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RE: Escorts and BDSM - 5/25/2004 4:00:02 AM   
MistressDREAD


Posts: 2943
Joined: 1/1/2004
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Marissa
cudos off
to You and
Your handling
of the Collarme
unofficial police.
Good luck in Your
business ventures
and BDSM practices

I think You have sumone
whom is quite jealous of
Your ability to progress in
Your work Sista and instead
of promoting Theirself instead
tempt to find fault in Others to
further Their Own agendas and
assumptions based off of hearsay
..sad

My take on fakes is this, if they dont know the
basics and practice them then they dont get My
business or attention
The number one rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
H O N O R
The number two rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
I N T E G R I T Y
The number three rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
T R U S T
The number four rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
T O T A L L Y O P E N C O M U N I C A T I O N
The number five rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
S.S.C S A F E S A N E C O N S E N S U A L

If any of these 5 BASIC laws of Alternate Living are
broken the One breaking them is NOT living up to
their chosen Lifestyles Positions Rules, Regulations and
Proticals hence They are NOT what I would concider
to be of anyone whom would be a part of MY BDSM.

diva accused You of not following the number 4 rule and
You explained Your reasonings successfully what the issue
was about.. however I kind of question this personal crusade
of divas in that she dident follow the number 5 rule in Her
actions being sane in her slight nor concensual since You were
not being hired by her so why the deep investigation into sumone
whom has not had any contact for work contract lifestyle use
business use ect ect ect.........has diva done such a thorough
investigation on all of Us here and why? whats this motivation
to look into peoples past and bring it up as present? and why
only at this point have I only seen diva highlight and blast minorities
on this board......... is there sum kind of undercurrent We are not
seeing here? hmmmmm so many questions Im sure her vocal lungs
will accomidate
giggles
why bring issues being addressed
else where here? isent it being addressed enough there as the
heated debate or are you not getting your fill on controvery diva?
quote:

This is an ongoing fierce debate in one of the yahoo groups I'm a member of, lol, so got kinda curious what folks thoughts were on this elsewhere (prolly why I did a small rant here the other day regarding folks lying about their past
a kink concerning others pasts hmmmm
interesting

on Escorts and BDSM
First off when did the
confusion come in that
Escort service is Sex for
money? These are the
persons whom are running
illigal business and most
are busted and hauled off
to jail. A escort service
provides escorts for just
that a escort to a function
for what ever reason the
function is for so that the
single person has sumone
that they can speak to and
be seen with or in other words
to put on aires with.Why make
all escorts seem to be shaddie
in their business ventures because
of sum bad apples around??tsk tsk
BDSM
on a escort type line of service,
I can see it on the business end
The Domme dressed diva on arm
with the diplomat headed to a White
House dinner whip in hand,,,,Yep
would deffie be a controversy getter
and this does not go to say she knows
how to use that whip shes a holdin.....

(in reply to Sinergy)
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RE: Escorts and BDSM - 5/25/2004 6:23:23 PM   
ShadeDiva


Posts: 1005
Joined: 3/31/2004
From: Sacramento, California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
I think You have sumone
whom is quite jealous of
Your ability to progress in
Your work Sista and instead
of promoting Theirself instead
tempt to find fault in Others to
further Their Own agendas and
assumptions based off of hearsay
..sad


Uh huh. Jealous would be a waste of energy, and of what? One needs to have something to be jealous *of*, don't ya think? And exactly what am I supposed to be promoting, anyway? I don't do pro work, and haven't for a while. As for hearsy, I've heard quite a few creative little *explanations* - when someone gets their past history handed to them. <shrug> This isn't the first nor the last. I'd be interested what *agenda* you thought I had though - I'd imagine that would be somewhat amusing, considering you are doing the same thing you are saying *I'm* doing. Actually nevermind, it really wouldn't be all that entertaining - in hindsight. *smile* BTW, in case you missed it, those were rhethorical questions - I don't really wish for a response from you. lol.


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
If any of these 5 BASIC laws of Alternate Living are
broken the One breaking them is NOT living up to
their chosen Lifestyles Positions Rules, Regulations and
Proticals hence They are NOT what I would concider
to be of anyone whom would be a part of MY BDSM.


I'd agree.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
diva accused You of not following the number 4 rule and
You explained Your reasonings successfully what the issue
was about..


In your opinion.

Frankly I think that was a pile of bs, but hey, it's America. lol. Then again I've had a lot more experience with those kinds of folks that you have had on the net, I'd imagine. You don't *really* believe 100% of what folks say they are online do you? Oops, you don't need to answer, for evidently you *do*. Hey! I'm a millionaire! WooHoo! lol

I certainly don't. <shrug> Your choice, as you well know.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
however I kind of question this personal crusade
of divas in that she dident follow the number 5 rule in Her
actions being sane in her slight nor concensual


Your opinion. I don't base my ideal of sanity on your perception of who I am dso yanno, whatever. I see you constantly sniping at folks on the board all the time for the silliest things IMO, I'm not calling YOU insane or unconsensual, as I'd think that was rude and uncalled for and without merit. Evidently our ideas of what is rude and what has merit vary in a huge way, and I for one, am comfortable with that. It cerytainly shows that any discourse with you is pointless, so yanno, consider that noted.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
since You were
not being hired by her so why the deep investigation into sumone
whom has not had any contact for work contract lifestyle use
business use ect ect ect.........has diva done such a thorough
investigation on all of Us here and why?


Maybe I have. <shrug> Why would you care? You've already told me once, and I presume you will do it again that you care not one bit about what I think or do, so if I *had* what would it matter to you in the least? None of her real info was stated. But I'll humour you anyway - I looked her up for the reasons I stated in the first place. <shrug> I respect the fact that she isn't running with her tail between her legs but I ain't buying the *they did it* excuse, I couldn't count how many times I have heard that lame excuse. *You* may be blind enough to buy what she's selling, I am not. *MY slave webmaster did it* lol. Yeah, right. And I'm Buddha. lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
whats this motivation
to look into peoples past and bring it up as present? and why
only at this point have I only seen diva highlight and blast minorities
on this board.........


What ARE you drinking? lol. I haven't blasted a single minority - and gee that would be because I don't SEE races in humans, I see humans as a whole species, not different species. Methinks someone is projecting ytyheir *own* tendancies there, cuz it didn't come from me. You must be smoking the *good* stuff. And again, as to why I looked, I already answered that in my first post that addressed that. Perhaps *reading* would be a wise thing.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
is there sum kind of undercurrent We are not
seeing here?


Only the ones in your imagination. You've seemed to have an issue with me from the get go, why I don't know, nor do I really care. It's your issue, not mine. However, have you *ever* considered directly addressing the person you are asking the questions to, rather than the *third party* dealie you are trying here? You aren't asking Marissa, that's obvious, so why word it like you were? Why not simply direct it to *me* - or is that something you have an issue with, directing your confrontations you wish to have at someone directly, and only employ this junior high tactic of" I'm talking to you but directing it someone I like" jazz? I had actually expected more maturity in your delivery and directness from you than that - I see I was mistaken.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
hmmmmm so many questions Im sure her vocal lungs
will accomidate


Interesting verbage. Confirms my thought that we have interacted in other places before. I've never used that quote here, so evidently your issue with me stems from another space, as your ... presentation ... online has been fairly familair, as well as your round about snide remarks. And I know, you will deny that, so don't bother wasting the energy to type it yourself cuz I won't read it anyway. Unless of course you like writing to the air, then by all means, rip yourself a new one, lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
giggles
why bring issues being addressed
else where here? isent it being addressed enough there as the
heated debate or are you not getting your fill on controvery diva?


Well THERE you go girl! Bravo! The FIRST comment finally directed at me, alll that typing and you wait til the end. I applaud the fact that you finally mustered up the balls to do it. Good going.

Why do you do the things YOU do dread? Because you WANT to. That's my answer to you.

You are fully and completely capable of blocking anything I write from making it your view, as well as skipping it - if you have a problem with my posts - don't READ them. <shrug>

I'll post how I wish and what I wish as long as they are within the guidelines, as YOU will, so live with it, and move on. Now that I believe we've made ourselves both clear on where we stand with the other, I see no point in continuing this any further, as you are cemented in your views, as much as I am, and neither of us is going to budge. You can dig for your dramas with other people, don't you have some snide remarks and little board battles to carry on with as you seem to love to do? Because this is ALL you will be getting from me.

And I am sure that you care just as little as I do about the entire thing. *smile*

In any case, I've said my piece about Marissa, and my opinion about her *explanation*. I needn't waste more time doing so. And I believe you and I are perfectly clear where we stand with each other, which is to say neither of us likes nor appreciates the other, neither of us cares what the other thinks, feels, or has to say, neither of us affects the other in any shape or form, each of us sees only negative shit in what the other has to offer here, and each thinks the other has a very dubious and questionable hold on reality and sanity. Granted I don't fully think that, but let's just operate from that little point, and pretend that I do, and get on with the finalizing of that we won't be dealing with other on a great outlook. There. All done. No point in rehashing it. You do your thing, Ill do mine, and that ought to be the end of it.

Now, since this has turned into a Marissa thread - for which I admit I was mostly responsible in doing, and I apologize to everyone else about steering it that way with my response to her *claim*, I'd love to see the original topic get back on line, as people will decide what they want to about whatever, and I'm still curious what folks have to say.

Thanks to everyone else that posted a view, I'd like to see more.

~ShadeDiva

_____________________________

~ShadeDiva
My projects of love:
theFetishForums
HumanFauna
Kinked
DommeWorld

(in reply to MistressDREAD)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Escorts and BDSM - 5/26/2004 2:33:30 AM   
MistressDREAD


Posts: 2943
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline
quote:

Uh huh. Jealous would be a waste of energy, and of what? One needs to have something to be jealous *of*, don't ya think

Hmmm a little vain
arnt cha diva to think
I was addressing you
there?
quote:

Then again I've had a lot more experience with those kinds of folks that you have had on the net

what makes you think that you have had more experiance then I? do you know My experiance?
quote:

I see you constantly sniping at folks on the board all the time for the silliest things

yes I am a silly snipper which everyone had been forewared about ME when I entered here including the Moderators as I come here for sum adult fun which is quite inocent compared to slandering sumones name and business.
quote:

It cerytainly shows that any discourse with you is pointless, so yanno, consider that noted.

smart gurl
quote:

Maybe I have. <shrug> Why would you care?

stupid question. why would anyone investigate Me in any way if I was not seeking a collar from them? hidden agendas Id say.
quote:

I respect the fact that she isn't running with her tail between her legs

why would She?? She hasent done anything wrong here on the boards..
quote:

*You* may be blind enough to buy what she's selling, I am not.

Im not blind nor do I go to great lenths to investigate and slander others just because I dont like their chosen business.
quote:

What ARE you drinking?

This statement proves you do not know ME as I do not drink.
quote:

I haven't blasted a single minority -

actually I have seen you blast two here on these boards and both
were minorities plainly.
quote:

You must be smoking the *good* stuff.

This statement again proves you do not know Me as I do not smoke, much less a good brand......
quote:

You've seemed to have an issue with me from the get go,

I take issues on your words and actions here on the boards at times not you personally
quote:

*ever* considered directly addressing the person you are asking the questions to, rather than the *third party* dealie you are trying here?

I address whom I want when I want. Jealous I am not addressing you first?
quote:

I had actually expected more maturity in your delivery and directness from you

who gave you the right to expect anything from ME?
quote:

I see I was mistaken.

yep you usually are
quote:

Interesting verbage. Confirms my thought that we have interacted in other places before.

again your assumptions based off of your own inuendoes. I do not know you nor have read any other board other then collarme. Maybe you are a member of one of My Groups as another name? care to enlighten us?
quote:

cuz I won't read it anyway.

promises promises
quote:

Well THERE you go girl! Bravo! The FIRST comment finally directed at me, alll that typing and you wait til the end.

jealous I dident put you first ??
quote:

mustered up the balls

no matter what I muster it will never be balls. Im a Lady
quote:

Now that I believe we've made ourselves both clear on where we stand with the other,

No you have made it clear on where you stand not where I stand
quote:

as you are cemented in your views, as much as I am, and neither of us is going to budge.

quote:

And I am sure that you care just as little as I do about the entire thing. *smile*

actually I care greatly about My Lifestyle and is portrayal however you have made it clear where you stand.
quote:

each of us sees only negative shit in what the other has to offer here,

I disagree its you whom sees the negative shit as stated not I.
quote:

but let's just operate from that little point, and pretend that I do,

I have not give My permission to you to scene with Me.
quote:

I'd love to see the original topic get back on line.
RE: Escorts and BDSM (in reply to Sinergy)


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
My take on fakes is this, if they dont know the
basics and practice them then they dont get My
business or attention
The number one rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
H O N O R
The number two rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
I N T E G R I T Y
The number three rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
T R U S T
The number four rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
T O T A L L Y O P E N C O M U N I C A T I O N
The number five rule in any Alternate Lifestyle is
S.S.C S A F E S A N E C O N S E N S U A L

If any of these 5 BASIC laws of Alternate Living are
broken the One breaking them is NOT living up to
their chosen Lifestyles Positions Rules,

(in reply to MistressDREAD)
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