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Laura -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/6/2007 8:38:56 PM)
Many people can not understand Switches cause they insist on having titles for everything. If you stop trying to label everything life gets a lot easier.

Liiaa -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/6/2007 9:20:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: soxcuz im trying to learn more about this lifestyle.what do you have to do to become a master? i need to get a name too, right? some people have the prefix sir ive noticed. i appoligize if these are common knowledge questions, but i just visited the website yesterday. anyone care to enlighten me? please email me and help me get a better understanding Its Easy to become a Master......you wake up and Dawn the tital..thats it Duh! or one day your mate for life sends you an email and asks you...what do you think about this,and at that point you wake up and scream Oooooohhhhhh shit what have i missed. what is she talking about...so you as the Master "the man of the house" set your sights on New goals..as now you have a mission. But where do i find the plan......as real men...errrrrrrr Masters 'no disrespect ment for the female Masters' Dont need to ask directions right we Know what we want. so you read and talk to your sub,you read MORE until your eyes bleed and you start to feel like a slave 'again no disrespect ment' to the computer or amazon.com for the Road map of life...Your life as a Master, But you can call me Sir. at that Point your toung is numb and not from the Ginger oil, but from asking so many stupid question and still missing all the turns of life to becoming a Master...your New Name.....As you Demand to be called as you have earned it. so you Set out to buy a Puppy as you are its Master!!!! It will Obey you as you command it to do so,It will submit as you Command !...ps make sure you get plenty of papper towls, as you Both will be useing them ;) then you go back to your studies and reading these fourms, at that point your begin to understand what the "Word" Master really means to YOU as you pour a cold beverage of your choice and you look into the mirror and you really get a good look at the Master...real close like, then you will have a Better idea of how to become a Master. You will Never see Master nor Sir in front of my name, nor will you ever see pic's of my engorged member...... As i have asked the question's that i have mentioned...i have looked into that mirror and what i have seen, Will not be what you see. The Respect that i some day wish to demand from My Sub will not be the same respect that you Demand. all my stupid questions are my questions...my pain,my learning and my wounds of failure to better under stand my wourld ,my Life, My goals.....and Most of all My wife. as i have asked many Masters and have many different replies to the same question. the real answer to "how do u become a master" is not answered by other masters, its answered buy the People in your life, who put Their Life in Your hands, they will give you the Name as Master/Sir its not a name to flant or to be tossed about...its a Gift to those who have earned it from those who have felt your love and trust to call you by it. For those of you that have earend the tital Master....i applaud you humblie. "these are my views and not to be pointed at anyone with there own views"

BrutalDemon -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/7/2007 6:18:25 AM)
Seems the simple answer is... there's no simple answer :D Consensus leans towards "You don't ever get to call yourself Master, only other people can do that", which seems reasonable enough to me. There are degrees of Dominance... and some people seem to equate that to levels in a game. Get to Master Level and you 'win' the game. Maybe it's the cyber influence?

Level -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/7/2007 6:25:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: soxcuz im trying to learn more about this lifestyle.what do you have to do to become a master? i need to get a name too, right? some people have the prefix sir ive noticed. i appoligize if these are common knowledge questions, but i just visited the website yesterday. anyone care to enlighten me? please email me and help me get a better understanding First, you really must start capitalizing "I", or you'll never get your Master's Degree [:D]. And don't be afraid to add y and o to the letter u. Kidding aside, what makes you want to be a "master"?

Level -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/7/2007 6:27:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Well, Ron, that all sounds very nice. But you completed screwed up on your name. It's not sir enough for you to be a master. Sorry. Sincerely, True Sub Shouldn't that be "twue", Katy? [:-]

MistressNoName -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/7/2007 6:42:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Laura Many people can not understand Switches cause they insist on having titles for everything. ?????????????????????????

TheManInCharge -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/8/2007 6:25:43 PM)
For me it is a simple as this, you become a Master when a submissive views you as her Master and she as your slave. That act is the only thing that will grant you the "title," and it is only from that subs perspective. If my sub regards me as her Master, that does not mean I am a Master to other subs. Of course your can become a master of D/s, just like you can become a master of snowboarding or ham radio. This simply means you have a sufficent skill set that demonstrates your abilities. All Doms should effort themselves toward become masters in that regard as well. (excerpt from email sent by me to another Dom)

BrutalDemon -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/9/2007 11:17:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheManInCharge All Doms should effort themselves toward become masters in that regard as well. (excerpt from email sent by me to another Dom) Awww, crap... if I'd known there was gonna be an exam at the end, I'd have studied harder. Seriously, tho... I do this because I enjoy doing it and want to share that with people in a receptive mood. Is it a vocation? It might be to some, but I'm not one of them. I just am. (Note to self: It appears being hungry makes me come over all philosophical... where's the kitchen?)

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: how do u become a master? (4/9/2007 11:59:37 AM)
The word master in your handle certainly doesn't make you one.Long years, lots of experience and the mastering of one self first and fore most is the key.IF you can't master your self then how are you to master others.A difficult question that has many complex answers and as always many people view the art of a master different and it is an art...bounty

BearsBreech -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/11/2007 8:58:55 PM)
Attend classes sponsored by your local BDSM organizations. That will do nothing for your D/s, but you will become a more accomplished practitioner. Becoming a Master has everything to do with leadership, of your submissive and within the D/s community. Volunteer! Get involved! Be always loving and gracious, but strong and resolute. Smile. Accomplished Masters are a rare breed. Have patience. In a little while you yourself will become the hunted. Bear

N4SDChastity -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/12/2007 4:19:04 AM)
There's a kit. Comes from ACME. Includes EVERYTHING you need, even a blow-up slave, for you to get started with. After watching the DVD, and taking the test at the end (you must have an internet connection), you'll be a registered "Master." You'll get your certificate (suitable for framing) in the mail approx. 2-weeks later. You can even but a picture ID from their website, if you want, but they're kind of expensive. I lost the link, but, if I ever find it again I'll be sure and postback here[:D]

Faramir -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/13/2007 6:34:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you I'll make this very simple. You can play at being a Master(talk to switches) but you can't become one unless you discover it within you later in life. Holy shit man--where the fuck do you come up with this stuff? Did you go to a special school to make demented, semi-sensical pronouncements? If fucking Stevie Switch says he's Master over Suzy Slave, who the fuck the fuck are you to to say he's just playing? And you can't "become one unless you discover it within you later in life?" What, like if you started tying girls up in college and bossing your partner around it wasn't real? You had to have some special epiphany at 40? What the hell does that even mean? It parses as English but it makes no friggin' sense. Dude, wake the fuck up. You aren't part of an esoteric, secret society. You didn't earn your 40th Dom Merit badge, or your 10th Dan belt of Mastery. Presumably, your winkie gets all engorged at the thought of blow-jobs on demand. Great. Fabulous. There's no virtue, merit, or special sauce with that. It's like enjoying fried cheese curds. Great that you like them, some folks don't, but it doesn't say anything about your character or spirit.

bigskycountry -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/13/2007 8:01:30 PM)
A master is slowly created over many occurances wherein the sub is at the brink and leaps; only to find themself safe and greatful and more whole. Sure, I could flog someone until they call me Master, but that is merely a Skinner box response which would thusly speak to an inability on my part to have the interests and development of the subject as My impetus. I have no "axe to grind." That said: when a suitable and workable piece of steel presents itself, it shall be tempered and hammered and honed to split what I swing it at. For Me, when I dom it is to indulge in a specific dynamic. Being a Master encompasses life lessons and personal progression.

TPEOwner -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/13/2007 8:20:29 PM)
If the title matters, you don't deserve it. PC, touchy feely, "loving dominant" crap. GAG! Learn what makes you fulfilled. Find a partner that compliments you. End of story.

HeavansKeeper -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/14/2007 4:43:50 AM)
"Master" is just a word. Six letters. You can claim you are her Master... you'll just have a very wild and untamed slave. You can wait until she just starts calling you Master. You could even blurt out "Call me Master!" in the same setting "Say my name!" or "Call me Daddy!" would work. In the end, it's all on you and your pet. I'm from the school of thought that there's no wrong* way to live a BDSM lifestyle. Whatever works. Some people use it as a kink thing and others live a very complete 24/7 lifestyle around it. The original post regarded "Master" almost as a rank to be earned. That's the wrong way of looking at it. Enjoy the journey, the destination is nothing. * = Unsafe BDSM practices are "wrong" in my book. You don't recklessly mix fireplay and wooden cages unless your sub is Houdini. Water play and electrical play are another great waste of slave.

Arpig -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/15/2007 10:46:36 AM)
To be a "master" you need somebody who recognises you as such.....simple as that. and as for a name, I believe your parents alreadygave you one.

SimplyMichael -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/15/2007 11:51:16 AM)
I did it by making mistakes, lots of them. I did it by looking at those mistakes and seeing what I did wrong and working to change it. I did it by learning to be humble. I did it by looking deep within myself and rooting out things I didn't like and replacing them with things I did.

WilliamWizer -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/15/2007 12:15:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: soxcuz im trying to learn more about this lifestyle.what do you have to do to become a master? i need to get a name too, right? some people have the prefix sir ive noticed. i appoligize if these are common knowledge questions, but i just visited the website yesterday. anyone care to enlighten me? please email me and help me get a better understanding To be a master you only need a slave that recognizes you as her master. that's the only condition needed. To be a good master...that's diferent. I'm not sure if anybody can answer that question but reading, talking with more experienced masters and practice are things that sure help. you don't need any other name than whatever you want to be called and as others have said titles and prefixes means very little or nothing. you won't be any better or worse by writting a few letters in front of your name.

kinkymrfox -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/16/2007 4:49:39 PM)
Starting with the original question, I just found someone who liked being submissive, enjoyed being dominant and watched whippedass .com I liked it and went to a fetish club. Spanked people and that was that. I just kinda stumbled along till i was having fun. I wish it was more elaborate and interesting than that but really it was a natural progression!

tade -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/16/2007 5:00:49 PM)
I aquired the Super Secret Master Decoder Ring and it's been nothing but on demand blow-jobs ever since...

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