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earthycouple -> RE: how do u become a master? (5/18/2007 5:45:58 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MistressNoName
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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you
I'll make this very simple. You can play at being a Master(talk to switches) but you can't become one unless you discover it within you later in life. If you have always thought in terms of Dominence then there are steps you can take to act more Masterly. To be the real deal it's something you were born with.
I have to take issue with the "talk to switches" remark in parenthesis. Are you suggesting that a switch cannot be a Master or that switches only "play at" being Masters? That's what I think you're saying and I gotta tell you, this perception is so incorrect I don't even have words for it. A person can and many do, identify as switch...and some choose the role of switch, or of sub or of Master. I've said it somewhere before, and yes, it's only my opinion, still, I believe it's correct that orientation is one thing while role is/can be quite another.
MNN
Well thank you for saying it as well as I could, if not better, MistressNoName. Could he have been more passive agressive?
If you want to become a dominant, OP, then you need to learn yourself first. SimplyMichael said it well. You can not, under any circumstance control someone else if you can't control yourself first. Thus far, I'm not impressed. You appear to be playing. If I were you... I'd think and do some research before I post again so you can formulate better questions for those of us with some Real Time Encounters under our corsets and belts.
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