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Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 12:36:10 AM

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I have gone on 2 dates with Dominant men in my life: one in 1998 and the other in 2001

They had one thing in common: both made very clear to me in a solemn voice that they never go down on women

The first said he never would - and then in the height of passion did. Up against a wall. Is that some kind of Dom trick? Playing hard to get?

The second said he never would - and he was so creepy, I was glad I never found out. He wasn't hard to get, he was hard to want.

Two is a small sample. This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

PS: this question follows from a similar one in Ask a Mistress because it seems some Masters have got very strong opinions whether Dominants like to perform oral sex on submissives. Fire away boys!

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 12:52:21 AM

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Score is now 2:1. I vote in favor of mutual enjoyment. I'm 69 and of all the women I've met only very few wouldn't do oral. So, I don't have a problem driving the little ladies up a wall with my attention. Of course if she were not clean I would back pedal right out of there, but of all the ladies I've experienced I think only two I had any problem with in that respect.

I do love to torment them to the point of tears, begging to be allowed to climax, pretty much the worst of my sadism!!!!!!

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 3:57:12 AM

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I've always been a big believer in reciprocity and I pride myself on being a silver-tongued devil (in more ways than one), so I view going down on Aqua as beneficial for both of us: I strengthen and develop dexterity with one of humanity's most-used muscles, and she gets... well, let's just say that I've had to strap her down to keep her in one spot when I go to town.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:32:41 AM

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Two is a small sample. This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

Yes. It's fun, and I find it doesn't conflict with my low-carb philosophy of nutrition.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:36:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourneThis is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

PS: this question follows from a similar one in Ask a Mistress because it seems some Masters have got very strong opinions whether Dominants like to perform oral sex on submissives.

Yes I did state that in the other post #149

http://www.collarchat.com/m_935617/mpage_8/key_/tm.htm

Seems it has been rather interesting discussion going on and I would welcome any perceptions of other Dominants to join in the discussion after reading the posts from the start.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:39:13 AM

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absolutely !!

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:50:00 AM

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I love oral sex both giving and receiving.SOME subs refuse to let their dom go down on them as they feel its not the thing for a dominant to do.I love a nice little clit rolling over my tongue as I suck the sweet juices.I want to add that I just don't suck any little pussy that cums along...IT must neat , attractive neatly trimmed and without saying a shower..as always just the views of this ol" master..bounty

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:52:01 AM

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I love oral sex both giving and receiving.SOME subs refuse to let their dom go down on them as they feel its not the thing for a dominant to do.

I agree. In My experience I must of encountered this about 20 times.

I have wondered if it was a previous experience of abuse as those that did were EXCELLENT in giving head.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 6:54:23 AM

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Hence the 69 in SirDiscipliner69

Nothing as so sweet as the bound sucking of a female mount to the point of it being dry and her passed out from exhaustion

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 7:07:53 AM

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Yes most that refuse oral are great at giving head,.I have seen to the case mostly with "good" catholic girls,I wonder if it not abuse if its the shame that someone has heaped on them.I have had a few that doesn't want an orgasm just to give the pleasure that you as a DOM require..I often point out if a dom finds this pleasurable on his part then she should receive what he wish to give her..I always keep in mind that"the scars on the mind if often more difficult to heal then those on the body"....bounty

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 7:25:13 AM

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Ross thinks he is gods gift to women because he enjoys oral sex and like most other things imagines he is one of a special few.

I for one LOVE pleasuring a woman with my mouth. I look at lovemaking like an indian, I want to eat every single part of a woman's body, leave nothing unravaged.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 7:36:04 AM

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Oh HELL yes. Right after the clothespins come off is a particularly good moment for it.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 7:39:15 AM

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Daddy likes it. ~smiles~ Which is a minor conflict, but only minor. Before I met him, my rule was "I don't like cunnilingus" and most people I meet get the same story. Thankfully, Daddy is wise enough to get me turned on FIRST (rather than assuming that act will turn me on) and makes it a very enjoyable experience. Knowing my prior reluctance, however, it is a treat I get rarely, out of his respect for my preferences (I should make clear to him that those are EX preferences, huh?).

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 7:51:02 AM

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Ross thinks he is gods gift to women because he enjoys oral sex and like most other things imagines he is one of a special few.

Crappy...seems all that comes out of you is crappy...

Actualy the women...not I think that.

Why is it you feel you must follow Me around and bad mouth Me?

At your weight if you get up and occasionally move so they do not mistake you for a manikin you might get into shape instead of looking like Jubba the Hut

you never did respond to My private message of calling you what we are alll talking about eating...a young cat...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_333200/mpage_413/key_pussy/tm.htm#508550

wonder what it might be?

Anyway if you start working out I am sure your dim negative veiw will improve as you will find it easier to get away from the food encrusted keyboard and maybe you will have a better outlook in life

Have a pleasant Easter.

Ross
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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:30:19 AM

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OK -- I was a dyke for many years, over 20. Even then cunnilingus was not my sup of tea. Having nothing to do with upbringing. In order to get off I need my head heavily in the game. And if his mouth is down there full of me my head is not overwhelmed by him or her. The ongoing sex banter is cut off. That's just me, no matter how good the person thinks she is techincally. So that takes me to fantasy land, cause fantasies can overwhelm my head, it's how I masturbate. But I have no desire to being fantasy land with another. I'd much rather have him up there physically with me. That's me.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:34:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

To use the vernacular, I am 'down' with, um 'down'. All day long.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:41:43 AM

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I do as often as I desire which is about 2 times a week, and don't care if others find it undomly. I could not be in a LTR with a sub who has it as a hard limit (and some do).

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:47:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Ross thinks he is gods gift to women because he enjoys oral sex and like most other things imagines he is one of a special few.

Crappy...seems all that comes out of you is crappy...

Actualy the women...not I think that.

Why is it you feel you must follow Me around and bad mouth Me?

At your weight if you get up and occasionally move so they do not mistake you for a manikin you might get into shape instead of looking like Jubba the Hut

you never did respond to My private message of calling you what we are alll talking about eating...a young cat...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_333200/mpage_413/key_pussy/tm.htm#508550

wonder what it might be?

Anyway if you start working out I am sure your dim negative veiw will improve as you will find it easier to get away from the food encrusted keyboard and maybe you will have a better outlook in life

Have a pleasant Easter.

Ross
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Now boys, can't we play nice? Pretty please? It's distressing to see such a waste of energy on both sides that could be channelled into something so much more,
interesting?

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:47:50 AM

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{fast reply}

you guys will jump at any chance to promote your "talents" won't you

LOL

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/7/2007 8:52:15 AM

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Ross thinks he is gods gift to women because he enjoys oral sex and like most other things imagines he is one of a special few.

Crappy...seems all that comes out of you is crappy...

Y'all make sure you stand down wind..... ok?

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