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AAkasha -> RE: Why not add (4/10/2005 7:02:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: unbrokenhouseboy
i do wish to ask though please?
if i am wrong for asking for a minimum height so i feel comvortable with someone..if i add weight so i feel comfy...
if i am so wrong..?
why is it okay that Ladies ask for young, rich, tall, handsome dudes?
i do not see too many willing to talk to someone short, poor, and not a looker.....
i do not understand two sets of rules.....it's okay Ladies can do it but guys can't?
why?
i thought fair is fair...for all.
20's and 30's guys
rich guys
tall guys
good looking guys.
but i cannot fairly seek a Lady about 5'7", around 180 to 200lbs, someone fairly nice to look at.
us guys,..no one is going to look at us, while we are digging Your flower or veggie garden. or changing bedding, or doing dishes,...all You see is our back anyway.
and even if i am sitting by Her on the floor,,,all You see is the top of our heads.....not our face..and where does tall come into this? sitting on the floor has no difference to tall.
or handsome.....
maybe rich does,..since a lot of Ladies have their hands out and purse open. i had 'a' Lady tell me She wanted someone to pay for a $100k house for Her. and "I" gave my 1st Ms $50k...
so yes, i fail to understand..please...
i cannot rightly ask for 5'7", 180 lbs, and semi pretty.....but Ladies can ask for rich, handsome, tall, and flat bellies.
i am sorry......where are the double sets of rules fair???
okay.
no more soap box.
thank You.
i'm sorry.
houseboy
Everyone has preferences for physical appearance whether they admit it or not. It's the "look" that you are programmed to have your eyes wander to in a crowded room. But a funny thing happens when you "fall" for someone based on their personality and deeper traits -- quite often, you find yourself physically attracted to them. Suddenly, they become your "ideal." This happens to a lot of couples.
Not all femdoms are looking for a rich man. You keep bringing that up. But there are some femdoms that are into financial slavery (or they call it something else) or they simply *do* want to be supported or at least share in the income. You also have to be realistic; your profile states that you are 51. If you are looking for a life partner for the rest of your life, a woman who is younger might want to have a family. A woman closer to your age might need someone to support her because of whatever financial situation she is in. These realities cannot be ignored.
Instead of dwelling on what you don't have, start focussing more on what traits you have to offer that make you unique and attractive to a femdom.
You state this:
"us guys,..no one is going to look at us, while we are digging Your flower or veggie garden. or changing bedding, or doing dishes,...all You see is our back anyway.
and even if i am sitting by Her on the floor,,,all You see is the top of our heads.....not our face..and where does tall come into this? sitting on the floor has no difference to tall.
or handsome....."
This is a situation you have created in your head that is your fantasy. You might think she should care nothing about you other than the top of your head or doing her chores. That's what *your* fantasy is. What does the potential femdom want? It might be nothing like that, she might want a best friend, a lover, a dance partner, a gentleman caller. Femdoms in your fantasies may have those "simple, basic requirements" for a slave, but I doubt many really have it so simple. The reality is, they want/need a lot more than that.
You have to work a lot harder than simply being "available."
Akasha
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