cock is, the easier it is to deep throat.


oh ya, same boat. i really dont know how long it takes for things to be clear, well coz i usually dont have enough warning. D LOVES to gag me with His cock and often i think He is intentionally trying to get me to puke. it has happened a few times but unless i am in the shower, ya you gotta swallow it LOL and keep on truckin



Perhaps it might be a good idea for the Dom to inquire if his sub has enjoyed nachos and jalapenos as a snack, prior to a spur of the moment gag job? *G* Talk about feeling the burn........

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 6:48:34 AM   
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Dang!  Great topic! (and where IS that other one, Azz?)
 
I used to say I have no gag reflex.  I love oral and used to be able to deep-throat without problem.  Well, that was till I met Himself!  Sheeshhhhhhhh   Not only is he larger than I’m used to…he insists I learn to relax my throat enough for him to easily fuck it all the way down.
 
I agree about the saliva, I drip copious amounts of sudsy, slimy, clear fluid…as if my throat is cuming.  I think both of us like that part, but I don’t know how to handle not being able to breath nor the gaging that happens when he goes VERY deep…past the back of my throat.   He’s told me it is possible to learn to handle this; I like the term ‘embrace the cock’; but HOW does one do this?  As soon as I feel that gag coming on, I back right off…it’s a reflex I don’t know how to control.
 
I’m sure he’d like it if I did, however.  I’d like to learn without the aid of some chemical, too.  I have no idea what he’d think if I actually vomited; I think I’d be pretty quicked if I puked on his cock, though!!!
 
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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 10:17:33 AM   
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Practice, Practice, Practice? I think if you practice enough you might be able to handle it better without gagging so bad. But if you have tried that then maybe I am wrong. I have no gag reflex unless it is him, so I don't know much else to say I have the same problem so I try not to do that after I eat. I have never threw up but it could happen and I wouldn't swallow...sorry. lol

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 11:05:12 AM   
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God, Bearlee, that was hot. LOL.

He has laid me on my back with my head over the side of the bed for best non-gagging access.  Seems to slide right in while in that position, which allowed me to become accustomed to what it felt like having him all the way in my throat.

It's also easier when I'm laying on my back and he climbs over me and fucks my face.  I can tilt my head back and take more in without a lot of gagging. 

But it did take training for me.  When on my knees and he uses my mouth like that, he'll stop or slow when my gag kicks in (but he doesn't pull out, he stops where he is and tells me to relax before he starts up again).  Breathing slowly through my nose helps, when I am not too smothered to breathe.  The issue I have is in controlling the gagging.  I can gag but control myself so that it doesn't get to the point of vomiting.  The times I feel I am losing control of that and can't find my way back are the times my hands start flailing around frantically, and that's when he pauses to allow me a moment to recover.

Practicing on your own could help, with the use of a dildo.

As for vomiting and what to eat before hand, if this is something that doesn't happen every day (not so healthy to engage in daily vomiting) then perhaps consuming only clear liquids beginning about 12 hours beforehand could help - brothy soup, juice, tea, water - still gets your nutrients in while not making much of a mess when it all comes up.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 11:18:14 AM   
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I've had times where I'd eaten just before and didn't vomit anything despite gagging almost constantly, and times where we'd eaten 6 hours before and I got definite "last meal" vomiting.

Personally, we keep a trash can beside the bed, or a towel on the bed, and if the gagging increases to the point of vomiting, I tap out (3 taps on his hip is one of our non-verbal safewords) and puke it up and return to what I'm doing. When the vomiting happens repeatedly - two or three times in a session - I normally (very regretfully and apologetically!) say "I can't do this, I'm sorry, I just can't" and he knows that I can't handle deep throating anymore.

Sir finds the fact that I vomit and still come back hungry and wanting to suck cock VERY sexy and powerful.

Sometimes I swallow what comes up if I can, but sometimes it's too much and I can't.

I do know, however, that practice reduces the gag reflex, generally, but that my gag reflex doesn't seem to be a consistent thing that I can overwhelm or turn off. Too much stress, being too cold, performance anxiety all make me more likely to gag to the point of vomiting.

I do, however, recommend that just like fisting, when you start to gag, instead of pulling out, hold it right there and let the throat muscles relax around it.

No solution to gagging clear but a hot sexy topic, thanks!
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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 11:47:30 AM   
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Awwwww, owned, I was trying to be serious.  How do you breathe, including through your nose, when his cock is all the way down your throat?  Sometimes I think it includes anxiety over not being able to breathe.  I’ve seen a little video clip of a cock going way down a woman’s throat…you can see its progress along her neck!  I think, too, she may be lying over a bed or something; like you said.  He gets copies of all my posts…so perhaps we’ll be trying that.
 
Still, the only time I gag is when it’s WAY down my throat.  If he stopped there, I’d suffocate!  I can’t imagine how I’d handle all this if he were on top; dang…talk about flailing around frantically!!!  
 
Yes, I should try practicing with a dildo; he said it should be no different than learning to sword-swallow.   LMAO
 
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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 4:50:57 PM   
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Bearlee, I took your post seriously.  I still thought it was hot :)

Fucking a mouth/throat means the cock goes in, the cock goes out.  When the cock goes out, the slut gasps in a breath.  When it goes out again, the slut exhales the breath.  It requires focus.  Although when he cums he pushes way in and holds it and at that point there's no air to be had as the sinuses are blocked.  So the slut waits patiently until the Master is finished, and she breathes when he rolls off her.  Cum going into the sinuses takes getting used to.  The first few times there was flailing, but I've since learned that I will get air before I pass out, so I wait.

When being used this way while on my knees, I am able to slightly open my mouth around his cock and let air seep in from the corners...until he pushes back in again of course.  Think of swimming freestyle where you have to find a new breathing pattern to accomodate. For me it requires intense focus to not let the gagging get away from me uncontrollably.  Sometimes I can do it, sometimes the flailing starts.  Fortunately for me he pauses and tells me to compose myself.  There was one time when he didn't pause and I yanked my head away before the vomit reached him and managed to spew it on the floor. But as soon as I was done, my head was grabbed and he finished what he was doing with it.

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RE: Gagging and throwing up. - 3/24/2007 4:57:23 PM   
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Worst thing I have delt with on gaging is how bad my eyes run... you'd swear I was crying, but I'm not.



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