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Mustardseed -> RE: A question for Daddy Doms (4/4/2007 6:48:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lovebottom
I have been looking for a Daddy Dom for a while now and have not had much response from men who really identify as Daddy Doms.
Have you been hotlisting and/or contacting these men directly, or have you been waiting for them to contact you through your profile?
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It occurred to me that maybe the label is something that some guys are uncomfortable with even though they are in fact very Daddy-like.
Some people are very squicked by the potential incest angle. Daddy really, really gets off on that; though calling him "uncle" will send him directly into a hot shower with a Brillo pad to scrub the icky off of him. Go figure.
As far as I can tell, there are at least a couple of ways to approach Daddy/Girl relationships: either through actual ageplay, or ala the "leather daddy" / mentor-like relationships some couples have. There is, of course, a great deal of overlap between the two.
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From the responses here, it does seem that many Daddy/lg couples did not start off on that basis. So now I am wondering if I should avoid mentioning the dynamic specifically in my profile and instead use some less loaded words such as protective, nurturing, loving, etc. Maybe that would attract more men, but still Daddy-like ones?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
You could go the route of explaining what you want in your profile:
I'm looking for a Daddy-type dominant, ala the character of Jack Prosper in Carol Queen's The Leather Daddy and the Femme. I want someone who finds me fascinating and who is interested in my continued development as a submissive. I want someone protetive, nurturing, loving ... and, if he's into being called "Daddy," all, the better!
I hope that this helps. Good luck!
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